Females of NT, do you mind being approached in a non-social setting?

Originally Posted by maddog345

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

Man... it's called a judgment call. We make them everyday, and so do they.

See a girl you like? Avoid grabbing her arm with a discretionary "don makkame turn dis rape into dat murrdaaa"


1. MAKE EYE CONTACT. even if it risks seeming creepy. most females are so insecure they will try to look away on that "he's looking at something on my face"
2. Smile. Your smile is a lot more attractive than you may think and mean muggin a chicken isn't going to help the stitch.
3. Act. Chances are if you are on her level and she is at all single or likewise, she will smile back. Just by smiling at her (or even a slight wave) you've probably already made her day. I say this because... well let's be honest, no one has smiled at her in days since everyone is on twitter and facebook on their Androids.
4. Say: Hey how's it going". That really is all you need. People recommend to make conversation about an observation in that setting but that is almost always a REACH. The fact is that body language in the art of flirting is 80% of the outcome. The actual conversation content makes up for about 5% of the outcome and unless you are MAD funny it isn't really going to help.
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5. Keep it short. Running out of convo will destroy the whole situation. It doesn't need to be more than a few exchanges of words+smiles. Tell her the following:
'Listen.. I gotta run, I'm meeting friends and I'm a bit late. I'd love to continue this conversation some time... we should kick it some time. Here's my number:..."

Your giving her your number so that she can make that decision. Her handing you digits could be a front. Plus if she calls... she really is interested. Telling her you are meeting friends allows her to understand you are not a creep loner.

That should work out in a non social, non-introduced setting.
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what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
 
what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
 
Originally Posted by Fog Raw

If a girl on the bus (or any public place) glances at you every now and then, would you guys consider it the cue to initiate a convo with her? And how would go about initiating this convo? 
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Id say drop a joke something along the lines of "Is there something stuck in my teeth?" laugh it up to break the ice and start a convo. Iono thats just me. 
 
Originally Posted by Fog Raw

If a girl on the bus (or any public place) glances at you every now and then, would you guys consider it the cue to initiate a convo with her? And how would go about initiating this convo? 
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Id say drop a joke something along the lines of "Is there something stuck in my teeth?" laugh it up to break the ice and start a convo. Iono thats just me. 
 
My dude really out here walking around with used dryer sheets. (they gotta be used or you can tell they straight from the box)
 
My dude really out here walking around with used dryer sheets. (they gotta be used or you can tell they straight from the box)
 
Hey OP this is NT. 98% are dudes. I think you should ask this in lipstickalley forum or something. I don't know what kind of girls you dudes are trying to bag but if you're playing within your league it's actually not even hard to get number. I think because you are a 6 but trying to bag a 9 that's why you get worry about rejection.
 
Hey OP this is NT. 98% are dudes. I think you should ask this in lipstickalley forum or something. I don't know what kind of girls you dudes are trying to bag but if you're playing within your league it's actually not even hard to get number. I think because you are a 6 but trying to bag a 9 that's why you get worry about rejection.
 
Originally Posted by Xavier

what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
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   Nah man, not in the gym. If you can try & catch her either on her way out of the gym or entering the gym (most likely  on another day, unless). I wouldn't go smack while she's on the elliptical or anything like that.
 
Originally Posted by Xavier

what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
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   Nah man, not in the gym. If you can try & catch her either on her way out of the gym or entering the gym (most likely  on another day, unless). I wouldn't go smack while she's on the elliptical or anything like that.
 
Originally Posted by USA Pride4Life

Originally Posted by Xavier

what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
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   Nah man, not in the gym. If you can try & catch her either on her way out of the gym or entering the gym (most likely  on another day, unless). I wouldn't go smack while she's on the elliptical or anything like that.
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Mmm there's ways you can do it while she's working out that you can get away with I think. I'm like nuts about my workouts I'm such a gym rat so I usually have my headphones in and I'm all business. However, I have had a couple guys who will ask how many sets I have left and then when I take my headphones out to answer will make some joke about how much I'm lifting or something. I don't mind it at all. I know it takes balls to approach a girl in the gym so I'm always nice
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On that note, BE nice. I always notice guys that hold open the door for me or let me go to the water fountain first. The little sweet things just get me. Although once a guy asked if he could help carry one of the 45 pound plates I was carrying and he was cute so I'm like yeah for sure I'm just putting them away over here, thanks a lot man. Five mins later he walks over and is like "so you can't carry two 45's on your own hey?
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" while pointing to the 150 pounds I'm deadlifting.
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I was just straight up like yeaaah I just wanted you to do it so I could keep talking to you *kanye shrug*

Open with the "how many sets". I don't care if it's your chest day and her legs day. Do a set of squats to uphold the illusion if you must. Sometimes if I ask how many sets and they say 1-2 or whatever I'll say something like "alright now you save that rack for me
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don't let anyone steal it from me! I'll be right back!" or something. Doesn't have to be hard just don't be a meanmugging, overarrogant douche.
 
Originally Posted by USA Pride4Life

Originally Posted by Xavier

what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
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   Nah man, not in the gym. If you can try & catch her either on her way out of the gym or entering the gym (most likely  on another day, unless). I wouldn't go smack while she's on the elliptical or anything like that.
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Mmm there's ways you can do it while she's working out that you can get away with I think. I'm like nuts about my workouts I'm such a gym rat so I usually have my headphones in and I'm all business. However, I have had a couple guys who will ask how many sets I have left and then when I take my headphones out to answer will make some joke about how much I'm lifting or something. I don't mind it at all. I know it takes balls to approach a girl in the gym so I'm always nice
happy.gif


On that note, BE nice. I always notice guys that hold open the door for me or let me go to the water fountain first. The little sweet things just get me. Although once a guy asked if he could help carry one of the 45 pound plates I was carrying and he was cute so I'm like yeah for sure I'm just putting them away over here, thanks a lot man. Five mins later he walks over and is like "so you can't carry two 45's on your own hey?
laugh.gif
" while pointing to the 150 pounds I'm deadlifting.
embarassed.gif
I was just straight up like yeaaah I just wanted you to do it so I could keep talking to you *kanye shrug*

Open with the "how many sets". I don't care if it's your chest day and her legs day. Do a set of squats to uphold the illusion if you must. Sometimes if I ask how many sets and they say 1-2 or whatever I'll say something like "alright now you save that rack for me
wink.gif
don't let anyone steal it from me! I'll be right back!" or something. Doesn't have to be hard just don't be a meanmugging, overarrogant douche.
 
Originally Posted by Galvelocity

USA Pride4Life wrote:
Xavier wrote:
what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
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   Nah man, not in the gym. If you can try & catch her either on her way out of the gym or entering the gym (most likely  on another day, unless). I wouldn't go smack while she's on the elliptical or anything like that.
Mmm there's ways you can do it while she's working out that you can get away with I think. I'm like nuts about my workouts I'm such a gym rat so I usually have my headphones in and I'm all business. However, I have had a couple guys who will ask how many sets I have left and then when I take my headphones out to answer will make some joke about how much I'm lifting or something. I don't mind it at all. I know it takes balls to approach a girl in the gym so I'm always nice
happy.gif


On that note, BE nice. I always notice guys that hold open the door for me or let me go to the water fountain first. The little sweet things just get me. Although once a guy asked if he could help carry one of the 45 pound plates I was carrying and he was cute so I'm like yeah for sure I'm just putting them away over here, thanks a lot man. Five mins later he walks over and is like "so you can't carry two 45's on your own hey?
laugh.gif
" while pointing to the 150 pounds I'm deadlifting.
embarassed.gif
I was just straight up like yeaaah I just wanted you to do it so I could keep talking to you *kanye shrug*

Open with the "how many sets". I don't care if it's your chest day and her legs day. Do a set of squats to uphold the illusion if you must. Sometimes if I ask how many sets and they say 1-2 or whatever I'll say something like "alright now you save that rack for me
wink.gif
don't let anyone steal it from me! I'll be right back!" or something. Doesn't have to be hard just don't be a meanmugging, overarrogant douche.


We need to have a chat. 
 
Originally Posted by Galvelocity

USA Pride4Life wrote:
Xavier wrote:
what about the gym is this a no go? sometimes i be in there getting it in, and see females sometimes peeping me out i never approach them out of respect of there space and time (most of the time i got my bluetooth headphones on) BUT they be giving signals should i go for it?
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   Nah man, not in the gym. If you can try & catch her either on her way out of the gym or entering the gym (most likely  on another day, unless). I wouldn't go smack while she's on the elliptical or anything like that.
Mmm there's ways you can do it while she's working out that you can get away with I think. I'm like nuts about my workouts I'm such a gym rat so I usually have my headphones in and I'm all business. However, I have had a couple guys who will ask how many sets I have left and then when I take my headphones out to answer will make some joke about how much I'm lifting or something. I don't mind it at all. I know it takes balls to approach a girl in the gym so I'm always nice
happy.gif


On that note, BE nice. I always notice guys that hold open the door for me or let me go to the water fountain first. The little sweet things just get me. Although once a guy asked if he could help carry one of the 45 pound plates I was carrying and he was cute so I'm like yeah for sure I'm just putting them away over here, thanks a lot man. Five mins later he walks over and is like "so you can't carry two 45's on your own hey?
laugh.gif
" while pointing to the 150 pounds I'm deadlifting.
embarassed.gif
I was just straight up like yeaaah I just wanted you to do it so I could keep talking to you *kanye shrug*

Open with the "how many sets". I don't care if it's your chest day and her legs day. Do a set of squats to uphold the illusion if you must. Sometimes if I ask how many sets and they say 1-2 or whatever I'll say something like "alright now you save that rack for me
wink.gif
don't let anyone steal it from me! I'll be right back!" or something. Doesn't have to be hard just don't be a meanmugging, overarrogant douche.


We need to have a chat. 
 
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