How do you feel about having children?

Andretti said:
20

Don't want at all

I believe some proper in this world shouldn't have them I i believe Im one of them

Mad selfish and I have issues that I don't want to pass down to my children

Don't want a bird as a bm either

Not getting married either

Don't want them going to public schools if I do

I want to be the guy with a Cammed c6 zr1 with the liscence plates that says no kids and gets dirty looks when people see it.

Come at me bros.
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JumpmanPro97 said:
no one in their 20s should even think of having or wanting a kid. You start changing your mind in your 30s
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mivish06 said:
I want a son and a daughter eventually, after I'm settled with a career and have enjoyed a few years as a bachelor :lol:

I want to carry on my legacy and grow old to have children I can be proud of...a complete circle of life I suppose
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CHiCHiLOVES5s said:
Here we go :lol:

But seriously, I'm a female and I don't want children either. I always get told I'll grow out of it but I'm nearing 30 and I can't see my feelings changing. It's not for everyone.
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JVII said:
I don't ever wanna have kids. EVER.

I don't have the desire, nor the patience for that ****.
My man. :pimp:

Reps for you homie. :lol:
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Boris said:
I don't really want to have kids. I would rather regret not having kids than regret having kids. 
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Co-signing all of these!

I'm all set with children. This generation is all messed up. I'm 25 and see all the nonsense that goes on around me. Petty relationships. People getting married as soon as they turn 20 and have children and next thing you know, they are divorced and separated . Rest in peace Pimp C, ain't neva' trust no hussie. All these women out here are for everyone. The mindset and thought process of women in the social media age is so bad. I would not wanna bring a child in this world without my career and finances not at a very very stable and abundant place. I think your a fool, otherwise. I'll go the Jay-Z route if I have a change of heart. Have children when I'm in my early 40's. That's the only possible way.

I will enjoy my 20's and 30's with no children. That's for sure.
 
SoleByThePound said:
I just couldn't imagine bringing another person into this world. I don't see mankind making it out of this century.
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This is one reason. Also, I'm going to be extremely focused on my career for the next decade and climb as high as I can. Don't have time for it.
 
Kellyrep said:
I've come to a point where I know that I don't  want to have children. I'm the only female I know who feels that way and get a lot of flack for it.  I get told I haven't met the right person, give it a few years, you'll die alone but I really don't want any.  I just don't want any ever. Anyone can contribute to the conversation.
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How was your child hood? You should talk to your grandma or mom. Anyone can tell you its not just one persons decision and requires a whole family. Im sure youll change your views as you mature and go through life.

I want like 3-5 kids.

Nothing more beautiful than having kids, raising them and understanding the meaning of ‘life‘.
 
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i use to want kids when im in my early 20's

but i wanna spend too much on cars so da kids gotta wait til im atleast 30 now :lol:
 
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Just remember that you will never ever look into someone's eyes and see a reflection of yourself. If you find peace in that, then more power to you dude.
 
Going to Nigeria changed my mind on kids. Some of my little cousins are just some smooth little kids. Very respectful of their elders. kids on the street were smooth too and polite, threw them a couple bucks. I was surprised.
 
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Having nieces and nephews removed any sort of fatherly calling I had within myself.

I have a dope relationship with all of them, my presence puts them in a good mood and the same goes for myself.

But while I may love them all greatly, watching my brother raise them has shown to me being a parent is not the life for me.
 
I think what makes me want to have them more is the woman I'm with...

I legit want her to be my baby muhva, famb...

I think she would be am awesome mother... Straight up...

I feel like even if it didn't work out... My seed would still be Gucci.
 
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Fontaine said:
I think what makes me want to have them more is the woman I'm with...

I legit want her to be my baby muhva, famb...

I think she would be am awesome mother... Straight up...

I feel like even if it didn't work out... My seed would still be Gucci.
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gonna marry her fam?
 
Yo as a female How could you not want to replicate a part of yourself??...I had to have a kid **** that. If I could only do one thing during my journey on earth it would be reproduce.

Sumfin iz wrong witchu..
That love tho
 
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I want kids but only when I feel I'm stable career wise and financially.
I never saw myself having kids in my 20's, I'm tryna flourish bruh .

Being the older cool dad wit some wisdom for my kids and their lil homies is more me :pimp:
 
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i want 2-4 kids when the time is right. no need to rush. i need to be selfish for now.

i want my future family to have the best life i can give them, so i'll only take marriage & babies into serious consideration when i can provide that.
 
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I'm only 21 so I haven't really thought on it too much. I've been blessed to have some amazing parents up until this point.

To keep it real I'm afraid to have kids man. Idk if I'll ever be able to be as good a parent as my parent.
 
My big sis had kids young, so I always thought it was normal to have kids around 21. 24 now and no kids anytime soon. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't jelly of my peeps who got kids right now. I do strongly believe I was meant for a different path though, so I'll keep doing me until the time matters.
 
I have one and I'm done. I don't want the legal responsibility for another one. I have enough family having them, I can always borrow one of theirs.
 
sometimes **** happens i had a daughter very young and now she is going to be 6 and for a long time i said i didnt want anymore kids but i dont know if its cause im getting older and cause my daughter is getting old that when the time is right and im with the right person i would def want to another kid this time i want a boy more than anything else. I know youve probably all heard this before but things change when you have kids it literally a feeling no one can explain and you never really know what love is until you have your own kid
 
My older sis got pregnant at 19, she already had an associates then and was working on her bachelors. Fam gave a hard time in the beginning because we're not "that kind" of family. Going through the struggles with her and my nephew was rough, I wanted no parts of it until I was financially stable.
 
Asking this question in a demographic that is predominantly 18-24 will generally give you one type of response. I'm sure people will change their minds as they get older. 
 
They don't know about your stress filled days, baby on the way, mad bills to pay...

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-Doesnt want to have sex
-Doesnt want kids
-Picky
What else? You're 0 for 3 so far. Good luck finding "that" special guy in your life. Seriously, what do you even have to offer a dude?
I can already tell you shouldnt have children. Some women just dont have that maternal instinct :smh:

As for me, I love kids (That are mine). If it was up to me i'd have 3 by now.
 
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