TAY: thread about yambs...

[jhes91]

I'm talking about the uglies.




Should I just ignore the question and walk away (like they did to me)? .

I would friendzone them and see if they have some friends that are smashable.

 

[youngdoc]

I'm talking about the uglies.




Should I just ignore the question and walk away (like they did to me)? .

Or these girls you know/will run into again or randoms at bars?

 

[coolgraymemo]

Sort of randoms.

I go to school on a big campus (~ 30,000 students). I'm not sure if I will bump into them again.


I'm talking 'bout girls you don't even want to have on speed-dial for the booty call.

 

[rare]

Lesson I was trying to tell young Rare is that there are older more mature wolves out there who've refined their game and will push it into overdrive when they realize they might lose their prey. Smh at spending time worrying about how he looked.

It's a good thing im learning all of this now, I swear TAY has saved me already from some headaches I may have encountered in the future. Of course I'll get to the point of error, no one mans game is going to be perfect. (Unless they're one of those professional pick up artists I saw over the summer )

 

[youngdoc]

Sort of randoms.

I go to school on a big campus (~ 30,000 students). I'm not sure if I will bump into them again.


I'm talking 'bout girls you don't even want to have on speed-dial for the booty call.

Be honest. "Sorry I'm not interested"

 

[coolgraymemo]

I'm not going to lie.

I feel like straight up asking this girl why she dissed me like that.

Like not even trying to get at her anymore. Just trying to figure out why she acted the way she did.





In the words of Drake, #YOLO.

 

[Coromanti]

I'm not going to lie.

I feel like straight up asking this girl why she dissed me like that.

Like not even trying to get at her anymore. Just trying to figure out why she acted the way she did.





In the words of Drake, #YOLO.

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

that door can MAYBE be reopened at a later date.

This will just have it bolted and welded shut.

And from the other side she'll call you thirsty and or desperate.

 

[coolgraymemo]

I was thinking about it while on the toilet and realized it was a bad idea. A really bad idea.

 

[アミーゴ]

It's a good thing im learning all of this now, I swear TAY has saved me already from some headaches I may have encountered in the future. Of course I'll get to the point of error, no one mans game is going to be perfect. (Unless they're one of those professional pick up artists I saw over the summer )

What if I was one

 

[Coromanti]

 

It's a good thing im learning all of this now, I swear TAY has saved me already from some headaches I may have encountered in the future. Of course I'll get to the point of error, no one mans game is going to be perfect. (Unless they're one of those professional pick up artists I saw over the summer

)

What if I was one

Then you aint droppin enough gems.

 

[アミーゴ]

Then you aint droppin enough gems.

Ask me some questions. U know I'm always in here helping out

 

[tdogg2k]

I don't think i've ever said this to anyone, but your situation is starting to make me sick. Id rather you post when you have some positive news now.

it's been sort of depressing since day 1.




on a brighter note, i was watching that show girl code on mtv.. they have a lot of little inside tips on there that would be helpful to a lot of people.
and some of the chicks on there are hot

 

[アミーゴ]

I don't think i've ever said this to anyone, but your situation is starting to make me sick. Id rather you post when you have some positive news now.

it's been sort of depressing since day 1.




on a brighter note, i was watching that show girl code on mtv.. they have a lot of little inside tips on there that would be helpful to a lot of people.
and some of the chicks on there are hot

I watched a few times but I thought it was just all basic knowledge... but then again, some of the questions/ thoughts/ problems in here are.

No shots at anyone.

 

[Bruce Banner]

So I'm at the library with my homeboy doing some studying before this test and guest who is sitting next to me at this very moment lol the Spanish library chick I told you guys about that I was nervous to speak to ..but idk how to start this conversation tho usually I bring up a random class and convo just start flowing .

 

[301216baller]

just say hey whats up lol

 

[Mark Antony]

I don't think i've ever said this to anyone, but your situation is starting to make me sick. Id rather you post when you have some positive news now.

it's been sort of depressing since day 1.




on a brighter note, i was watching that show girl code on mtv.. they have a lot of little inside tips on there that would be helpful to a lot of people.
and some of the chicks on there are hot

Damn. Dude talking bout ugly chicks, bet they're not even really that ugly, and they're not really throwing themselves at you. Unless they're wildly annoying I don't see a prob taking the number.

 

[36 ounces]

I don't think i've ever said this to anyone, but your situation is starting to make me sick. Id rather you post when you have some positive news now.

it's been sort of depressing since day 1.




on a brighter note, i was watching that show girl code on mtv.. they have a lot of little inside tips on there that would be helpful to a lot of people.
and some of the chicks on there are hot

Yea I watch it, that girl Tanisha Long would get the roughest sex possible

 

[tdogg2k]

Yea I watch it, that girl Tanisha Long would get the roughest sex possible

She easily the baddest on that show.


so TAY fam, I officially got offered the job Overseas. (TAY INTERNATIONAL)
So ofcourse what happens when I let a few females know.
They want to hang out more, and kind of let it known they had a bit of a thing for me.
This happened last time I went overseas.. the yambs came out the wood work..


No worries. I already have a line up overseas. plus always more to meet.

This is all if I take this job which im about 85% sure I am.

Going to start up my personal training side gig out there again, it's about to be on.

 

[keel252]

Nah fellas Alesha, Nessa and April Rose would all get wife.


TDogg that's how these women work hear you got something great going on and they wanna be apart of it. Please keep The TAY fam in the loop on the buns across the pond act.

 

[fontaine]

How it went down.

Spoiler: tl;dr

I got to class a little early (~ 30 minutes before class started). I was sitting at some benches near the entrance. TA walks by, I'm assuming she's going to sit in the empty seat near me. Nope.
She continues walking and sits way at the other end. This is when I posted "Nice blow to my self esteem."

I was like you know, forget it. She maybe didn't see me (it would be hard not to notice me since I was sitting directly in front of the stairs, but oh well).

Go on to class.
Class ends, I walk up to her and ask her if we're still meeting after class. She tells me to wait for a few minutes while she says bye to the professor (last day of class).

We're walking upstairs looking for a place to sit. We end up finding two empty chairs. This whole time we're talking about something off topic. She starts telling me how she's really busy and has no time for anything else. This comes off as weird since the other times I had chatted with her, she took her time.

We sit down, I ask her some BS questions about the assignment. She gives me her advice. She starts writing on my paper. At this point, I'm about to say, "Just put your phone number on there," but resist. I'm still thinking I'll give her my number once our conversation ends.

Before I'm even done with my questions, she starts packing her stuff up to leave. So I do the same. I walk her over and say "You've been a lot of help, let me get you some coffee" (or something along those lines). She makes some excuse about having to go home or being in a rush.

I'm like okay. I rip of piece of paper I have in my backpack and start writing my number on it. She notices and says, "I really have to go bye." I say, "Let me finish real quick." At this point she's like ten feet away and she just says bye.

So I'm standing there like an idiot holding a piece a paper.


She was acting a lot different than the other times I had spoken to her. I'm not sure if she had a sudden change of heart or what.


Feels batman.

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

Learn from my mistake.

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

In the walk of shame from where she left me standing to my bike:

learn from mistakes is the most awesome part of this post.

 

[fontaine]

I'm not going to lie. I'm pretty bummed.

Not bummed at the rejection, but bummed as to how it went down.

The "I should have..." thoughts are killing me.



Confidence was high all day, then it was gradually knocked down to where we are now.

I'll do you one better.

I spoke earlier about how approaching chicks out the blue works in some situations... Not in others...

Me being the hard headed horny feller, I go against that because denials really don't bumb me out like they used to.

There was a time where I'd internalize it. "I'm too ugly, I'm too this, I'm not tall enough"

Saying all these things regardless of how many yambs have said I was cute, I'm pretty stable, and 5'11".

The other day, I pass by a breezy with the DONK... Short black girl. I wheel around and eventually see her in line for coffee. I go up to her and say "hey how's it going"

Her: *looks up* good. Long day *goes back deep into her phone AKA get outta here dude*
Me: well I seen you earlier and wanted to come say hello
Her: oh. Hi... *still in phone*
Me: you said you had a long day. Days almost over. You should be happy
Her: I guess *still in phone*
Me: damb. I can't even get acknowledgment? You're in your phone a d I'm late to class trying to come and talk to you
Her: I'm sorry. You can go to class
Me: OK.

I was floored because I haven't been denied like that in awhile... Took me a few hours to get over KT because of how sure she was.

I've been rejected plenty of times, but this one felt like she took one look and though "Naw... You just don't do it for me"

Most guys in here will only tell you about their fall away three pointers in the corner all net... But great scorers miss too.

Don't feel bad bro. Rehash what you did wrong and correct it next time. I promise you there will be more misses than makes... But in the end, not trying is the most dreadful miss of them all.

I felt bad for a few hours... Can't front... But best believed I'm coming harder at the next big booty breezy I see... And I'm going to keep campaigning till I get elected in this bissssshh.

 

[romedadude]

That post reminded me of something Rick.

A few weeks back when me and Jay went to the cougar spot, we were just chopping it up and sharing stories and what not. He said something that stuck with me,"Persistence beats resistance."

It's like a lightbulb went off in my head.

I immediately gave it a basketball analogy. You keep getting rejected, bricking shots, and you try to figure out what's wrong.

"Do I suck?" (maybe)
"Is it the gym?"
"Is it my shoes?"


We put up these psychological barriers. When all we have to do is get out on the proverbial "court" and get shots up, work on your form, and eventually they'll go in. Consider this thread our locker room, and the world our court to go put in work.

Once we boil all this down, it's not really rocket science. Just get out there and TRY!

 

[xbiker47]

 

[checks mcgee]

Girls love choosing. They might have already chose you before you got all nervous and gathered your words.


Don't be ugly and if you are ugly, be funny.

 

[rare]

Love helping out my friend trying to bag this shorty. Also, the yambs from a few days ago wasn't at school today.