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Conflict Resolution should be the very first topic for anybody who wants to proceed into a monogamous relationship. This all goes back to your foundation and the grass roots of your relationship. There is no point of holding feelings inside or being passive aggressive. Say what you need to say in a constructive, open ended manor so the other party doesn't feel attacked. That's why it's imperative to not send your representative during the honeymoon phase. Always be up front on how you deal with problems from jump. The problem nowadays is that a lot of us( some were fortunate) came from broken households or saw our parents fight and we internalized that behavior as the means of handling problems. I used to shutdown, yell, punch walls, slam doors because I kept all that energy pent up not realizing my mother used to do the same exact thing. Trying to mesh two different people from two different backgrounds is hard but if you guys actually sit down and have the hard conversations first everything else is a cake walk. My wife and I still do couples therapy from time to time and instead of arguing and being in the heat of the moment, we step back, breathe and communicate effectively on how we feel about the situation. We made a promise to end the cycle with us on what we saw so our daughter can grow up and know how to not only speak to people but also know when a situation can't be selvedge.
Once again a lot of our relationship problems we face(from friends-family) are learned behaviors we haven't dealt with as children/adults.
This is were loving and taking care of your star player comes into play and knowing how to proceed with these females from the jump.
Be who you truly are from the very first handshake and don't be scared to let Yambs pass you by. Save yourself the heartache. Now conflict resolution can be fixed but it's up to the main individuals to seek help/understanding to change learn behaviors to have an enriching relationships of all kinds.
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Once again a lot of our relationship problems we face(from friends-family) are learned behaviors we haven't dealt with as children/adults.
This is were loving and taking care of your star player comes into play and knowing how to proceed with these females from the jump.
Be who you truly are from the very first handshake and don't be scared to let Yambs pass you by. Save yourself the heartache. Now conflict resolution can be fixed but it's up to the main individuals to seek help/understanding to change learn behaviors to have an enriching relationships of all kinds.
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maybe i'm soft but i just can't dig it unless i've already established something with them. i'll probably see this chick around since she's my close friend's boyfriends best friend so it isn't any huge deal. plus she's only a 2.0 WAR using ECook's standards so it isn't a huge loss. But for that 2 hour stretch, idk man, it just felt special in a weird way.
