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I'm basically ranting about my dating experience lately. Not sure where I'm going wrong or what formula to follow but here goes...
I opened up an Okcupid account last year and met this one guy. Chemistry was great on the 1st date and went on to see him 3 other times within the same week. We were talking everyday but seeing each other was hit or miss after then.
I did not sleep with him until the following month and two weeks. But texting ensued and every morning I received "Good Morning," "Hey Beautiful." He'd ask me about my day, set me up with a mechanic friend of his to fix my car....but at some point there was a trend to his weekends being busy with work. Mind you, he was an independent contractor working on his own schedule so it wasn't making any sense. One weekend , he even said that another contractor he was working with stole 12000 dollars from a project which is why he hadn't responded to my texts the day before.
About a week later I noticed that I was blocked from seeing his Facebook page. I'd never sent him a request or anything because I never saw the point. I immediately texted him about what was going on with him, he said nothing was wrong.
I made a date with someone else at that point. The guy I met was an aerospace engineer, graduated from MIT, really sweet and we had a great time.
I tried calling the 1st guy that night. No answer. No answer the next morning. Not until that afternoon.
I called things off. Then I made a second Facebook profile and saw a girl commenting on his Facebook pictures. I then was able to pull up her Instagram.
This guy had met this girl maybe a week or so before me and she photographed and captioned every date he had taken her on up until the time I broke up with him and even afterwards. By the time I met him, he had already introduced her to his family.
First, I contacted him. Denial.Denial. Denial. Even said that he was planning on being in a relationship with me but had taken her to a weekend retreat two weeks before.
Secondly,
I contacted the girl and sent her a message saying what he had done. Then..
I screenshot the sequence of them dating, his messages and nude pictures to me, and made one long Facebook message. I tagged the girl, his friends , and the rest of his family in it and sent it saying what kind of person he was.
And as much as I 'm glad I did it, I still don't understand. He must have told me 50 thousand times that we were exclusive and he was a one woman man. He was talking about moving in together and going on vacations. Yet , the whole time he was doing some other girl. He was still denying everything and the girl was online friends with his whole family. Up until I screenshot her admitting that they had been dating , he was still in denial.
Then when I admitted to going on that one date, he had the nerve to say I had wasted his time. When he was had a girl in his home everyday and was talking her on trips.
What type of sociopath is this? Why do men do these things? This guy just wasted 5 months of my life
I opened up an Okcupid account last year and met this one guy. Chemistry was great on the 1st date and went on to see him 3 other times within the same week. We were talking everyday but seeing each other was hit or miss after then.
I did not sleep with him until the following month and two weeks. But texting ensued and every morning I received "Good Morning," "Hey Beautiful." He'd ask me about my day, set me up with a mechanic friend of his to fix my car....but at some point there was a trend to his weekends being busy with work. Mind you, he was an independent contractor working on his own schedule so it wasn't making any sense. One weekend , he even said that another contractor he was working with stole 12000 dollars from a project which is why he hadn't responded to my texts the day before.
About a week later I noticed that I was blocked from seeing his Facebook page. I'd never sent him a request or anything because I never saw the point. I immediately texted him about what was going on with him, he said nothing was wrong.
I made a date with someone else at that point. The guy I met was an aerospace engineer, graduated from MIT, really sweet and we had a great time.
I tried calling the 1st guy that night. No answer. No answer the next morning. Not until that afternoon.
I called things off. Then I made a second Facebook profile and saw a girl commenting on his Facebook pictures. I then was able to pull up her Instagram.
This guy had met this girl maybe a week or so before me and she photographed and captioned every date he had taken her on up until the time I broke up with him and even afterwards. By the time I met him, he had already introduced her to his family.
First, I contacted him. Denial.Denial. Denial. Even said that he was planning on being in a relationship with me but had taken her to a weekend retreat two weeks before.
Secondly,
I contacted the girl and sent her a message saying what he had done. Then..
I screenshot the sequence of them dating, his messages and nude pictures to me, and made one long Facebook message. I tagged the girl, his friends , and the rest of his family in it and sent it saying what kind of person he was.
And as much as I 'm glad I did it, I still don't understand. He must have told me 50 thousand times that we were exclusive and he was a one woman man. He was talking about moving in together and going on vacations. Yet , the whole time he was doing some other girl. He was still denying everything and the girl was online friends with his whole family. Up until I screenshot her admitting that they had been dating , he was still in denial.
Then when I admitted to going on that one date, he had the nerve to say I had wasted his time. When he was had a girl in his home everyday and was talking her on trips.
What type of sociopath is this? Why do men do these things? This guy just wasted 5 months of my life
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