The Holy Grail of Dating Advice (People of tl;dr need not enter)

I didn't have %$!% to do so I read it.
Cliff notes:
1. Don't give a damb.
2. Get bunz.
3.???
4. Profit
 
Originally Posted by solegit08til

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Not everybody can be an alpha and to be honest they arent all that. Ill take a Gamma over an Alpha.
 
Originally Posted by TeamJordan79


this is not a revelation. This concept has been floating on here since NT's inception. 

Disagree with some points though. The whole theory is based on a premise that all men want to live this bachelor hit and run lifestyle. While a lot do, other dudes have their own approach. Not everyone can be a so called alpha, not everyone can be a hunter/killer etc. I've seen the shyest dudes get chicks in the most unconventional ways, everyone got their own hustle. Not to mention the fact that this kind of strategy, if u can change ur beta nature and pull it off, tends to attract only a certain kind of female specimen, which incidentally don't make the best mothers, gf's companions imo. This is directed at males in their 20's -30's with low confidence to give them hope. Dudes who can get girls w/o reading this, do it anyway. And dudes who can't, do not have the odds in their favor of pulling themselves up by implementing this pseudo-scientific tactic. 
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 Excellent Monday morning read. 
Some highlights...

As Doc Love identified, the three characteristics that woman universally respond to emotionally is challenge (not psychologically needy or weak), control (able to not let passions overwhelm a person) and confidence (able to take charge of the situation and respond assertively). This has not changed much for thousands of years.

dangerous men make many women feel safe. . . . She knows that he'll crush any other guy who hassles her, and beautiful women do get harassed a lot...these types of guys tend to have in common is a kind of detached, "don't give a crap," attitude. So these 10s perceive them as extra manly, confident and a Challenge.




A rebel who cares not what society thinks, what his mother or father thinks, what books say is right and not what his emotions or thoughts tell him. He could care less. He is the only one who decides if it is worth caring about.




A woman is a woman. You are the one that makes an issue of it. You are the only one that gives it a value. If you make a big deal out of something, it will be a big deal. Conversely, if you make it a lesser deal than it is, it will be a lesser deal.




The greatest act of power the super hunter achieves is to overcome all of our self-imposed limitations. 




AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) <<< 
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The AFC is the one that bends over backward to try to accommodate his emotions, his environment and other people. He is ruled and defined by it. He does not possess the courage to choose for himself what is best for him and go ahead and do it.




The powerful male chooses his action himself... He decides what is important. He decides what value to give things: he creates his own world because he interprets it and responds to it on his own terms.








 
Originally Posted by cap1229

Not everybody can be an alpha and to be honest they arent all that. Ill take a Gamma over an Alpha.
We talking about rays here? 
 
Just read this and I felt I lost an hour of my life. Nothing new. Treat a woman like you dont care about her and she'll be on your jock. We all knew this. confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
 
Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by cap1229

Not everybody can be an alpha and to be honest they arent all that. Ill take a Gamma over an Alpha.
We talking about rays here? 


Gamma personality.
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Gamma Males: These kind of dudes are more or less self-reliant, self-motivated, and self-assured in their own personality that no one can change their ways. Some of these kind of males are considered loners, but this is not to case for all Gamma Males. Because of their stern personality, many people tend to write off these men as "Betas" by default because they won't conform to being whatever "Chic Alpha" trait exists during that time period. The man who's confident in his own self-worth and looks is said to go a long way with what women want.
Read more: http://www.city-data.com/...males.html#ixzz1qz7aM1w4

The ideal is the Gamma Male. Not often talked about, but they are out there. Usually a Gamma is an Alpha Male that “grew up
 
came back and read it, famb...

it was pretty dope.... it kind of puts the whole "do you" thing in perspective.

honestly, this is something that could take some years to develop if you were not raised in this sort of way.

it makes sense on the outside, but on the inside, it still feels wrong...

and girls dont make it any better by giving up the yambs after you invited them over 3 times, or smashing a less ambitious, less attractive, less lucrative male because she's scared of you.

still a
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read, doe.
 
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