Yo NT

[18th letter]

how don't you know how to handle responsibilities, if you don't want to have a child until you are situated and have the means to provide for it?
you need to

 

[west2east]

If I were you I'd be really careful about having sex with her. You never know what measures she might take to stay on track with her "plan."

 

[mytmouse76]

She was probably just talking out of her!#!@ and when you didn't agree she got mad. I don't know your girl but I doubt even she truely believed in whatshe was saying. More than likely you two won't get married. Did she even say she wanted to get married or she just wants kids in two years? If she'snot talking marriage keep and eye on her. She might trap you and you probably don't even have much to trap at this point in your life.

 

[frostythepoptart]

you have the kids, she leaves you. and lives the good life with anotherman + child support.

kanye [ LIKE WE ALWAYS DO AT THIS TIME!!!]

 

[culumbiazillest]

she's buggin

 

[iantheshark]

You might want to take charge of birth control , i.e. buying your own condoms. You can never be too safe. Especially since she alredy told you her gameplan

 

[vrp32tl]

If I were you I'd be really careful about having sex with her. You never know what measures she might take to stay on track with her "plan."


Forealz, she setting you up.

 

[x Buddha Bless x]

Originally Posted by LoveOfTheGame916

WARNING NO PICS SO IF YOU'RE NOT WILLING TO GIVE INPUT NO NEED TO REPLY

This should be at the beginning of every girl problem thread with no pics planned to be in it unless NT Ds get towork on it

BTW thread starter it was a trap, you shoulda switched the subject immediately. You said it yourself why takeresponsibility for something that hasn't happened yet? You screwed now she will either cheat on you around the age of 20, you should lie and agree with herif you want to smash her past her age of 20. say your infertile when you really got a vasectomy.

 

[zen baller]

I told her I wanted to wait until I get done with college and situated with my profession which is journalism before having my first child


Ok, sounds perfectly reasonable.

and she said that "It sounds like you dont want to take responsibility"


Whaaat?

I love this girl and I mos def want a future with her but $+!% like this makes me wonder how can we?


Yo, what do you see in this girl? She has no common sense. She WANTS to have kids by 20? I have a feeling she's not planning on going to college, right?Most dudes on NT are gonna tell you that you shouldn't even have a girlfriend during college, and I can understand that sentiment though I don'tnecessarily agree. College can be fun with a girlfriend. College CANNOT be fun with a child.

It sounds like she's not going to school and she's trying to guilt you into having kids so that she'll have something that'll tie you to herwhile you're in college. Waiting til 25 to start a family isn't irresponsible, it's in fact WAY MORE responsible than the path that she wants.

 

[bluesurferx]

there is only one way to make God laugh. tell Him your future plans.

honestly i would just break up with her now. she has a plan set out and when its specific like that, it'll never work out. life always change. this is timefor one of them.

 

[dirtylicious]

Originally Posted by LoveOfTheGame916

just curious.
is she from a single parent home? or have an absentee father?

yeah she is pops left when she was 4
but thanks for the help yall ima talk to her after work today

I guessed as much.
playing amateur psych...she's probably lackin in love from a father figure so she may be seeking to replace that love with a babyof her own.

http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-20030515-000003.html
http://www.aphroditewomenshealth.com/news/20030418230841_health_news.shtml

 

[proshares]

Do either of you have steady jobs or plan to be at college? I'm just asking because raising a kid takes a lot of money and if you don't have steadyjobs you don't want to depend on either of your parents to be giving money to support the two of you and a child. You're both young why think aboutkids now? Get a steady job, get a sound education, save some money then think about kids.

 

[dunknforce]

LoveOfTheGame916 wrote:

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WARNING NO PICS SO IF YOU'RE NOT WILLING TO GIVE INPUT NO NEED TO REPLY


so i was talking to my girl tonight


thats about when i stopped reading

Anyone wanna boycott NT till they make a girl/relationship forum????