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Im not having fun at all. I'm a freshman, i dont drink and for some reasons im not getting girls. In highschool it was soo much easier, n i only have like 1 real friend. Wat am i doing wrong? i hate it so much i'm probably transferring home next year. my grades r good too

btw im on the football team n it seems like i was outcasted early on for being a bit arrogant about my skills, n none of the upperclassmen invite me to hang out like they do other freshmen. it just seems like transfering ould be the easy way out n as bad as i want this to work out, its not.
 
Im not having fun at all. I'm a freshman, i dont drink and for some reasons im not getting girls. In highschool it was soo much easier, n i only have like 1 real friend. Wat am i doing wrong? i hate it so much i'm probably transferring home next year. my grades r good too

btw im on the football team n it seems like i was outcasted early on for being a bit arrogant about my skills, n none of the upperclassmen invite me to hang out like they do other freshmen. it just seems like transfering ould be the easy way out n as bad as i want this to work out, its not.
 
What your doing wrong is your hating on yourself. Be happy you got a real friend, if your friend is real. Soon as you quit the bull3hit you will feel unstoppable. Take my advice or don't. It's that simple. lol
 
What your doing wrong is your hating on yourself. Be happy you got a real friend, if your friend is real. Soon as you quit the bull3hit you will feel unstoppable. Take my advice or don't. It's that simple. lol
 
INS & no friends. I just go to school, go to class, then leave
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Can't wait for college to be over with.  I should have picked an easy degree like business or something
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Can't wait for college to be over with.  I should have picked an easy degree like business or something
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I think it's apart of college man. Especially if you aren't in a frat.
Take this time to find yourself and figure out where you're going in life. 
 
Theres a lot of student who are just like you OP. College is so much different than high school. You don't know everyone anymore, and it forces us to go out of our comfort zone and meet people. Just be friendly in class or even just walking around campus. It never hurts just to say hey how are you to a random.
 
I think it's apart of college man. Especially if you aren't in a frat.
Take this time to find yourself and figure out where you're going in life. 
 
Theres a lot of student who are just like you OP. College is so much different than high school. You don't know everyone anymore, and it forces us to go out of our comfort zone and meet people. Just be friendly in class or even just walking around campus. It never hurts just to say hey how are you to a random.
 
Originally Posted by citykidfromthecity

INS & no friends. I just go to school, go to class, then leave
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I'm in the same boat
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. you ain't the only one OP. I know how you feel man. You just gotta appreciate what you already have and enjoy life to fullest.

  
 
Originally Posted by citykidfromthecity

INS & no friends. I just go to school, go to class, then leave
ohwell.gif
I'm in the same boat
tired.gif
. you ain't the only one OP. I know how you feel man. You just gotta appreciate what you already have and enjoy life to fullest.

  
 
Originally Posted by DR813

Originally Posted by citykidfromthecity

INS & no friends. I just go to school, go to class, then leave
ohwell.gif
I'm in the same boat
tired.gif
. you ain't the only one OP. I know how you feel man. You just gotta appreciate what you already have and enjoy life to fullest.

  
Same here, but OP, if partying and stuff isn't your thing then you can't force it to be.  I'm not into that stuff either
 
Originally Posted by DR813

Originally Posted by citykidfromthecity

INS & no friends. I just go to school, go to class, then leave
ohwell.gif
I'm in the same boat
tired.gif
. you ain't the only one OP. I know how you feel man. You just gotta appreciate what you already have and enjoy life to fullest.

  
Same here, but OP, if partying and stuff isn't your thing then you can't force it to be.  I'm not into that stuff either
 
We share a few of the same problems, but it's gradually getting better.


KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!
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We share a few of the same problems, but it's gradually getting better.


KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!
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Just talked to my brother and all of his friends that are freshmen in college and they are all saying to me cherish highschool. College is so much different and harder.

Guess i really have nothing to look forward to other than going to a good school and getting good grades.
 
Just talked to my brother and all of his friends that are freshmen in college and they are all saying to me cherish highschool. College is so much different and harder.

Guess i really have nothing to look forward to other than going to a good school and getting good grades.
 
You should start researching some clubs you can join. Its always good to try new things and go outside your comfort zone. It's all part of growing up and having an open mind. Don't be too hard on yourself. You just started college, so you still have time to meet new people. And trust me op, its better to have 1 real friend than 100 fake friends in college. And trust me, you will meet a lot of fake friends in college.
 
You should start researching some clubs you can join. Its always good to try new things and go outside your comfort zone. It's all part of growing up and having an open mind. Don't be too hard on yourself. You just started college, so you still have time to meet new people. And trust me op, its better to have 1 real friend than 100 fake friends in college. And trust me, you will meet a lot of fake friends in college.
 
It is all goooood young fella, be yourself, don't stress, say yes (to opportunities). And soon you'll meet people, if not transfer.
 
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