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[jordan23dotcom]

Question for y'all. How lame is it to be 30+ in the club?

Asking because I'm 28, and heading to Vegas in 2 weeks. I still get excited to head out to Vegas at 28 years old. Reading this thread made me realize, in a year or so, is it going to look lame going to Vegas to game women? Truthfully, "experiencing" Vegas really started happening when I was 26 or so, meaning, this was when my friends and I could honestly afford bottle service haha, before that it was trying to run game down in the trenches. So it's really only been 2 years of "real" clubbing for me (being able to afford it.) But now, it seems like that time is already running out? Is it really lame to be 30+ in the club?

going to Vegas is different than going to your local spot where youre a regular. ill just say this, the male equivalent to a women with 15 cats is a 35 year old guy hanging out with college dudes to see "whats good on friday"

 

[niquefreak94]

I think you will always have regret in either scenario. There is really no way to live the life that you want in any shape or form. The best thing to do is be happy with what you have.

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naaaaah bruh. that's definitely not true for everybody.

that may be the case for you, but no way you can tell me it's impossible to live a life you wanna live and are completely happy with nah

you think people who say they have no regrets in life are lying or something?

 

[Fong$tarr]

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naaaaah bruh. that's definitely not true for everybody.

that may be the case for you, but no way you can tell me it's impossible to live a life you wanna live and are completely happy with nah

you think people who say they have no regrets in life are lying or something?

I guess I meant for people that think that they can have regret when thinking of living one lifestyle or the other. If you have that mindset, I don;t think you can ever not have a little regret. I definitely believe you can live life to the fullest and be happy but in my case, I definitely didn't dare myself to do more things when I had the chance. I guess being scared of what could happened always stopped me.

 

[PRIME]

Question for y'all. How lame is it to be 30+ in the club?

Asking because I'm 28, and heading to Vegas in 2 weeks. I still get excited to head out to Vegas at 28 years old. Reading this thread made me realize, in a year or so, is it going to look lame going to Vegas to game women? Truthfully, "experiencing" Vegas really started happening when I was 26 or so, meaning, this was when my friends and I could honestly afford bottle service haha, before that it was trying to run game down in the trenches. So it's really only been 2 years of "real" clubbing for me (being able to afford it.) But now, it seems like that time is already running out? Is it really lame to be 30+ in the club?

Theres nothing wrong with being 28 and excited to go to vegas. Hell, then I turn 30-35+ I'll be excited to go to vegas. Its all about having a good time.

And its only lame to be in the club if its 18 and up night, ladies get in free, guys $30 at the door.

Don't pay no $30 to go party with children

You gotta move in different circles when you get older. Thats all it is. I don't even go to the club anymore. Its rare that I go. I rather make a move to a show, or a lounge/bar or maybe dinner or something. When I go out with my boys, we might hit the club and get a table, all for a good time. But its definitely 21+ night, and it ain't every week. I don't think I've been to the club in almost 2-3 months.

Spending $2-$3k for one night at the club takes its toll on your wallet. And we roll in a small circle to the club. maybe 3-4 people.

Go to vegas, smash single yambs and be about that single man life until the opportunity pops up. Then ask yourself "do I want to try this thing out for real?". Try it. If its not for you, then you know where you stand.

 

[niquefreak94]

I guess I meant for people that think that they can have regret when thinking of living one lifestyle or the other. If you have that mindset, I don;t think you can ever not have a little regret. I definitely believe you can live life to the fullest and be happy but in my case, I definitely didn't dare myself to do more things when I had the chance. I guess being scared of what could happened always stopped me.

ahaaa putting it that way i fully get where you coming from

yeah. dudes have to understand that there are a cluster **** of lifestyle choices and if you blend them just right for YOURSELF you can live a really fulfilling life.

 

[Jordan8]

The 35-50 year old grey haired bachelor has been promoted in movies & tv shows since....forever

Why?

Because its what everyone at the age who rushed into "settling down" wish they still were

Hell the "World's Most Interesting Man" is an old *** dude still in the clubs. Still living like a 20 year old.

I just turned 25 15 days ago and went through this mindset. Almost even considered buying an engagement ring for a chick I've been off and on with since HS... I had to be snapped out of it by an OG.

You're a single man the world is literally yours.

Cause society tells us you cant disappear for 30 days to "get away" if you're married, you cant take random trips to Vegas or blow 25K on an entrepreneurial venture if you're married with kids.....finding yourself is the opposite of settling down.

Finding yourself and trying new things with a wife and kids is called being selfish and frowned upon in society. Of course theres exceptions to this rule or theres men who act like they're the exception in order to cope with there situation.

But like its been said earlier the whole age thing is set up by women who want to rush you because their biological clock is ticking. You dont have to rush to do **** just because nature told them they have a set time to procreate.

As long as you're not a bum and still live off your mom (unless you really have to) at 30 then you're good. You have to realize that you're comparing and measuring yourself to what the average is doing

Why you wanna be average?

 

[PRIME]

What is average?

 

[Jordan8]

What is average?

Average age Men get married in America is 28.9 for women its 26.9

 

[PRIME]

What is average?

Average age Men get married in America is 28.9 for women its 26.9

So you're saying you should wait until a later age to get married?

 

[Fong$tarr]

So you're saying you should wait until a later age to get married?

It's not so much wait to get married but if you are not married past the average age, it is ok. The whole "you should be married by now" statement should just be flawed by now.

 

[Jordan8]

So you're saying you should wait until a later age to get married?

Im saying wait til whenever you want to.

Like I said he, me and most men are comparing themselves to our peers and the average marriage age. Why be average be yourself and do what you want

Get married at 18 if you want its your life. But dudes thinking they have to by a certain age because its the average thing to do is dumb which is what OP is suggesting

 

[PRIME]

So you're saying you should wait until a later age to get married?

It's not so much wait to get married but if you are not married past the average age, it is ok. The whole "you should be married by now" statement should just be flawed by now.

But thats what I'm not understanding. Most people in this generation don't believe in young marriage.

Its more taboo to get married at 25 nowadays. Everyone I know and see are talking about how we're "still young" and got time for it down the road.

The whole "you should be married by now" thing is actually an old way of thinking, according to the majority of people.

http://www.washingtontimes.com/news...e-continues-decline-men-tie-knot-la/?page=all

http://articles.latimes.com/2012/jan/19/opinion/la-oe-****tz-marriage-20120119

Its 2013, I'm sure the numbers have continued to drop.

So you're saying you should wait until a later age to get married?

Im saying wait til whenever you want to.

Like I said he, me and most men are comparing themselves to our peers and the average marriage age. Why be average be yourself and do what you want

Get married at 18 if you want its your life. But dudes thinking they have to by a certain age because its the average thing to do is dumb which is what OP is suggesting

Ah, ok. Then we're pretty much on the same side of the topic. Its late so my comprehension is at an all time low at almost 3am.

 

[mr jordan04]

The grass is always greener. You'll find a chick, settle down and be like "damn I should've just enjoyed being single. What was I complaining about."

I feel where you're coming from though because I'm in a similar position.

 

[spot]

im tryna be on my bruce wayne rich playboy steez

aint got time to be weighed down financially by kids and worst comes to worst if i want to have a kid and am financially secure i can just adopt one and make him my robin