Recognizing That She's "Out Of Your League", Low Self-Confidence or Realism?

It's only the clothes he's wearing in that specific picture. If he was in a fitted suit it wouldn't be an issue.
 
Plus he's tall and white.

She'd choose him before she chose a 5'6" Asian dude built like a Greek God with a symmetrical face.
 
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Some reject themselves from the get go sometimes without approaching or assuming she won't like you
 
Leagues aren't a thing. You don't enter a new league when you grow bigger boobs/get an implant, you don't enter a new league when you get brolic and only have 10% body fat.  All that doesn't matter if you have no inner confidence. One of my best friends is brolic, and a good looking guy. Dude has never had sex (and no he's not abstinent), he's never had a gf. So its all about whats inside.
 
Flyeed said:
By that logic no man is out of any woman's league either.

I bet if this thread were flipped people would be talking all sorts of stuff about how they'd never give the time of day to a busted, obese, unsuccessful woman. Yet they say every woman is attainable to every man.

And just like any generalization, this doesn't mean 100% of the time, all we're talking are generalizations. So let's keep that in context.
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Honestly never thought of it like this. But this is a great point.

However, we can't really flip the scenario as such because we as men aren't judged in the same fashion as women when it comes to looks. As long a man isn't drop dead ugly, he has a shot with any female, even a celeb if the right setting is presented. Just know how to talk to a female, make her laugh and feel comfortable, and from there you have a great shot.
 
Man you're gonna fail with busted girls and you will fail with sexy girls
Aslong and you smell good and your teeth straight you should be good
 
I have wayyyy more success with women who are "out of my league" than with the chicks who are on my level or below lol

Most of those girls don't get approached as often as you'd think because of dudes having that same mentality... You just have to roll the dice a few times and hope they're not *******. Even if you don't get the number just having a conversation with them will give you somewhat of a confidence boost
 
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One should keep in mind that no one is truly out of anyone's 'league.' We are all of this earth and that makes us all one in the same. Nothing more, nothing less. Of course this doesn't guarantee mutual interest, but you should never look at it as someone being on a higher/lower plane than you. 
 
I'm delusional, I think I can pull anything if I'm on my game. I put my bid in and just go from there. Act without expectation. Strangely enough the fine ones be da coolest, but the true test is in getting past the self doubt and their demeanor, initially. 
 
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RobinVanDamn said:
I have wayyyy more success with women who are "out of my league" than with the chicks who are on my level or below lol

Most of those girls don't get approached as often as you'd think because of dudes having that same mentality... You just have to roll the dice a few times and hope they're not *******. Even if you don't get the number just having a conversation with them will give you somewhat of a confidence boost
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There's no such thing as a woman being out of my league.
I'm out of a lot of these women's leagues
 
So here's what i'm gonna do:

Stack money and accomplishments, bring my knowledge game to the next level, and basically become an overall better version of myself. With that done I'm going to gain more sense of SELF, and my WORTH. Once I realize that I am TRULY WORTHY of love from anyone I see fit I will move towards what I want and I will attract it to me as a by product.

What was "**** *******, Get Money" will become "**** ******* AND Get Money"

I believe in myself and I believe that I deserve the BEST this life has to offer me. I just need to be open to taking it.
 
to me there is sort of a limit, and initial attraction is based strictly on looks.

you can usually pull +1 or so to what you are.

if you're an 8, you can pull 9's and the occasional dime.

if you're a 6, you'll pretty max out with 7-8's.

in life we're usually attracted to those who we feel are similar to us. (or in the same league)

just my opinion though
 
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So here's what i'm gonna do:

Stack money and accomplishments, bring my knowledge game to the next level, and basically become an overall better version of myself. With that done I'm going to gain more sense of SELF, and my WORTH. Once I realize that I am TRULY WORTHY of love from anyone I see fit I will move towards what I want and I will attract it to me as a by product.

What was "**** *******, Get Money" will become "**** ******* AND Get Money"

I believe in myself and I believe that I deserve the BEST this life has to offer me. I just need to be open to taking it.
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This is exactly what I've been on lately..

Law of Attraction :smokin

Once you make that mental change and start chasing what's important you notice the difference in how coworkers, friends and complete strangers look at you.

I've been developing some theories & philosophies on this approach lately
 
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