Are exes allowed at weddings? Vol. How would you take it (or give it)

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Just a thought

Is your ex and your wife-to-be's ex invited?

I say no, leave them mother ******* at the door. No need for the drama

And I don't have the heart or the patience to have someone my ex use to be with even be in attendance at the ceremony or reception. Real talk I might have to approach him on some hostile "don't let the tux fool you, little Man. I'll take you out back and get in ya ***" type ****. 10 times outta 10 my groomsmen will have my back. But that's just me.

Now on my side, I wouldn't invite my exes to my wedding. Only for the fact that I know these girls is home wreckers. They'll dead *** try to top you up infront of your fiancé and look at her like "yea I took that ****, what now?" Id rather avoid that whole situation. I'm sure one of the bridesmaids would be quick to break a champagne bottle on a girl's head.

TL:DR: inviting your exes to your wedding will lead to a scene out of The Boondocks

What's your take on it?
 
If the relationship is ended and you found the person you're truly supposed to be with, what purpose does even communicating with an ex serve? Especially when said communication leads to you thinking it'd be a good idea to invite them to your wedding? :lol:

I had an old fling invite me to hers. Wasn't about that life.
 
When one of my exes realized I had a new girl, she texted me and said something along the lines of "when's the wedding? Make sure to send me an invite so I can ride that **** one last time in the bathroom"
 
When one of my exes realized I had a new girl, she texted me and said something along the lines of "when's the wedding? Make sure to send me an invite so I can ride that **** one last time in the bathroom"

 
I had a girl I used to mess with invite me to her wedding. She was a super dope chick, and I can see why dude wifed her. Needless to say I didn't attend, I couldn't do it.
 
you thinking about marrying into another human beings family, b? smh might as well sit on her daddy's lap, let him pay for the wedding and read you a bedtime story and call him 'papi.' :smh:
 
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I was just recently at a wedding where the bride apparently invited all her exes. I know at least 2 of them showed up, and everything was all good.

It really just boils down to one's character. Are you the type to leave and/or maintain an air of tension after concluding a relationship with someone? Or are you capable of leaving on good terms and maintaining a congenial relationship? If you're the former, then it's probably in your best interest not to invite exes.







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nope not happening..my feeling is that this person is your ex for a reason no reason for them to be there. As far as my future husbands ex **** outta here if he feels the need to invite his ex ***** then clearly he isnt ready to marry me LOL your past is your past and it should stay there 
 
Why would one even CONSIDER inviting an ex to the wedding? :lol:

Better yet, why are you even close enough with your ex to invite her to your wedding? Weddings = close friends and family, therefore you still close to your ex? I mean it happens but...
 
Unless youve got a "Friends" sitcom situation going where a relationship legitimately reverts back to friendship I say its not a good idea. If it was an okay situation, you wouldn't even has to ask.
 
What if it's your bm though? I always thought about this because you definitely gotta have your seed at the wedding, so it would be hard for her not to find out. I know my girl wouldn't be down with that AT ALL.
 
Why would either person have ways to contact a EX with no kids together anyways? I think it would be disrespectful
 
If you and ex share a group of friends and don't have issues with each other then I don't see an issue with inviting them.
 
Why would either person have ways to contact a EX with no kids together anyways? I think it would be disrespectful

Different bruh. I have yet to wrap my head around the keeping in touch with exes while you're in a relationship concept. But you'd be surprised the amount of ppl who see no wrong in it.
 
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