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Good stuff famb... income generators that you dont eem have to work...after bonuses just over $115K. That doesn't stock bonuses, rental property income, etc which I guess are "wealth" builders. I'm first generation Filipino
Again, I'm not bragging at all: I drive a 10+ year old Subaru and my wife drives a Camry. But as you qualified earlier, I can take a year off of work and live comfortably from savings and assets. My point is for any young cats feeling the pressure to "strike it rich" at 18-25, relax and focus on being consistently good. I know too many peers, professionally and personally, whose ambition overtook their focus and their resumes are basically 3 pages of 6 month stints. Heck, some even might have gotten a $20K commission check one month before moving on, but unless you position yourself well, it's difficult to sustain. You can't be selling Cutco knives or Verizon data plans out of a kiosk when you're 35+. You might be able to buy nice toys in your 20s, but again, focus on scalability of your career.
that's how it supposed to be done...
couple objections though... excuse my ignorance cuz i'm about to spew some dumb stuff.
1. if i have the money, i'm going to cop nice things. yeah, its good to save, but right now, i want to have some fun... i want to move to different places, travel, scoop up superficial yambs, and drive nice cars that have superficial yambs in the passenger seat.
i'm sure its going to change in a few years... but now, at 23, i'm trying to show that i'm paid. if i get a job raking in 115K, i'm going have a nice car, a nice apartment, and cop Foambs.
2. some cats actually do really well at those cell phone spots. a coworker of mine is 30 w/ 3 kids... clocking 80K annually w/ no college degree... and just closed the deal on a home. but i understood what you were saying.
maybe its cuz i'm black, and just have different priorities... i'm not ashame to admit to being somewhat of a vanity slave if i come into paper like that...
again... i'm sure itwill change... i know it will change... but i'll be dambed if i have my head down in the sand during my 20s and 30s so i can live it up in my 40s and 50s... fugg that.
(not saying that's what youre doing though, famb)
also, you had said something about ambition taking over the focus... can you elaborate on that for me...