After failed 1st dates or relationships, do any of you go back to her and ask why? Should I?

When facebook be reminding you about these women in the "People you may know" section... the sads
 
Can we see photos of this woman please...

damn near 3 years later (time since post + 8 months) and you still in them feels.... 
 
I'll give you the European jawn because last I heard she's over there, none of the locals though. Just an AWG with a booty who wanted to be black though, nothing special.
 
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Any ex that I been with again, just ended up being a ex again :lol: and me being upset at myself that I have to get over the female again

Second time is easier to get over though
 
Any ex that I been with again, just ended up being a ex again :lol: and me being upset at myself that I have to get over the female again

Second time is easier to get over though

Basically, sucks finally coming to terms that this ain't it though since I don't get attached often.
 
You've gotta learn to accept having no closure and just walking away fam.

Makes for a better life. Don't stress yourself out over the actions of others, only you can control you. 
 
Ive been on both sides of the coin,

My ex still to this day drops hints on me like, "When are you going to stop playing and make us work again... lol" and things like that. She was a great women :smh: i just cant see myself marrying and having children with a christian. not trying to make this a religion thread but it didnt work out and sometimes I just want to hit her up and make it work :smh:

Another ex was perfect in every way, body i liked, mentality i liked, cooking i liked, humor i liked, dang near everything i liked, but she one day just wasn't into me like that anymore ( we all know another dude was getting it :smh: ). I never had a connection with a woman like that since her. I want to show up on her porch one rainy day like the movies and win her back :rofl: :rofl: but i charged it to the game.

pimp C said it best, " And whats a pimp with no O's, Dont be a lame, you know how the game goes, we tryna get chose." :smh: :smokin
 
Yall still cool though? I don't talk to anyone fro my past. Not that I make a point not to, just don't make a point to and they don't either. I actually wouldn't mind, or would in fact love to hear from some of them again even if we can't be more than friends now
 
I was joking about that, shut up bros. But true story these Maurice's go extra hard in photos but was boo boo in person. If anyone wants a pair though, sz 13 VVNDS, worn once literally from 6:30 to 2am, might be cursed. Holla at me. Jawns curl up in the front like elf shoes

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eww:rofl: ​ nazi boots b


Those boots might've been the reason


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Word, da hommie Ralph totally failed me that day. That whole fit was stretch from the post office B, had on a the red based gingham too, would normally say it be killing but I got the 2xl B instead of the regular 2xl so it was long and wide like a Dashika top. Thought I was still bout to go cop some butt, end of the date when the club closed she was standing like 6ft away from me with some of her girls and was like, "alright Derrick, you got my number hit me up," and head nodded me talking bout "I'm bout to go back in and hang out with my friends for a minute." I know they was laughing at the boy :lol: Couldn't even give a ***** another side hug or something, we been together like half a day and been to every place in the city!

Walked to the car all slow, sad, and lonely, then it started raining, just stood in the rain at the car looking at the door to the club for like 30 minutes before I even got in, went straight to the hotel got there like 245am. Didn't sleep, just laid there til like 11 and drove home then went and called myself trying to hoop. Missed every shot.

I think Im'ma text her a link to Brian McKnight- Anytime though. I remember when it was all good and she told me she like that song anyways.

Yooooooooooooo


My guy tried to pick up a shorty with them Tomb Raider boots.

Where they do that at?


Text her a pic of some wheat timbs and tell her youve changed.
HOWLING :rofl:
 
Yall still cool though? I don't talk to anyone fro my past. Not that I make a point not to, just don't make a point to and they don't either. I actually wouldn't mind, or would in fact love to hear from some of them again even if we can't be more than friends now

I speak with a few of them here and there. The rest I do not contact them. Not having social media makes it easier as well. If i did im sure I would hop on their page every once in a while
 
C'mon bro. I'm sure it's in a prior post in the thread. We met at Starbucks about 6:30, to decide if we were compatible enough to proceed and she/I wasn't crazy. Proceeded from there to see About Last Night at 7, then went to dinner at Jazmoz New Orleans Bourbon St Café or whatever the **** that place is called, had the alligator bites appetizer she had calamari I had lobster ravioli, then we went to this hiphop thing that was poetry, rapping, dancing, freestyle battling in this hole In the wall club. We really broke up at the club really and she'd just periodically come back and talk to me then get lost in the amiss of the club again and then it was over and the night ended like it ended. Do not pass go, do not get a kiss or touch the booty or Nathan.

The European chic just only like the thug, drug dealer/rapper/lot of kids and tats black dudes, not the kind of brother I am. Plus she came by the house and we didn't do nothing which may have been my demise according to NT, should have WIO. I thought she just wanted to talk about Germany and watch Martin sitting on the loveseat at 2am

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Ok I won't. I am going to end up running into her in real life at some point, close to inevitable. Without saying too much, she's a mainstay at one of the coolest places in OKC for young blacks that isn't a club. I have been avoiding it on purpose. Might not recognize me, ahve dropped 40 lbs since then (maybe that was it lol)

I typically think NTs consensus on many things, especially everything involving women, is stupid so I'd normally do the opposite but I'll listen this time.

I think it was these punkass Ralph Lauren Polo Maurice Boots I had on, or D&G The One cologne I had on. I wasn't up on my Sperry game or Aventus yet. Plus I put my foot in my mouth a few times, I have an amazing memory particularly with seemingly insignificant details.

But preciate it. The fact I started this thread makes it seems like I'm more consumed by it than I am, dont think about it at all other than today saw her come across my FB people you may know feed.

Bruh, it actually could have been something as simple as the Boots, never know

Repped for keeping it all the way 100 though :rofl:

I'm going to have to catch up on this thread this weekend and see what came of this...don't spoil it for me, I wanna read about it
 
C'mon bro. I'm sure it's in a prior post in the thread. We met at Starbucks about 6:30, to decide if we were compatible enough to proceed and she/I wasn't crazy. Proceeded from there to see About Last Night at 7, then went to dinner at Jazmoz New Orleans Bourbon St Café or whatever the **** that place is called, had the alligator bites appetizer she had calamari I had lobster ravioli, then we went to this hiphop thing that was poetry, rapping, dancing, freestyle battling in this hole In the wall club. We really broke up at the club really and she'd just periodically come back and talk to me then get lost in the amiss of the club again and then it was over and the night ended like it ended. Do not pass go, do not get a kiss or touch the booty or Nathan.

The European chic just only like the thug, drug dealer/rapper/lot of kids and tats black dudes, not the kind of brother I am. Plus she came by the house and we didn't do nothing which may have been my demise according to NT, should have WIO. I thought she just wanted to talk about Germany and watch Martin sitting on the loveseat at 2am
Why im always lowkey hesitant when it comes to dealing with white women specifically. 

Find out a majority of the time they're looking to fulfill a fetish in that stereotype, and like you im a white collar dude I don't and won't ever be like that.

Like I said fam, charge it to the game and keep it pushing. 

I live in the Midwest tho where pulling white women is probably the easiest demographic to shoot for so I've had some good and some bad experiences with em.
 
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