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not everyone....but I'm gonna go with the majority being yes
Cheating.......Does everybody do it?
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I am lost by your words. You honestly believe people cheat to impress others? You sure they don't do it to fulfill emotional and sexual needs (greed or however you view it)?
Cheating isn't like fashion where what you do is on display for the world to see. It is still a private matter. So where exactly does the impressing others part come into play?
I don't get what you are saying Sole.
I agree, there are different types of cheating but I can't see why you would think people cheat to impress others. The last thing going through someone's mind when cheating is how "cool" others will view this.
Now BRAGGING about it I can see but not the actual ACT of cheating. Nah.
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Agreed
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Not everyone cheats.
I think it's complete BS when someone uses alcohol as a crutch, to justify their cheating.
Yeah, you are impaired, but you still know right from wrong, it's like your drunk, but you still know not to jump off a cliff or run into on coming traffic.
I think it's complete BS when someone uses alcohol as a crutch, to justify their cheating.
Yeah, you are impaired, but you still know right from wrong, it's like your drunk, but you still know not to jump off a cliff or run into on coming traffic.
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Why? Security. People commit because of security. Emotional and sexual security. That is why people get in relationships with people they REALLY don't want. Not hard to see/understand.
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True in my case.
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Not everyone commits because of security. It's overrated, especially nowadays.
There are actual people out there who are attracted to each other physically and emotionally. As corny as it sounds.
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a lot of people have little to no respect for relationships and think they lying and making excuses when they get caught is acceptable. it's sad but true.
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Of course people are attracted to each other physically and emotionally. THat goes without say.Originally Posted by FrenchBlue23
Not everyone commits because of security. It's overrated, especially nowadays.
There are actual people out there who are attracted to each other physically and emotionally. As corny as it sounds.
Security is STILL present. I never said security was the only reason. But that is the MAIN answer to her question, "Why do people get into relationships when they know they will cheat."
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Basically. When you start finding flaws/things that piss you off about the person you with you start talkin to other girls wondering if the grass is REALLY greener on the other side.
The reason why people dont break up with the person they're cheating on is because, while they may not like everything about that person, its not as if their relationship is a complete fail.
I'm sure this doesn't apply to everyone, but that would be my logic
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i have learned that cheating is a game. im not disagreeing to the fact that people do it to satisfy their desires as you spoke of. but i know lots of people who cheat for mere sport. Especially men. just because they can. and how can you brag if there is no act to brag about arent they one in the same?
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I cheat on my girl of 3 years almost every weekend.
solewoman
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but going into a relationship knowing you will not be faithful is just outright ____ i dont even know the word....malicious/heinous comes to mind.
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This.
The only acceptable form of cheating (in a relationship) for me is if the person finds a better one than the current and I'm not just talking about looks but personality and overall compatibility. Otherwise,
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Can't argue this. It is deception. I am against all forms of it.
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You're in denial if you don't think N_s cheat (In part) to impress their friends.
Denial.
Denial.
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Does she know or you keep it on the DL tho
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Hope she doesn't read this...
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SoleWoman, [Luda] if I recollect right [/Luda] you've stated before that you used to cheat...how'd that come about?
(No shots, serious question.)
(No shots, serious question.)
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Yea I never heard anything like that.Originally Posted by TheHype
You're in denial if you don't think N_s cheat to impress their friends.
Denial.
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cheat or be cheated!!!
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It's a lot easier to cheat than be faithful.
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