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Ya'll foolsjust needa up your standards and ONLY smash chicks ya'll wouldn't be ashamed bringing around friends/fam
Now where's the fun in that?
Sad world but let's not generalize dead beat dads as all having the same story about being selfish.
smh at some of you individuals giving any understanding into why cats refuse to take care of their responsibilities.
wonder why the system caters to these females?? That's because the system raised that child. So much progression would occur in our society, only if we handle our responsibilities as fathers
Right. Apparently you have all the answers. Kudos.
Dudes raised without a father ain't gonna stick around to raise a kid themselves. They don't know anything other than their own experience. It's basic psychology.
If you don't want children at the time, yes that's an L. Doesn't mean you won't love them.
youcan't legally impregnate a woman without their consent.
If a woman doesn't want a baby, she ain't having a baby.
The same can not be said for men t
F that.
Some of y'all throwing out all kinds of crazy justifications for dads not handling theirs.
Theres no excuse.
States siding with the mom, having to work 2 jobs, etc. Etc.
None of that matters. If you fathered a child and you're about that child none of these obstacles would stop you from ultimately being a real dad to them and raising them properly.
Sad world, some of these kids literally have no chance from the jump.
But at the same time I can understand how many fathers are alienated from their children because of BM's like your buddy's.
The laws in this country give women preferential treatment. So much so that most of the time when two people split the children go with the mom because if the cops show up they're going to let her take the kids until the court hashes out custody.
So until then fathers are in limbo, paying child support and being marginalized. They have to see their kids when the mom sees fit, and what's worse is if they were married to their BM and owned a house together she takes the house as well.
So now a dude is probably living in an apartment, working double time to piece together his life while BM has the crib. Imagine how some men feel after barely being able to see their kids, losing their home & then to add insult to injury seeing another man enjoy the fruits of his labor when he moves in with BM.
I can understand and even empathize with some men who end up being "db dads" because at some point it's like what is a man to do?
Working X amount of hours a week to pay CS and rebuild his own savings account, I bet they would miss some weekends with the kids because I would imagine its damned hard to walk up that drive way of your old home seeing another man in it with the mother of your children to pick up your kids.
I don't think all absentee dads meant to be that way. I mean my own mom ripped me from my dad and took me to another state before their divorce was final and he tried his best to visit but when he would my mom would be verbally and physically abusive to him (they later made amends and remarried but that's besides the point).
I don't fault him for not always being there because I know there was more to the story.
And I don't judge others because I don't know their story. All we as fathers can do is try our very best to dedicate our lives to the children we brought into this world.
Sometimes society however, complicates that for some men.
What's funny is, there's some mothers who are put in an equally "inconvenient" position but they still find a way to make it work for their child. But somehow these grown *** men look for any and every excuse to not be in their child's life.
F that.
Some of y'all throwing out all kinds of crazy justifications for dads not handling theirs.
Theres no excuse.
States siding with the mom, having to work 2 jobs, etc. Etc.
None of that matters. If you fathered a child and you're about that child none of these obstacles would stop you from ultimately being a real dad to them and raising them properly.
Sad world, some of these kids literally have no chance from the jump.
smh at some of you individuals giving any understanding into why cats refuse to take care of their responsibilities.
wonder why the system caters to these females?? That's because the system raised that child. So much progression would occur in our society, only if we handle our responsibilities as fathers
What?
No, seriously, what do you mean? Because it sounds like you're absolving the man of blame because he can't get pregnant, am I right? So...the woman should get all the blame for two people consenting to unprotected sex, because she's the one who gets pregnant so she should know better
Having unprotected sex can lead to a child. Everyone knows this. So that logic you're using is ******ed.
why does no one ever say this about women?Simple solution, think of who you bust inside of before hand, blaming the system and policies is no excuse, things don't always have to work out between two people, but if you don't do a woman wrong and chose wisely who you have a baby with, chances are that woman won't keep you from your child or force you to take care of your child, YA can part ways in a civil way with the child's best interest at heart.....but a lot of guys, just want quick gratification, bang out a pretty chick without even knowing her just to say they did it, slip up and get her pregnant and get caught up in a mess and wanna blame "the system" nah man...your bed, you sleep in it brother.
BM was cool, she didn't want to take the kid away, he gave her no other option, he didn't want to be with her and she had no one else here, so her cousin gave her shelter, he takes care of him financially from what I know off, he's a responsible dude in that sense...but he's always been a bit selfish otherwise....anyways.
As many of you know, me and the wife have troubles conceiving, **** breaks my heart when I see people take for granted the ability to create a life....is precious, I'd give anything to be able to easily have a child, both the wife and I walk around with this huge void in our lives and desire to complete our family, **** hurts b.
I didn't mean to come across as blaming all on mother...
There are instances where women were swindled, raoed, or just young.
But let's be real here.
If a woman doesn't want to have a baby...
She doesn't have a baby.
Point blank period. Arguing that is ******ed.
Please tell me how a man has any real power over whether or not a child is brought into this world after conception..
I'd like to know.
A woman can take plan B or have an abortion.. Or keep the baby, no matter what the man thinks...
I would be MONEY that of the states didn't step in as Mich as they do, pregnancies would dip at an exponential rate, along with birth control and abortions going up at the same rate.
Dudes raised without a father ain't gonna stick around to raise a kid themselves. They don't know anything other than their own experience. It's basic psychology.
Not true in my case.
Some mothers, and the courts really do make it hard for guys to be in their kids lives. My cousin is a good example of this.
Got the wrong girl pregnant but didn't find out until after the child was born and now she's making his life difficult for no reason.
All situations aren't the same. Not every guy is gonna put up with the BS which I can understand.
And I grew up without a dad so I'm not in the business of making excuses for absent fathers.