When a WOMAN friendzones a guy = woman isn't physically attracted to guy?

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First off, I am a male. I was in a discussion recently and now I am convinced that when women say these types of phrases:

"I just don't see you that way"
"I don't think you're my type"
"I only see you as a friend"

Think about it guys, if it was your personality, why would she even befriend you/hang out with you?

All of us guys know jerks who have good women. Why doesn't the gf of the jerk hit him with the ol' "I just don't see you that way"?

But if you're nice/funny/cool to hang out with, but not physically attractive, she hits you with one of these. What's up with that?
 
girls dont care too much about looks. but she probably likes a different type of dude.
 
Your logic is flawed, there are girls I view in that light. I literally just don't see them that way. Everything doesn't have to be about sex orphysical attraction.
 
jesus christ, women are not that shallow ALL THE TIME. Just because the girl is your friend, doesn't mean she thinks you're not a ****head. Yourfriends see you in every light; maybe she's observed the way you treat other women or deal with life situations and takes notes. Sometimes you're"ugly", but other times the $!%%% aint interested. Most girls can look beyond looks, but not past a wack personality. Accept it and move on.
 
I notice this happens when either you are given multiple openings and dont take advantage, or just lackin in your mackin, but some friend zones can be takenadvantage of. If she likes you she will always be around w/no pressure of commitment also you get to run through her besties
 
Just a general response to those who think girls can look past the looks or to girls, looks don't matter. I refuse to believe that an ol' Quasimodolooking dude, NO MATTER HOW NICE, FUNNY, SWAGALICIOUS dude is, can pull any girl he wants. I mean c'mon now, let's be real.
 
Has nothing to do with physical attraction. You just dont trigger the sexual attraction in a women. For most girls your physical appearance is less importantthan it is to guys. Your to nice you need to do things that trigger sexual tension between you and her.
 
I think when a woman friendzones a guy its more like a I don't see myself dating you. Doesn't mean that she's not physically attracted to them, butthen again would probably never wanna do anything just so she doesn't "ruin" the friendship.
 
Your original argument didn't make sense so you change it up? Nice
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Originally Posted by FireBirdGoddess

jesus christ, women are not that shallow ALL THE TIME. Just because the girl is your friend, doesn't mean she thinks you're not a ****head. Your friends see you in every light; maybe she's observed the way you treat other women or deal with life situations and takes notes. Sometimes you're "ugly", but other times the $!%%% aint interested. Most girls can look beyond looks, but not past a wack personality. Accept it and move on.
Owned.
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But I'm a dude and I don't see certain girls as relationship worthy. Don't get me wrong, they look good as #+#$ but I just see them as a lil sisteror cousin.
 
Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Your original argument didn't make sense so you change it up? Nice
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No, I think I just communicated it poorly, based on the responses so I edited it. I think the edit helped in getting people to know what I wastalking about. Just in case though, let me try to reiterate it, (My apologies though, its hard to get it to type out properly as opposed to speaking).

In general, given that a guy has a great personality (let's use Screech for example) but not so good looks, tries to go for a girl who also has a goodpersonality and good looks (Lisa Turtle), dude will get the friendzone. She'll say "He's not my type" or "I don't see him thatway."

My argument is this, she's basically telling the guy that she's not physically attracted. I am willing to bet money that if Screech's personalitywas in Zack's body, Lisa would be all over him.
 
No.

It just means she doesn't respect him enough to take him serious relationship-wise. I'm sure she uses him for other purposes/favors.
 
Originally Posted by In The Line For VIIs

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Your original argument didn't make sense so you change it up? Nice
pimp.gif
No, I think I just communicated it poorly, based on the responses so I edited it. I think the edit helped in getting people to know what I was talking about. Just in case though, let me try to reiterate it, (My apologies though, its hard to get it to type out properly as opposed to speaking).

In general, given that a guy has a great personality (let's use Screech for example) but not so good looks, tries to go for a girl who also has a good personality and good looks (Lisa Turtle), dude will get the friendzone. She'll say "He's not my type" or "I don't see him that way."

My argument is this, she's basically telling the guy that she's not physically attracted. I am willing to bet money that if Screech's personality was in Zack's body, Lisa would be all over him.


Ohhh. Your right they do, do that. Not always but it is pretty common.
 
Originally Posted by F A Y B A N

I don't want to have sex with every woman I'm attracted to. It is possible.


Lies.....

The main difference between men and women is that women can be attracted to a guy, and not want more than friendship.
 
friend zone = a gassed girl

dudes/girls be gassing up these avg girls,they believe it and start to friend zone everyone cause they think they are worth more then what they really are

then everyone suffer,even dudes that are just trying to get it in
 
Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by F A Y B A N

I don't want to have sex with every woman I'm attracted to. It is possible.


Lies.....

The main difference between men and women is that women can be attracted to a guy, and not want more than friendship.
this man speaks the truth
 
Originally Posted by In The Line For VIIs

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Your original argument didn't make sense so you change it up? Nice
pimp.gif
No, I think I just communicated it poorly, based on the responses so I edited it. I think the edit helped in getting people to know what I was talking about. Just in case though, let me try to reiterate it, (My apologies though, its hard to get it to type out properly as opposed to speaking).

In general, given that a guy has a great personality (let's use Screech for example) but not so good looks, tries to go for a girl who also has a good personality and good looks (Lisa Turtle), dude will get the friendzone. She'll say "He's not my type" or "I don't see him that way."

My argument is this, she's basically telling the guy that she's not physically attracted. I am willing to bet money that if Screech's personality was in Zack's body, Lisa would be all over him.
Did dude just go Saved by the Bell on us for this situation?
 
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