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Is done bro, if she was the "one" you would have treated her like she was. Both of you guys are scared life change which is you both tend to try to get back together. Move on its a learning experience
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This. If it's really worth it to you then be straight forward with her. Tell her if she wants to be with you then work on that, if she wants to go see whats out there for her then she should do that. But under no circumstances can she expect to do both. But she hit you with the ol' "been in a relationship my whole life, I wanna have different experiences" line. That is very concerning. Alarming even. I'd have been like, the **** you mean? Get to the bottom of that asap.
If shes feeling like she needs more experiences, chances are it's not gonna matter how good you treat her if you get back with her. This won't be the last time you deal with this. The potential for L's on your part is massive, you need to fully understand her perspective and make a sound judgement on how realistic and/or reasonable she is being before you decide to risk it.
And I hope that you do realize that girls in a committed long term relationship do not just throw it all away because of a general feeling of missing out on something. There is a specific person she is thinking about having new experiences with. At the very least she sees opportunity somewhere. If you're 3 years in and gotta start competing with new dudes the relationship is likely dead.
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honestly bro you gotta keep it real with her and real with yourself if you dont say anything and dwell on your feelings as well as continuing to curve her from time to time that chance you may have had of getting her back can go and you may never have that opportunity again there's no point of living your life with a what if imo best of luck to you op with whatever decision you make or have made
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Hit her with the "we are together or nada" ultimatum. No "friends" bs. She'll choose to be together hands down. But before you do that you gotta tell her how you'll be better this time around...
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Nt demands pics. So swing em op
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Where the pics? View media item 409822
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??? You really asking for advice on this situation son? You already know what needs to be done
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My dude. Dead that ASAP.
Don't even give her an ultimatum.
Just be honest.
I love you. I want to be with you, but I'm not going to be just your friend while you do what you want and only come to me when you want.
Tell her good luck in life and move on.
She'll be surprises at your response and either want you back ( don't take her back)
Or respect it.
My Dude You need this too. It will hurt like hell. Once you meet another shorty you'll laugh this off.
Pics?
Don't even give her an ultimatum.
Just be honest.
I love you. I want to be with you, but I'm not going to be just your friend while you do what you want and only come to me when you want.
Tell her good luck in life and move on.
She'll be surprises at your response and either want you back ( don't take her back)
Or respect it.
My Dude You need this too. It will hurt like hell. Once you meet another shorty you'll laugh this off.
Pics?
