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Children. Easy.
Shouldn't be a competition though.
Shouldn't be a competition though.
WHO SHOULD YOU LOVE MORE...YOUR SPOUSE OR YOUR CHILDREN??? CAN GO EITHER WAY
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What about Mom's and Dad? Throw that in a mix and you got yourself a pickle.
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I would love my kids. I love my mom and would never do anything bad to hurt her.
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Originally Posted by ksteezy
true story, if my wife cheated, i wont stop loving her....i dont think i ever will, there is a reason why i married her....doesnt mean i wont build up the courage to leave her, but the love will remain....i dont care if you dont believe me DC
so serious question steez, if the smush parker story happened to you, how would you react?
didn't even think twice.
but I thought the whole point of the man and woman being married was so he can "take care of her" since the woman obviously isn't able to.
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not sure if I'm the only one who was raised like this but my father always taught me that the day I get married my parent', sibling, and family aren't my first priority. My wife is.
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am I the only one who this thread is acting funny for? Kinda running behind.
I've had this talk with my wife & it's our agreement that if anything (God forbid) were to happen she is to save our child (working on having more) & herself first, if it ever comes to that.
I'm a grown man, stuff happens, I want my future to survive & his Mom to be there for him if it ever comes to that.
It's a difficult question the OP poses, there is no "right" definitive answer since everyone's situation is different.
Man I hope no favorites are played, that's when problems start.
My son being only almost 3 yrs is a work in progress but I can only hope he can learn from the love and respect my wife and I show for each other & pass it on in his future relationship(s)
I'm a grown man, stuff happens, I want my future to survive & his Mom to be there for him if it ever comes to that.
It's a difficult question the OP poses, there is no "right" definitive answer since everyone's situation is different.
Man I hope no favorites are played, that's when problems start.
My son being only almost 3 yrs is a work in progress but I can only hope he can learn from the love and respect my wife and I show for each other & pass it on in his future relationship(s)
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this is what i always assumed also
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Don't think they're the same type of love, I believe you love your spouse and children in different ways. There's no possible you can measure the love you have for either.
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Classic apples and oranges argument.
Carry on
Carry on
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Exactly how I was brought up...until I have kids of my own. Then, they become the priority.
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You love your parents because you love your parents?
I would love my kids more.
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Originally Posted by ksteezy
true story, if my wife cheated, i wont stop loving her....i dont think i ever will, there is a reason why i married her....doesnt mean i wont build up the courage to leave her, but the love will remain....i dont care if you dont believe me DC
if she cheated on you repeatedly while holding up a sign with a cancel mark on your face saying "I HATE KSTEEZY"
You would still love her? You are a man of valor ksteezy. a stronger man than me.
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She would pick your kid, no question asked
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kids.
your kids are you
your kids are you
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children.
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They cancel each other out. Cannot pick one of the other, people.
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Kids No question asked... Thats my flesh & blood. A Girl Will Come And Go.. But I Would Take A Bullet For My Kids Than A Girl.
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Grave digging time
I saw this and have thought it over. I agree with Elder that you SHOULD love your spouse more as they are intended to be your life long mate. You did fall in love with that person. But I think that we all, myself included, love our children more because they are truly a copy of us. They take on our looks, our behaviors, habits good and bad.
The love can die between spouses although in extreme cases parents and children don't have that love. But its more likely for the love between spouses to fizzle out, especially with the chance of infidelity.
My lady and I have our share of problems and my babies can drive me nuts at times, but my love for my baby girls can't be trumped by anyone or anything.
I saw this and have thought it over. I agree with Elder that you SHOULD love your spouse more as they are intended to be your life long mate. You did fall in love with that person. But I think that we all, myself included, love our children more because they are truly a copy of us. They take on our looks, our behaviors, habits good and bad.
The love can die between spouses although in extreme cases parents and children don't have that love. But its more likely for the love between spouses to fizzle out, especially with the chance of infidelity.
My lady and I have our share of problems and my babies can drive me nuts at times, but my love for my baby girls can't be trumped by anyone or anything.
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If you do your job as parents right, your kids will one day have lives and loves of their own.
If you do your job as partners right, you two will share a life until the day you die. Plus, there's no law demanding you associate with her, good, bad or otherwise...there has to be strong love to keep y'all together.
Wifey by a head...if you're doing it right, that is.
If you do your job as partners right, you two will share a life until the day you die. Plus, there's no law demanding you associate with her, good, bad or otherwise...there has to be strong love to keep y'all together.
Wifey by a head...if you're doing it right, that is.
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I don't have kids but I think for a stable household Love for spouse should equal the Love for children.
But with all these single parent homes and divorces I could understand Kids > Spouse. Hopefully my case it will be Kids=Spouse.
But with all these single parent homes and divorces I could understand Kids > Spouse. Hopefully my case it will be Kids=Spouse.