TAY: thread about yambs...

[アミーゴ]

This thread is so disappointing lately.

Ricky- Good work. If u shooting 30%, u still hitting 3 outta 10. Gotta teach these new guys in here that

 

[BALH ENH]

Girls love choosing. They might have already chose you before you got all nervous and gathered your words.


Don't be ugly and if you are ugly, be funny.

Real ****. From first second yall make eye contact (if its mutual, you're in there).

You could be playing it safe, and she chose you. You would have no idea til its bedtime 

 Just dont make the mistake i made.

 

[youngdoc]

This thread is so disappointing lately.

Ricky- Good work. If u shooting 30%, u still hitting 3 outta 10. Gotta teach these new guys in here that

.300 is a good batting average and when you consider the yambs that choose you (walks) your on base percentage is solid too

E, we'll have some good stories this weekend. I'm still determined to make something happen tomorrow night

 

[coolgraymemo]

I'll do you one better.

I spoke earlier about how approaching chicks out the blue works in some situations... Not in others...

Me being the hard headed horny feller, I go against that because denials really don't bumb me out like they used to.

There was a time where I'd internalize it. "I'm too ugly, I'm too this, I'm not tall enough"

Saying all these things regardless of how many yambs have said I was cute, I'm pretty stable, and 5'11".

The other day, I pass by a breezy with the DONK... Short black girl. I wheel around and eventually see her in line for coffee. I go up to her and say "hey how's it going"

Her: *looks up* good. Long day *goes back deep into her phone AKA get outta here dude*
Me: well I seen you earlier and wanted to come say hello
Her: oh. Hi... *still in phone*
Me: you said you had a long day. Days almost over. You should be happy
Her: I guess *still in phone*
Me: damb. I can't even get acknowledgment? You're in your phone a d I'm late to class trying to come and talk to you
Her: I'm sorry. You can go to class
Me: OK.

I was floored because I haven't been denied like that in awhile... Took me a few hours to get over KT because of how sure she was.

I've been rejected plenty of times, but this one felt like she took one look and though "Naw... You just don't do it for me"

Most guys in here will only tell you about their fall away three pointers in the corner all net... But great scorers miss too.

Don't feel bad bro. Rehash what you did wrong and correct it next time. I promise you there will be more misses than makes... But in the end, not trying is the most dreadful miss of them all.

I felt bad for a few hours... Can't front... But best believed I'm coming harder at the next big booty breezy I see... And I'm going to keep campaigning till I get elected in this bissssshh.

I'm almost over it now.

The only thing that keeps bugging me is that I should have done x differently. I hate those thoughts.

Spoiler: Another Day, Another Dollar

Last day of class today. We're [girl I've sat next to the entire quarter and I] walking out.
I say, "well, see you next week."
She responded with something like, "Today is the last day of class so we probably won't."

Based on some advice someone mentioned earlier in this thread, I says to her, "Really. Well then it doesn't have to be. [Pull out pen and notecard] Here's my phone number."

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

I should know how to deal with rejection feelings. I'm trained in suicide/crisis prevention and can't even help myself out (not that I'm suicidal).

 

[slicknick951]

work on that man build your confidence back up. No expectations

If she wasn't at least interested in some way she wouldn't have texted u

 

[coolgraymemo]

I approached this girl a different way. Even if she's not interested, it's always nice to know people.

Once I have more time, I'll post what went wrong with the other thing. Hopefully readers and lurkers that are novices (like me) don't make the same mistake.

 

[k3stacks]

Baketball analogy is powerful stuff. Ima try to shoot 50% from the floor starting now

 

[k3stacks]

If you havent seen the classic How to be a Player with Bill Bellamy. Watch it!

If you have watch it again

 

[Coromanti]

 

Spoiler: Another Day, Another Dollar

Last day of class today. We're [girl I've sat next to the entire quarter and I] walking out.
I say, "well, see you next week."
She responded with something like, "Today is the last day of class so we probably won't."

Based on some advice someone mentioned earlier in this thread, I says to her, "Really. Well then it doesn't have to be. [Pull out pen and notecard] Here's my phone number."

 

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

 

[coolgraymemo]

.

I always thought her name was Lena. It wasn't until I saw the friend request that I put the contact name.



Currently analyzing what went wrong yesterday.


Surprisingly, it makes me feel a whole lot better knowing my mistakes.

 

[usabasketball08]

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[suberzat1]

CGM, good stuff.

Improvement from the TA situation.

I will say this though, I personally wouldn't have texted her with that "would it be weird if I added you on FB?" question.

It shows you're timid, and it's like you needed HER approval to add her.

Control the conversation, and don't ask too many questions. Don't be timid. You got it.

If she's into you, then she'll have you thinking about what she should say to YOU, not what you should say to HER.

I dont you are person on the right and the contact is on the left. I could be wrong since I dont have an Iphone.

 

[Coromanti]

 

CGM, good stuff.

Improvement from the TA situation.

I will say this though, I personally wouldn't have texted her with that "would it be weird if I added you on FB?" question.

It shows you're timid, and it's like you needed HER approval to add her.

Control the conversation, and don't ask too many questions. Don't be timid. You got it.

If she's into you, then she'll have you thinking about what she should say to YOU, not what you should say to HER.

I dont you are person on the right and the contact is on the left. I could be wrong since I dont have an Iphone.

No matter what phone you have contact is left

 

[usabasketball08]

Ah sorry man, I'm tripping. Funny thing is, I have an iPhone too. I read that wrong.

My bad.

In that case,

 

[coolgraymemo]

CGM, good stuff.

Improvement from the TA situation.

I will say this though, I personally wouldn't have texted her with that "would it be weird if I added you on FB?" question.

It shows you're timid, and it's like you needed HER approval to add her.

Control the conversation, and don't ask too many questions. Don't be timid. You got it.

If she's into you, then she'll have you thinking about what she should say to YOU, not what you should say to HER.

I know I look stupid after what happened the past few days, but I'm not that dumb.

I didn't text her that. She sent me that. I gave her my phone number.

I wouldn't have asked for permission.

Also, by the time I replied to her text message (two hours after she sent it), she had already sent the friend request.

 

[keel252]

This thread is getting depressing.

 

[fontaine]

This thread is getting depressing.

I wouldn't say depressing... Just more realistic...

I like to think I have a fair share of birds...

But people tend to only posts successes... We need to be real so folks know that its the L's that ultimately build you up so you can have more Ws...

 

[youngdoc]

So three weeks ago at this chicks bday party I pulled this girl (they are friends but not close). Smashed her the following weekend

Now trying to smash the bday chick (chick in the text messages) and me and my roommate are going out to some bars with her and her friend tomorrow night

Not sure exactly how I will play it tomorrow night but I still wanna smash bday chick

 

[youngdoc]

This thread is getting depressing.

I wouldn't say depressing... Just more realistic...

I like to think I have a fair share of birds...

But people tend to only posts successes... We need to be real so folks know that its the L's that ultimately build you up so you can have more Ws...

Unless my successes involve a good story or relate to a current situation (Like above) then I generally don't share them bc they're generic and uninteresting

 

[suberzat1]

I wouldn't say depressing... Just more realistic...

I like to think I have a fair share of birds...

But people tend to only posts successes... We need to be real so folks know that its the L's that ultimately build you up so you can have more Ws...

People dont take you serious when you post Ls all they want to hear is the success stories.

 

[keel252]

I understand the young fellas in here take L's that's understandable. But I guess their L's seem so avoidable to me they come off as sad.

 

[coolgraymemo]

 

[keel252]

So three weeks ago at this chicks bday party I pulled this girl (they are friends but not close). Smashed her the following weekend

Now trying to smash the bday chick (chick in the text messages) and me and my roommate are going out to some bars with her and her friend tomorrow night

Not sure exactly how I will play it tomorrow night but I still wanna smash bday chick

I'll be shocked if anything comes outta this, she's prolly playing like she don't know or she's gonna get the scoop before y'all go out. If she gives up the buns knowing what happen I like her.

 

[Bruce Banner]

TAY fam lol remember that cute hispanic shorty I was kinda shook and nervous to approach at the library well ironically today she sat by me so I said F it and started a brief conversation
I notice that she was eating some raisins so I proceed to ask her if I could get whatever she's eating she was nice and cool about it gave me some then I ask her for her name I introduce myself with a handshake we got to talking briefly about her major .

 

[Bruce Banner]

I had to man up and do it .