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Unfortunately my mature nter's, OP has stated many truths in this thread. To the simple-minded bloggers, try not to lose me as I attempt to explain my views on said issue. I too have noticed a narcissistic shift in the attitudes, emotions, egos and mind-sets of our most treasured asset. Women. It seems almost as if they have all been brainwashed to believe that they should unwarrantly be placed on a pedestal for the world to admire. What have you done do deserve such admiriation? Pretty face? big butt? for most simps, this is exactly the case. They see a girl that posseses these qualities, and then go ABSOLUTELY HAM at trying to court her or get her attention even if that means telling her exactly what she wants to hear and looking like a thirsty lame. So whats a girl to do with all this attention coming her way for no real reason?? She ignores it. Because if you were willing to jump off a cliff just because her jeans were tight, then whats the next guy willing to do for a chance? This is why a nice, decent honest guy will most likely get overlooked by such a female because the whole world is giving her all the attention she could ever want, so why settle for you?? Think about it. All a girl has to do is show a little skin in her profile pic, and the whole damn facebook community is commenting and drooling over it. This type of attention breeds power. Now regular everyday chicks are walking around thinking that they are God's gift to men, which makes it almost impossible interact with them because they have to climb off their high horse first. Joe Blow just told this girl that she's "the baddest chic i've ever seen in my life" in an attempt to holla at her. He thinks he just "spit some game" but what he really just did was make it impossible for an above average guy with everything going for him in life to ever be able to have a chance with her because now she believes that she is "halle berry" because Joe Blow does not have enough self-respect to calm his thirsty cravings, and take it easy. So now the rest of us have to deal with these inflated egos, unrealistic self-images, etc. Dont throw away your self-dignity and self-respect and pride over a pretty face who may not be worth the change in ur coin tray! Take the time to see if she's even worth YOUR time. Have a convo with herm see how she interacts with the rest of society..dont just blurt out the first compliment that comes to ur head. This is simping. Dont flood her with unwarranted flattery. This is simping. Most chics out here are faking it til theymake it, meaning most of them dont have the things to offer you that you may think they have.so its like all they have to do is keep their mouths shut, and you (the simp) will fill in the blanks for them by your relentless chasing. Now the girl who once had a healthy, natural self-image, now has a bloated, artificial, conceited, egotistical view of not only herself, but of the whole world(especially men). Go to the club, some of the most attractive girls in there are gay. why? because some lame has convinced her that shes cute enough to have the best of bost worlds, or that she's "too goodfor guys" Girls try to aim unneccessarily high because they are truly scared of ending up with their EQUAL. They rather have the one who's completely out of their leaugue, so they "fake it til they make it" and ur average neighborhood guy plays right into their game giving them the satisfaction, praise, attention, and glorification that they want, but never actually gets the girl. If jim from up the block goes crazy everytime a "hot" girl walks by... then she will grow to believe that this is how ALL men view her, and since u made her feel like she can have ANY guy, why would she settle for you?
