Well that's a double standard that needs to be destroyed asap.
the love for your SO and the love for your child isn't the same...
Pretty much.
Anyone else find it funny that the same people that were in the Premarital sex is a sin? thread saying dudes were making excuses are in this thread screaming it's nature's fault they can't be faithful?
Like who?
so if you can have multiple wifes living under the same roof, can she have multiple husbands? how about this? 10 wives and 10 husbands under one roof? your cool with that?
I mean, I dont think you realize(or myself, fully, for that matter) all the conditioning are put on our gender roles.
Aldo Rainewrote:
soif you can have multiple wifes living under the same roof, can she havemultiple husbands? how about this? 10 wives and 10 husbands under oneroof? your cool withthat?
no, i said that a page back, i wouldnt be cool with that
I know my argument is flawed, and it might come off as selfish but at this point, I think it's obvious that men and women play different roles.
I think some is natural selection, and some is mental conditioning through out time, to go against all of that would be damn near impossible, might as stick with the hunter/gatherer role than trying to undo all of civilization and chemical makeup
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and you know I'm all for independent women... but lets be honest, I think most of these chicks dont deserve it, we'd be better without it
the reason I dont think I'll end up with more than 1 wife is the compromise
I doubt I'll find a person I agree with and enjoy as much as my current girl and she obviously doesnt like when I talk my "other wife" talk, but again, I dont think she gave it a good chance
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also, RKO, you say its a bad way to go about things, but do you know how many women work in the sextrade? how many do crazy things out of the need for love?
these girls run around like stray dogs, I just want to give them a home and a purpose, this would make the work a better place
i dont disagree with this but i still stand by what i said
you could administrate the marriage while the other girls care for our babiesOriginally Posted by mytmouse76
im not down for that !!@! tho...
because the women would be runnin around ho'in and no ones going to take care of the kids, unless your paper is long
ThunderChunk69 wrote:
mytmouse76 wrote:
im not down for that !!@! tho...
you could administrate the marriage while the other girls care for our babies
we deserve it
as long as i'm the head wife im good...
we can get some chick from another country that'd be totally dependant on us...she'd be our "nanny" but we'll still have our adult fun with her too
seriously tho multiple wives isn't something i'm against for other people...
i actually really respect people that feel than can have that type of honest relationship with more than one person
the biggest thing with having multiple spouses is the honesty and communication that comes with but most people men and women can't have that with themselves one other person...
i guess the biggest thing is that regardless of how many wives a man has is that he's in the same home as his children...
yes you can effectively raise your kids and not be in the same home as them i think most of us can agree its best if both parents are in the home regardless of how many mommies and daddies there are...
cuz they're trying to cheat
but what if the wife wants to add another husband to the mix? arent 2 providers better than one?Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
cuz they're trying to cheat
no need to cheat if you got 3 wives at home, just gotta make a schedule and assign tasks
I said it's sexist if thats what you're trying to prove
Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
I said it's sexist if thats what you're trying to prove
just saying, in 2010, wouldnt be the worst thing, I think it would actually help.
the argument was this will destroy families, I'm just saying it would do the opposite.
I'm also saying I think the sexes are distinctively different(and favor this rather than the opposite), no need to tip toe around it
Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
cuz they're trying to cheat
no need to cheat if you got 3 wives at home, just gotta make a schedule and assign tasks
my grandfather lived up to 110 and had a large farm, I have an aunt that might be 20, and an aunt thats 65, and they might have 40+ siblingsOriginally Posted by MrWavez
you serious man?
multiple wives?
you tellin me if your dad was running around with 3 other families you'd be like...?
or if you daughter grew up and got married and her husband had 3 other wives?
another valid reason, the double standardOriginally Posted by MrWavez
you serious man?
multiple wives?
you tellin me if your dad was running around with 3 other families you'd be like...?
or if you daughter grew up and got married and her husband had 3 other wives?
Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
my grandfather lived up to 110 and had a large farm, I have an aunt that might be 20, and an aunt thats 65, and they might have 40+ siblingsOriginally Posted by MrWavez
you serious man?
multiple wives?
you tellin me if your dad was running around with 3 other families you'd be like...?
or if you daughter grew up and got married and her husband had 3 other wives?
he had multiple wives, from what I understand, at different times.
If my father had different wives, Id respect them all, no
