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aint that a *****? Lol
Ever had to cut a friend off? Vol. I can't mess wit you no more B
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This one cat, wouldn't really call him a good friend but I had known him for at least 10 years. Knew his mom, been over to his fam's house many many times. Dude ended up kicking my door in while I was at work for a few hundred dollars. That **** right there really hit me. I will never have a new friend in my life ever agian because of this. No one comes to my house anymore either except maybe 2-3 people.
Another time, a really good friend of mine. This was a very generous dude, just gave me a lot of stuff just to be nice, good dude at heart. So he brings this new girl out with me and my other friends. Now this chick is trying to flirt with me the whole night, talking about she want to hang out with me and all that. It got to the point that I just went outside the club and was mingling with the smokers on the sidewalk cause I was so uncomfortable with her all up in my face right in front of him. Club closes, everyone comes outside. I join our group, making sure to stand as far away as possible from this chick. She makes it a point to move and come stand by me. He sees the writting on the wall and dips without saying bye to anyone even though he was her ride. To be fair, I did take her number and he probably saw that, which I regret doing. But also, he was married with a kid at the time. Anyway, I call him the next day to tell him all the things she was saying and to find out if he was cool. Basically tells me it's cool and he doesn't care but then proceeds to tell all my other friends how lame I am and he doesn't **** with me anymore. Haven't spoken since, been over a year.
Another time, a really good friend of mine. This was a very generous dude, just gave me a lot of stuff just to be nice, good dude at heart. So he brings this new girl out with me and my other friends. Now this chick is trying to flirt with me the whole night, talking about she want to hang out with me and all that. It got to the point that I just went outside the club and was mingling with the smokers on the sidewalk cause I was so uncomfortable with her all up in my face right in front of him. Club closes, everyone comes outside. I join our group, making sure to stand as far away as possible from this chick. She makes it a point to move and come stand by me. He sees the writting on the wall and dips without saying bye to anyone even though he was her ride. To be fair, I did take her number and he probably saw that, which I regret doing. But also, he was married with a kid at the time. Anyway, I call him the next day to tell him all the things she was saying and to find out if he was cool. Basically tells me it's cool and he doesn't care but then proceeds to tell all my other friends how lame I am and he doesn't **** with me anymore. Haven't spoken since, been over a year.
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If you lie to me, want to fight over a girl, ask me for money, or steal from me, you're done and that's it.
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You better off without that dude homie. That ain't a friend.
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Yeah I definitely had to cut off one of my homies that I new since 1997, lived on the same block went to junior high together and everything. But idk dude literally wasn't going anywhere with his life, worked mineal jobs, and just couldn't stop smoking bud. I mean there was just no progression with him you know? But I tolerated it since he was always cool with me back when we used to burn together etc.
But after I decided to stop burning tree, it was evident that he didn't really want to chill with me anymore. It had gotten to a point where he was so dependent on smoking every day that he would only chill with friends who would burn...who were pretty much delinquents around the neighborhood. His friend circle became a group of aimless dudes, and his demeanor changed as well. Dude started becoming mad ignorant and rude, it seemed that he had given up on his true potential and ambitions at 23.
But the final straw came after he straight up flaked on me 3-4 times in a row when I tried to invite him to bars and things like that with some of my other college homies to try and get back in touch , only to find out he flaked every single time to go smoke with some aimless potheads, even after telling me he would come through. Dude would straight ignore my calls and put his phone on voicemail minutes after he would text me saying hes coming. Had to text him the next day jokingly but somewhat seriously saying that he was cut off. We havent really spoken since then, so its apparent that he got the message.
I felt bad about since that was my homie homie, and we've been through a lot together, but I just can't forgive him for the fact that he gave up on his ambitions and dreams, and made the decision to do a complete 180 instead. I hope the best for him though, always will.
But after I decided to stop burning tree, it was evident that he didn't really want to chill with me anymore. It had gotten to a point where he was so dependent on smoking every day that he would only chill with friends who would burn...who were pretty much delinquents around the neighborhood. His friend circle became a group of aimless dudes, and his demeanor changed as well. Dude started becoming mad ignorant and rude, it seemed that he had given up on his true potential and ambitions at 23.
But the final straw came after he straight up flaked on me 3-4 times in a row when I tried to invite him to bars and things like that with some of my other college homies to try and get back in touch , only to find out he flaked every single time to go smoke with some aimless potheads, even after telling me he would come through. Dude would straight ignore my calls and put his phone on voicemail minutes after he would text me saying hes coming. Had to text him the next day jokingly but somewhat seriously saying that he was cut off. We havent really spoken since then, so its apparent that he got the message.
I felt bad about since that was my homie homie, and we've been through a lot together, but I just can't forgive him for the fact that he gave up on his ambitions and dreams, and made the decision to do a complete 180 instead. I hope the best for him though, always will.
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^ Was about to quote and say the same. Nobody needs flakes.
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Also the ex's close friends, #$%# those decepticons and the lies they spew
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it hurts when you fall out with people you've known since age 6 smh
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I hate cats like this...if you were once my dude im not going to throw dirt on your name even after we fell out thats not how we were raised so why try to do it to me
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yes. they dead to me
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nah, u got pipedDog one time when i was a kid jus learnin bout myself and starting puberty me n my friends would see who could bust a nut the fastest and stuff like that.
One night m n my dude r sleepin in da same bed.was a normal thing and we talkin bout bangin sum shawtys and then dude pulls down his pants and is like just put the tip in i just wanna know how it feels
Was nasty as hell
We never talked about that again.
Still my dude to this day tho
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i cut my homie off last year... he owed me 300 for a minute.. i let it slide... borrowed 200 from me again(to buy crack).. i let it slide cuz he got locked... he got out and started getting money so i pressed him while he was in my crib... he was staying in my apt on and off all summer... he fronted like he aint know what i was talking about.. i had a crib OT so when he thought i wasnt around, i came and got all his clothes from my crib and threw it in his grandmas basement....
called him up and told him where his stuff was and basically cut him off... he was just a leech and i got tired of it...
called him up and told him where his stuff was and basically cut him off... he was just a leech and i got tired of it...
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I don't demand but I do this **** lol....Idk how your boy was doing it but I don't see no harm in that..my friends do the same thing..if they like a certain song they will tell me im stupid for not liking it vice versa lol
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I know how you feel bra..somethin similar happened to me
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In life you do this whether on purpose or not. I learned a while back in my mid-20s to do this when my girl and I broke up. Regardless if I wanted to or not, I had to dead people that I had in my life since we were no longer together. Even had some homies that just wanted to do things I never got into no more like clubbing or whatever. Had to just leave them be because they used me as some dumb excuse to go since they had no one else to go with. You live and you learn though. Plus this stuff gets even worse when you are married and have kids. By the end of it, your crew is basically your family.
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Let that be a lesson to some of y'all, your family is your family. Don't choose friends over your family because your friends aren't forever all the time
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In for ways to dead a "friend" 
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some of my fam and I dont talk and Im perfectly cool with that it used to hurt me but who cares
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A good friend of mine from high school that I spoke to on and off when I was in college tried to get me on his team of "entrepreneurs". I'm like this ***** must think I'm stupid and don't know about that 5linx ********. Deaded him right there.
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Cut off the majority of my friends.
Between having kids, and starting a career in law enforcement, we just all moved in different directions.
Between having kids, and starting a career in law enforcement, we just all moved in different directions.
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I pretty much deaded a friend who tried to get me to join Amway too
Let son get away with breaking one Nintendo DS after borrowing it for MONTHS, and even let him borrow a second one, only for him to repay my constant kindness with that.
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Sadly, I have had to cut people off.
My ex best friend that I'd known since HS had to go when he started going to college. Dude just started acting weird and allowing himself to be influenced by people he didn't really know to do REALLY stupid things. I told him that he'd forgotten who he was and where he came from and that he needed to check himself. Dude admitted that he was being a idiot but didn't know HOW to be himself anymore. 4 months after that convo he tried to play me, I haven't talked to him since.
My ex best friend that I'd known since HS had to go when he started going to college. Dude just started acting weird and allowing himself to be influenced by people he didn't really know to do REALLY stupid things. I told him that he'd forgotten who he was and where he came from and that he needed to check himself. Dude admitted that he was being a idiot but didn't know HOW to be himself anymore. 4 months after that convo he tried to play me, I haven't talked to him since.
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Dude that was like a brother since we were 3 and 4 y/o. Dude used to always like about dumb stuff like havin the new video games and what not but a let him pass b/c he was like fam and it wasn't that serious. As time went on we started growing different but stayed coo b/c again, we were like brothers. Before I went to college we had a fallin out some broad and didn't speak until spring term of my freshman yr at Pitt.
After that he started hangin w/ dudes who gassed him b/c he always had money and Rx pills. We were growin apart and I knew it and didn't really care because he didn't seem to wanna grow as a person. He was supposed to be the best man at my wedding but almost ruined it we he went M.I.A during rehearsal. Didn't help set up the hall for the reception and was no where to be found until the "Bachelor Party"
I wrote him out of the wedding but then let him back in and he starting whining about me not having some of the lil homies I knew as groomsmen Final straw was when he got on Facebook messaging me talkin wreckless. I told him that if he burned the bridge, I aint puttin forth effort to rebuild it, that was almost 4 years ago. A shame a 20+ yr friendship down the drain.
After that he started hangin w/ dudes who gassed him b/c he always had money and Rx pills. We were growin apart and I knew it and didn't really care because he didn't seem to wanna grow as a person. He was supposed to be the best man at my wedding but almost ruined it we he went M.I.A during rehearsal. Didn't help set up the hall for the reception and was no where to be found until the "Bachelor Party"
I wrote him out of the wedding but then let him back in and he starting whining about me not having some of the lil homies I knew as groomsmen
Final straw was when he got on Facebook messaging me talkin wreckless. I told him that if he burned the bridge, I aint puttin forth effort to rebuild it, that was almost 4 years ago. A shame a 20+ yr friendship down the drain.
