Relationship Issue: Get Out Now?

Kellyrep said:
The whole thing is stupid though.



Honestly, both of you sound immature. She's upset that you made fun of her snoring.


You are upset that she's upset over a joke. Now you want to break up. How about you just don't date ever? Because you and another person would annoy each other too much.




On the real. It happens all the time in relationships. She's ignoring you  until she's calm and maybe thinks about it.  She didn't blow up and beat you upside the head.  Slash your tires because of it . Why be together if you're going to breakup over nonsense?
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Talking two different extremes though. That's like when dudes try to act like they're good men cause "I never hit her, and I don't go out sleeping around." He's talking about a pattern of behavior, not just that he doesn't like the fight they just had. Women say **** like that all the time "I just took some time to calm down" but that's not how it's expressed and it's not done to calm down it's done to put a guilt trip on her man for some miniscule **** cause she doesn't have anything else to get mad about.

Point is, if she feels like using you to act out her tantrums she's gonna find a reason no matter how small. And the fact that she hasn't resorted to physical violence or damaging your property YET doesn't mean it's all good.
 
Mr Z said:
FrankMatthews said:
Instead of trying to describe her to us and get our feedback you need to say everything you said in your first 2 posts TO HER. Everyone is putting your girl in a box based on their experience with women. They could be right, could be bead wrong. have a talk fam. communication fixes everything, if it's fixable.
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I know right! The problem is she shuts EVERYTHING like that off. When she's not mad anymore then we go on about our lives. We have never beenable to talk through a problem. she says i do reverse psychology. Im just trying to reach out to her. Even after she cools down she dont want to talk about none of that. Thats my biggest concern, we cant even talk. I tell her that and she shuts me off. Its crazy...i dont know how to get through to someone who does not want to talk or jave any intellectuall convo to help the relationship.
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This is about the only issue I have with my ex. Passive aggressive ******** where a quick convo could save things. Just makes me feel like you're keeping secrets. I usually end up in some sort of female logic trap where I look needy and crazy. I can't stand just that, imagine the other nonsense you threw in.
 
illwill8710 said:
She sounds Latino(a). I don't think your stupid OP. The crazy yambs are among the finest and most addictive. She's not going to physically cheat on a 26 yr old unless there is money involved.

Just dust it off and charge her to the game. Do it now because your life is at steak.
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Did you say steak, cheating, money?

Is this the same girl that didn't give OP the yambs for two weeks, even after a date to Ruth's Kris? :nerd:
 
Mr Z said:
Honestly, I dont think there is anyone else she is having sex with. We get it in every other day. Most time multiple days back to back. There is not much time for her to **** someone else. I mean...unless she is a super ho. We have sex alot. I am 26 years old and in shape b...we go at it. I dont see sexual infedelity. If she is with someone else it's proabably more emotional than physical...but you never know with people these days.
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Why are you dating a NTer‘s mom?

Just leave and trust your instincts. She is using you. One day she might cut your meat while you are asleep.
 
You paying to remodel her place con on pa


You have to have one ounce of manliness in you and tell her straight up. I'm good I ain't no one punching bag let alone suga daddy. But go ahead and stay hate to see another man fall victim to her.
 
Before I'd pay 2gs to remodel HER kitchen I'd think of what I could do with that money

The money that I worked for

2gs?

That ain't even ya wife man the **** wrong with you man
 
Mr Z said:
Havent done anything yet. Tried to talk to her again and she wasn't with it. She said i just want to fight. She says I'm confrontational but cats in here calling me beta...lol. I have a mild attitude as you can see. Obviously, I need to get out. How i go about doing that I am not totally sure. We just got back from picking out stuff for her kitchen remodel. We have not been talking much though. Everything is in motion but i have to pay the remaining 2k to the company we are using. Should I pay them or leave it to her? I did say i would pay and hate going against my word. Not sure if she uses me for money or not...I live alone and have very low expenses. Tough situation but i know i need to get out of it and probably take a little break to find myself. All the posts have really opened my eyes. Need to get my life back together.
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your paying thousands to remodel her kitchen and she's not on her absolute best behavior? A normal person that actually cared about you would not be putting you through this drama, they would be extremely grateful and appreciative. Sounds like you are being used, sounds like you know it toO.

All the fighting and leaving is to avoid having to have serious relationship discussions. Rather than lie and play with your emotions she feigns anger and avoids the issue. I understand wanting to keep your word but I wouldn't pay. Not paying will likely change everything.
 
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Chopper said:
Did you say steak, cheating, money?

Is this the same girl that didn't give OP the yambs for two weeks, even after a date to Ruth's Kris? :nerd:
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Stake*

I must have missed that. I also missed the part were OP mentioned that he made more money than her. I still believe that the yambs must have been of the highest quality.
 
Remodeling a kitchen 
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I hate to triple post, but I suck at stuff like this. OP don't take offense to anything I say.

Mr Z said:
There are some positives. When she is not being a super ***** she can make me really happy. We have a good
Mr Z said:
There are some positives. When she is not being a super ***** she can make me really happy. We have a good friendship also so its easy to spend alot of time together. She is very intelligent and cooks very well. She does little things around my house like cleaning and decorating. She lets me whip the beamer. Honestly, she is the best looking chick i have ever dated and she is almost 40. I love the allure of having an older chick that looks good. She was NOT easy to get with so im reluctant to give up.
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You sound like a female, get yourself together. You don't need her or her BMW. You make 100k a year. You flossy, daddy. Stunt on the girls that are in ya age bracket
 
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yall doin a good job. Keep me straight and lay into me
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I hope Im reading this wrong


One time we were playing Never Have I Ever with shots with some friends and she spazzed. We went one round and she was like "i dont want to play this stupid game" so she stopped playing but CONTINUED to take shots! Lmao
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She has something to hide. Not only that, but she's a drunk. She's a freak ho drunkard
 
No disrespect but she's not married for a reason. 36 years old and acting that way? Leave her *** OP
 
Hahhahahahahahhahaha come on man. You are paying for her house to get renovated dude? Of course you don't want to leave her
 
what's the point of staying with this chick and putting up with her ******** if you aren't going to wife her? Get out now before she says she's pregnant with your kid.
 
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