Thinking About Getting A Vasectomy...

It seems like you aren't even ready to have sex or handle the responsibility of having sex. Because if you were you wouldn't be having a scare. You and your gf should have already disscused if you guys want to be parents now, if it's a no then you should be using some form of brith control. And in case of those times when something doesn't go right she should get the morning after pill. And she should know her cycle and know when to avoid having unprotected sex on the days she is ovulating. If you were doing all these things you wouldn't be having a pregnancy scare.
 
It seems like you aren't even ready to have sex or handle the responsibility of having sex. Because if you were you wouldn't be having a scare. You and your gf should have already disscused if you guys want to be parents now, if it's a no then you should be using some form of brith control. And in case of those times when something doesn't go right she should get the morning after pill. And she should know her cycle and know when to avoid having unprotected sex on the days she is ovulating. If you were doing all these things you wouldn't be having a pregnancy scare.
 
You are really thinking about sterilizing yourself like that??? Make your girl get on the pill or here's a crazy suggestion: use a condom. You sound really immature even suggesting this.
 
You are really thinking about sterilizing yourself like that??? Make your girl get on the pill or here's a crazy suggestion: use a condom. You sound really immature even suggesting this.
 
Ok so your 18 and you dont use protection on a girl who obviously isn't on birth control. Do the world and yourself a favor and get a Vasectomy before you end up having a child.
 
Ok so your 18 and you dont use protection on a girl who obviously isn't on birth control. Do the world and yourself a favor and get a Vasectomy before you end up having a child.
 
Originally Posted by cocolicious

It seems like you aren't even ready to have sex or handle the responsibility of having sex. Because if you were you wouldn't be having a scare. You and your gf should have already discussed if you guys want to be parents now, if it's a no then you should be using some form of birth control. And in case of those times when something doesn't go right she should get the morning after pill. And she should know her cycle and know when to avoid having unprotected sex on the days she is ovulating. If you were doing all these things you wouldn't be having a pregnancy scare.
She pretty much said it with a woman's twist.

Why isn't she on birth control? If you two are having unprotected sex, then she should be taking it no questions asked. If she doesn't want to, you need to wear a condom.

The best way to prevent pregnancy is to NOT HAVE SEX, and I really don't think your mature enough to even be having sex, if your only 18 thinking about having a vasectomy.
Sums it up.
 
Originally Posted by cocolicious

It seems like you aren't even ready to have sex or handle the responsibility of having sex. Because if you were you wouldn't be having a scare. You and your gf should have already discussed if you guys want to be parents now, if it's a no then you should be using some form of birth control. And in case of those times when something doesn't go right she should get the morning after pill. And she should know her cycle and know when to avoid having unprotected sex on the days she is ovulating. If you were doing all these things you wouldn't be having a pregnancy scare.
She pretty much said it with a woman's twist.

Why isn't she on birth control? If you two are having unprotected sex, then she should be taking it no questions asked. If she doesn't want to, you need to wear a condom.

The best way to prevent pregnancy is to NOT HAVE SEX, and I really don't think your mature enough to even be having sex, if your only 18 thinking about having a vasectomy.
Sums it up.
 
Do it.


The last thing this world needs is another moron like you.
 
Do it.


The last thing this world needs is another moron like you.
 
Originally Posted by cocolicious

It seems like you aren't even ready to have sex or handle the responsibility of having sex. Because if you were you wouldn't be having a scare. You and your gf should have already discussed if you guys want to be parents now, if it's a no then you should be using some form of birth control. And in case of those times when something doesn't go right she should get the morning after pill. And she should know her cycle and know when to avoid having unprotected sex on the days she is ovulating. If you were doing all these things you wouldn't be having a pregnancy scare.
She pretty much said it with a woman's twist.

Why isn't she on birth control? If you two are having unprotected sex, then she should be taking it no questions asked. If she doesn't want to, you need to wear a condom.

The best way to prevent pregnancy is to NOT HAVE SEX, and I really don't think your mature enough to even be having sex, if your only 18 thinking about having a vasectomy.
Sums it up.
 
Originally Posted by cocolicious

It seems like you aren't even ready to have sex or handle the responsibility of having sex. Because if you were you wouldn't be having a scare. You and your gf should have already discussed if you guys want to be parents now, if it's a no then you should be using some form of birth control. And in case of those times when something doesn't go right she should get the morning after pill. And she should know her cycle and know when to avoid having unprotected sex on the days she is ovulating. If you were doing all these things you wouldn't be having a pregnancy scare.
She pretty much said it with a woman's twist.

Why isn't she on birth control? If you two are having unprotected sex, then she should be taking it no questions asked. If she doesn't want to, you need to wear a condom.

The best way to prevent pregnancy is to NOT HAVE SEX, and I really don't think your mature enough to even be having sex, if your only 18 thinking about having a vasectomy.
Sums it up.
 
AYO
Am I really getting flamed right now? 
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I'm a Sophmore in college. I don't want kids any time soon. Not all girls are on BC, and I'm sick of these scares. 

This one was extremely %#%*#% bc homegirl really thought she was pregnant.

She had symptoms, she had a dream she was preggers, and her pops was telling her every time she left the house "Don't get pregnant!"

I care about this girl , and I had to look her dead in the face and talk about abortion. I'm not about that life. 

SOPTIT5, thank you bro. I heard about that procedure, it seems like a better option

I asked to get opinions because I was THINKING  about doing it, but I got lambasted by you muggles

So thanks for the info, the hate, and the opinions but chill
 
AYO
Am I really getting flamed right now? 
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I'm a Sophmore in college. I don't want kids any time soon. Not all girls are on BC, and I'm sick of these scares. 

This one was extremely %#%*#% bc homegirl really thought she was pregnant.

She had symptoms, she had a dream she was preggers, and her pops was telling her every time she left the house "Don't get pregnant!"

I care about this girl , and I had to look her dead in the face and talk about abortion. I'm not about that life. 

SOPTIT5, thank you bro. I heard about that procedure, it seems like a better option

I asked to get opinions because I was THINKING  about doing it, but I got lambasted by you muggles

So thanks for the info, the hate, and the opinions but chill
 
It's ridiculous that you're even considering this for a short term BC option - that's just crazy.

It's not even like people are saying that it's not always reversible - it's usually not reversible. I went to see about one recently (I'm a but older than you and have 3 kids) and they lay it on pretty thick that if you're even slightly unsure about wanting more kids in the future then you shouldn't do it as it is basically an irreversible procedure.
 
It's ridiculous that you're even considering this for a short term BC option - that's just crazy.

It's not even like people are saying that it's not always reversible - it's usually not reversible. I went to see about one recently (I'm a but older than you and have 3 kids) and they lay it on pretty thick that if you're even slightly unsure about wanting more kids in the future then you shouldn't do it as it is basically an irreversible procedure.
 
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