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Oh it would no doubt be some form of payback.Calling her a treacherous bop is indicative of your decision
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I honestly don't know man
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I'd go sling some pipe. Knock something down and we move on.
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It's over. Plain and simple...
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Your lady would eventually guilt trip you.
See how it doesn't work out in either scenario?
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She ain't gotta know tho.
I'm letting that steam off for me.
I'll wait another 15-20 years to let her know about it.
By then the kids are grown and we're halfway dead.
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I think if it was more than 2 years prior, you gotta' jus' take what comes with women's dense skulls. However, if any funny business has taken place within the last two years. Nah, you gotta' leave fam. That red flag spells disaster for the future.
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I couldnt do it. That lack of respect has a chance to rear its head again at some point and bring me pain. I'd move on and deal with the financial aspect as it comes
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THIS MAN KNOWS
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Cancel that *****. Chances are she said it happened just once so it looks less bad but it's trickle truth.
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Imagining how you would bring this up 15 years from now is hilarious
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Let sleeping dogs lie
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Truth
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It's a lot of variables involved. If she hasn't told you she cheated until now, you really can't be sure that it really happened years ago. Without trust it's no reason to be in a relationship tbh. Basically from the time she cheated, the relationship had been a lie anyway
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It really depends for me.
Did she cheat while we dated or after our marriage? Was it around when we had kids? If so, I'd get dna testing done immediately and discuss where our marriage stands.
If it was before marriage and we were still dating, then I could give that a pass. As long as it's all over and done with.
Did she cheat while we dated or after our marriage? Was it around when we had kids? If so, I'd get dna testing done immediately and discuss where our marriage stands.
If it was before marriage and we were still dating, then I could give that a pass. As long as it's all over and done with.
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FTH
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Ur fault for marring the whole
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You ****** and these variables. She cheated in the past. Once. It was somewhat early in the relationship, but years have past and you guys are now married with kids. No what ifs.
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that insecurity is gonna eat you inside like a parasite for the rest of your life.
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Everyone lies. Worry about yourself
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Ok. If she cheated in the past, withheld the info from him for years, then told him.....she doesn't give a damn about him or his feelings. if the shoe was on the other foot, 9/10 she would've left and put him on papers.
