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so i was talking to my girl tonight for about 3 hours or so you know regular stuff like any other night and some how we got on the topic of kids. she tells methat she has a plan set out for her life and that she wants her first kid by 20 and im like
since thats only a year and some months away. Then she tells me that not onlydoes she want one kid but she wants three all by the age of 24 and im sitting here dumbfounded as hell. I told her that I dont want my first child until 25 orso and she gets all butt hurt and talks about how im effing up her plan. She asks me what I want his name to be and I tell her that I want to name him after meand she says "well we're not having kids together and we'll probably break up".
So now she's mad at me about childbirth (word to the Bernie Mac Show) and I cantunderstand why. Why the hell would you be thinking about having kids at 18? I told her I wanted to wait until I get done with college and situated with myprofession which is journalism before having my first child and she said that "It sounds like you dont want to take responsibility"
How can I have responsibility for something that hasn't happened yet.I love this girl and I mos def want a future with her but $+!% like this makes me wonder how can we?
what do you ya'll think?
so i was talking to my girl tonight for about 3 hours or so you know regular stuff like any other night and some how we got on the topic of kids. she tells methat she has a plan set out for her life and that she wants her first kid by 20 and im like
what do you ya'll think?