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Going to try to make this not very long, but I definitely need some advice. I've spoken to a couple lawyers and just wanted to get some general feedback.
I'm going to school full time and working full time at a restaurant/bar as a server. When I was initially hired, I wanted to be a bartender (since my past 2 jobs I did only the bar, not serving) but there wasn't an opening so I took a server position. This was about 4 months ago. I've been asking to be a bar tender for 4 months and they have not moved me up yet. Bartenders at my job make about 4 times as much as servers make. My boss "loves" me, has said I'm one of his best employees, etc. They have hired about 6 new bartenders since I've been working there: a few servers, some sorority girls with absolutely no experience, and one guy with experience. Last week they fired one of them and also school has started back up so the bar is lot busier. I asked my boss again if I could move up and he said he hired 3 people, one girl with experience and two sorority girls. I'm FED UP.
I know they won't let me work behind the bar because of my appearance. I'm a lesbian and for them they just don't want a lesbian behind the bar because we get a lot of college students in. I think my boss doesn't understand that it's okay for a gay chick to be behind the bar. I'm cute, good at my job, fun, and definitely not a man hater. I feel like I'm trapped in Middle America. By the way, I work on the upper west side in NYC. Can I do anything about this? What do you guys think?
I'm going to school full time and working full time at a restaurant/bar as a server. When I was initially hired, I wanted to be a bartender (since my past 2 jobs I did only the bar, not serving) but there wasn't an opening so I took a server position. This was about 4 months ago. I've been asking to be a bar tender for 4 months and they have not moved me up yet. Bartenders at my job make about 4 times as much as servers make. My boss "loves" me, has said I'm one of his best employees, etc. They have hired about 6 new bartenders since I've been working there: a few servers, some sorority girls with absolutely no experience, and one guy with experience. Last week they fired one of them and also school has started back up so the bar is lot busier. I asked my boss again if I could move up and he said he hired 3 people, one girl with experience and two sorority girls. I'm FED UP.
I know they won't let me work behind the bar because of my appearance. I'm a lesbian and for them they just don't want a lesbian behind the bar because we get a lot of college students in. I think my boss doesn't understand that it's okay for a gay chick to be behind the bar. I'm cute, good at my job, fun, and definitely not a man hater. I feel like I'm trapped in Middle America. By the way, I work on the upper west side in NYC. Can I do anything about this? What do you guys think?