Whats my problem ?

[dsquare]

Hows it going NT ? I have problem right now, I cannot get a girl to save my life, not a number, a date never had a gf or anything. Before in the past I tended to ignore this and focus on other things, but now its starting to get under my skin and now I'm wonder to myself is there something wrong with me. Even my own parents and friends are asking me why I haven't been on a date or anything. I currently go to college in LA ( actually the valley ) and I'm also currently 22 yrs old. I have always been told that I was a mad cool guy ( mostly by guys

 ). I'm not ugly or overweight or anyting I dress nice but nothing, I still get ignored and passed by. I can't understand for the life of me why this is happening I'll admit I rarely approach girls ( I always feel if they dont notice me what reason should I believe that they are going to give me the time of day)  however 9/10 the girl I do apprach always have a bf (or so they say) Can anyone please give me some advice on  what I need to do to get a girl. Thanks.

 

[lfuqua3]

Lower your standards and hit an ugly chick

 

[lil black jean jacket]

try guys

 

[krazy88s]

Keep trying. This is a numbers game. Also, your problem is all over your post. You're second guessing yourself too much. If a chick aint feeling you, she's probably a lesbian or dumb, deaf and blind.

 

[jordanscrub]

You have to approach girls man, if you expect them to come up to you that's your biggest mistake.

Chicks really do love confidence, and if you're as good as guy as you say you are then get out there and talk to some girls.

 

[rawex5]

Post your picture, papi.

 

[3am scholar]

It's been a tuff summer for you huh o.p.? That meat of yours hasn't been dipped in the sweet sweet honey glaze of some lovely young lady's inner thigh. Love making is that evanescent fantasy that is slowly melting into memory like a cold cube of ice on a hot summer day? You long for that slapping of your lower torso and upper thigh against a freshly tanned summer buttocks. Well let me assist you my dry dicked compadre. First of all I want you to look in your closet and put together the flyest outfit that you have. I'm talking sport coats, suits, dress shoes or a mean peacoat. Then I want you to wash up shave and throw that professional $!% fit on and prepare to hit the club. Once you're in the club scope the scene. I want you to pick out the baddest chick you see in the whole club and I want you to approach her. Walk up to her while looking in her eyes and say, "excuse me but I just wanted to tell you that you are by far the most beautiful woman in this club that I've seen tonight and when I spotted you a few scenarios ran through my head." One scenario was the possibility of us going to a quiet place and getting to know each other." The other scenario was of me waiting for you in the parking lot and following you home.......... Your destiny is in your hands now"......... Slowly back away while looking intently into her eyes and disappear into the crowd. Now throughout the night make it an effort to make sure you make eye contact with here several times and everytime look at her like this.

 

[urb]

Keep trying. This is a numbers game. Also, your problem is all over your post. You're second guessing yourself too much. If a chick aint feeling you, she's probably a lesbian or dumb, deaf and blind.

This. Based on my experience this should be your least concerns.. be patient and if you feel like there is an opportunity to talk to someone take it, take risks and don't have any expectations. You'd rather know and fail than not no at all. There is so much negativity on NT lately.. he asked a simple question, no need to bash on him.

 

[iblink]

It's been a tuff summer for you huh o.p.? That meat of yours hasn't been dipped in the sweet sweet honey glaze of some lovely young lady's inner thigh. Love making is that evanescent fantasy that is slowly melting into memory like a cold cube of ice on a hot summer day? You long for that slapping of your lower torso and upper thigh against a freshly tanned summer buttocks. Well let me assist you my dry dicked compadre. First of all I want you to look in your closet and put together the flyest outfit that you have. I'm talking sport coats, suits, dress shoes or a mean peacoat. Then I want you to wash up shave and throw that professional $!% fit on and prepare to hit the club. Once you're in the club scope the scene. I want you to pick out the baddest chick you see in the whole club and I want you to approach her. Walk up to her while looking in her eyes and say, "excuse me but I just wanted to tell you that you are by far the most beautiful woman in this club that I've seen tonight and when I spotted you a few scenarios ran through my head." One scenario was the possibility of us going to a quiet place and getting to know each other." The other scenario was of me waiting for you in the parking lot and following you home.......... Your destiny is in your hands now"......... Slowly back away while looking intently into her eyes and disappear into the crowd. Now throughout the night make it an effort to make sure you make eye contact with here several times and everytime look at her like this.

 

[JVII]

^ I remember reading that copypasta in another thread.

 

[jay6jay]

That post always makes me laugh "honey glazed"

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Op there is nothing wrong with you join a club or something. If you don't go after them then u won't have one.



Not having a gf means less drama, more money think about it

 

[jayhood23]

Closed mouths don't get fed. Literally. If you want to feel the warmth of a young dame on your tongue, open your mouth and speak. If you talk to 10 girls you're bound to get at least 2 #s

 

[kareem the dream]

OP get a personality or let people knnow you got one..

That means you gotta be more outgoing and outspoken, assert yourself

The whole "chill in the cut and let them come to me" thing isnt for you. Let girls know youre intrested but dont be creepy.

Find that line and start walkin it homie

 

[topnotchtolu]

It's, all, about, CONFIDENCE. 

I cannot stress that enough, when my confidence is high, i feel like the SHEET.

Dress hella nice, walk with your head up, grab a crew, and hit up the campus or the mall on the creep. If there's nothing wrong with you, you should be fine. Just feel good about how you look and the way you act and girls will vibe off of that.

Good luck G

 

[ill steelo]

^ I remember reading that copypasta in another thread.

nah son. That's a WISEPHAROAH original

 

[stunnaman]

It's been a tuff summer for you huh o.p.? That meat of yours hasn't been dipped in the sweet sweet honey glaze of some lovely young lady's inner thigh. Love making is that evanescent fantasy that is slowly melting into memory like a cold cube of ice on a hot summer day? You long for that slapping of your lower torso and upper thigh against a freshly tanned summer buttocks. Well let me assist you my dry dicked compadre. 

had me rollin

 

[kiiing]

try guys

Why the winky face though?

Try the girl in his avy.

Maybe get some of your friends to introduce you to some single girls .. this way they can't lie and say they have a boyfriend.

 

[truthgetsbusy]

L7

 

[blackdynamite]

Ummm just get a full sleeve and neck tat, some jays, skinny jeans, obey shirt... they will be on you!

 

[whyhellothere]

wut ur whip game looking like?
even the ayo chicks be trynna get at papi when they see the m3 swerve pass.

 

[mellowhigh]

Hit shorty with the old "Whip It Out" method. She don't like it, move on son. All jokes aside.. there's plenty of fish in the sea. Don't give up and just be yourself

 

[shoefreakbaby]

Why ask whats wrong with you, maybe something is wrong with them.

Im 23, only "dated" one person,you can start thinking something is wrong with you when you are in your late thirties

Disregard relationships, acquire currency

 

[semf]

Keep trying. This is a numbers game.

you're in LA, in college and in early 20's . . . there's plenty of fish in the sea and youre in a target rich environment. talk to every girl. if she has a bf, then move on to the next one. hell, if she has a bf, then ask about her friends cuz hot chicks hang out with other hot chicks.

in this day and age, it's EASY to hook up. facebook, twitter, text, phone, college parties, bars. it's all in front of you, you just have to go get it . . . you're so money and you don't even know it . . . go watch Swingers . . .

 

[dsquare]

some of you guys make very good points, talking can never hurt .

 

[dsquare]

wut ur whip game looking like?
even the ayo chicks be trynna get at papi when they see the m3 swerve pass.

My whip is not much to brag about right now, 84 Cutlass Supreme

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