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To be the man (wooooooooooo!), you gotta beat the man
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Because your respect is what matters the most when people cry right? Aye bruh, you the first man who ain't never cried. Although I'm sure you crying inside. Its all good. Your points are that of the typical dude trying to appear "hard" because he don't want his manlyness questioned. Real men cry.....I'm glad you read the sentence that immediately followed that one...'sometimes you can't help it, but you should try'
Literally both those things happened to me twice in 2013, not going into detail. But I didn't see the point, everyone was like, just let it out, cry. At points years flowed, but I tightened my **** up. I want to be looked at as strong, as someone people can turn to when they're weak and not feel so helpless...I don't care what the media says, dudes that are ok with the world seeing them cry ain't getting that respect card from me...pull yourself together.
To be the man (wooooooooooo!), you gotta beat the man
Yup. Pops cried and I still respect him. Like you can't be a grown man saying that non sense.....I clearly said 'sometimes it can't be helped'. I also said 'I've cried but pulled myself together.
It's about respect, but not in some superficial way, forget other dudes respect, I want respect from my wife, my kids. It's about being that rock for your family. You're wife can cry all she wants, but trust she wants a man to tighten up and get them through the tough parts of life, they don't want to have to get you tissues when the mortgage is late.
Would y'all respect your fathers if he cried?
I'm not talking once or twice, Im talking on the reg, like y'all seem to be promoting...unless I'm reading y'all wrong.
lol pops didnt cry all the time. You said there is no reason for a man to cry.What was going in in your dads life that bad that he cried all the time...my family has been through hell, me included, you name it, death, drugs, gangs, HIV, drunks, financial,divorce etc. It was always rare to see a male cry. Probably count the number on my hands...left hand...so men crying is not how I was raised. Men are strong, men figure **** out, men don't want attention, men don't get recognition for their accomplishments, they smoke, they drink, they curse, they go to church on special occasions, they say they love you only when you absolutely need to hear it, they have fun interesting youths, they talk straight, even if it ain't always right, they were wise, even if they weren't right. Their only fault, IMO, is a lot of them cheated and completely disrespected women, other than that, even political views, I liked then.
That's how I was raised, so y'all saying its ok for men to SHOW weakness, even if they were weak, no one but mom knew it. There was no point in us kids knowing...no point in those outside the family knowing.
The only reason to let those besides family and those that can help know your troubles is sympathy seeking, as far as I can see, maybe I'm wrong though, if I am please explain.
the things men need to do is protect, provide, and be knowledgeable. this doc is filled with these mental health doctors who think its cool to sissfy boys and young men and even grown men. our instincts and natural being as , in essence, animals is a big factor.
men just have to be men. you need to release anger and frustration learn boxing or a martial art.
Depression is a term that's used wayyyy to much. It's like how people call albums "classic" these days
There's a difference between true depression and acting like a whiny lil b-word. People who REALLY suffer from depression should seek help/counseling for their situation. But a LOT of people have whiny b-word syndrome that is nothing like depression.
One of the biggest problems in America (IMO) is the fact we try to associate a medical term and logical explanation with every action/emotion. Some people are a-holes, some people are whiners, there isn't always a "deeper" meaning to why they act that way.
Do you think that has anything to do with the increased media exposure to mental illnesses?
I agree, there's a difference between being a whiner and being depressed. But these are medical doctors in the documentary who have done research regarding this whole ideal. So I would have to think that they would know a little something about what they're talking about.
I would rather be hyper masculine then out here showin my emotions
Aint nothin worst than a dude in his feelings how is a female gonna respect you...they want someone to lead in times of peril but instead of "manning up" you act just like them in your feelings..don't know what to do..my dad told me early stop bein a ***** n figure out a solution to your problems
I think you're right,it feels though there's been more awareness spread about mental illness recently and the old stigma that used to be attached to it is slowly starting to fade so I think that's probably the cause of all these diagnosis'.
I don't think that people have suddenly become whinier ,I just think that It's a lot easier and more accepted to admit that you're depressed or have a problem now than it was a few years ago. Sort of like how it's more common to see openly gay/lesbian couples in public than it was a decade or 2 ago. People didn't just all of a sudden get bit by the gay bug
I agree completely. I just hope people understand that mental illness/depression shouldn't be confused with being a vagina. It's complicated by the gender roles we've been known to associate with over time but the issue is much deeper than that.