Everyone has that one girl that they can't forget about, how did you get over it?

[viiheaven]

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by 510hayward

cried like a lil #$%@$

I was listening to this song as I clicked the thread

 

[durag27]

"Mr. go left on a _____ if she dont got her right mind." 

Nevermind her and use that energy you'd use on her on a different/new girl...appreciate other women's idiocyncracies. You'll soon find dents in her "perfection". She might start doubting herself on why u haven't hit her up the same way. 

 

[jesusshuttlesworth34]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

In life in general and not just when it comes to women I think it is important to not have a dependecy on anything but yourself for happiness. Growing up the people that were closest to me died when I was young and I really never had someone to lean on and my relationship with my mother was really bad . I suffered from manic depression and had a $@$% load of friends, was popular, "cool" etc but I always felt alone. Eventually I had a few girlfriends and naturally my relationship with them would be extremely deep and close. My last girlfriend was someone I could never imagine not having in my life at any point. We were extremely close and we had been with each other through extremely tuff times for both of us. Eventually we started growing apart and we stayed together just out of lust and sexual dependecy. Within two months of us breaking up she was dating and having sex with someone else after our breakup and she treated me like I was just a @*%!+ off the street once she started getting pounded out. She would still call me crying still send me text emails and everything wanting to start over. I knew it was over because I just couldn't go back to a relationship wherein I wasn't being cultivated and appreciated. I had a hard time seeing myself ever investing that type of energy in another woman so I went absolutely ape $@$% in chasing my dreams down and beating them into a bloody pulp when I got my hands on them. Now I'm in the company of Kings and I'm laying the foundation for my kingdom and my ex sees it and hears about it and is salty. I have no feelings for her anymore and when I think about her my chest doesn't feel heavy and there is no pain. She hasn't changed, she hasn't matured or worked on herself she just hopped on the next penis and rode the wave. Don't be that guy or girl that has to be in a relationship or under someone else to get over someone else. Be that guy or girl that puts the magnifying glass on themself and with all intent and purpose dissects the ugly parts and cuts them out. Improve grow and become a independent self sufficient monster that is constantly evolving and changing as it pursues its victim which is life. Traumatize and brutalize life dont let it traumatize and brutalize you. Your life, your rules. God bless

Yeah man...I concur.  Take that time, energy, emotion and invest it in you.  Make yourself a better person and never look back.  One day someone will get the best version of you and those in your past will regret having screwed that up. 

 

[ce0 mal]

seriously tho, a little part of you never "gets over it". over time you adjust


This.

 I met someone better. 


And this times an infinite number.

 

[angryostrich]

 

[mrswagtastic]

just gotta live your live man. you going to let 1 person dictate how you live your life?

 

[k3stacks]

Still havent

 

[504 d1 prospect]

 

[brocomeatme]

Originally Posted by eddiehouse5

Originally Posted by BroComeAtMe

she cheated on me last year
i dumped her
she took me out to eat last sunday
I still like her

You're just asking for more heartache man. If she had any respect for you she wouldn't have cheated.

Bob Ross is great.

you're right, thanks brother 

 

[airblaster503]

Mannnn took me a long time but I am finally over it. She was a good friend and we didn't see each other for over a year, I thought that would help but I thought about her all the damn time. Then one night when we got together we were drinking and somehow got on the subject and she pretty much took a verbal #@## on me

Never wanted to raise a hand to a girl until this moment in my life, but I kept it cool and played it off like I didn't care, not showing any emotion. My heart was broke but at least I wasn't questioning about if things could be different. Haven't talked to her since and hardly think of her, this was all in the last 2-3 months.

 

[fadeaway88]

Originally Posted by BroComeAtMe

Originally Posted by eddiehouse5

Originally Posted by BroComeAtMe

she cheated on me last year
i dumped her
she took me out to eat last sunday
I still like her

You're just asking for more heartache man. If she had any respect for you she wouldn't have cheated.

Bob Ross is great.

you're right, thanks brother 

Listening to Camron tracks always makes things better

 

[frontline]

Originally Posted by JesusShuttlesworth34

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

In life in general and not just when it comes to women I think it is important to not have a dependecy on anything but yourself for happiness. Growing up the people that were closest to me died when I was young and I really never had someone to lean on and my relationship with my mother was really bad . I suffered from manic depression and had a $@$% load of friends, was popular, "cool" etc but I always felt alone. Eventually I had a few girlfriends and naturally my relationship with them would be extremely deep and close. My last girlfriend was someone I could never imagine not having in my life at any point. We were extremely close and we had been with each other through extremely tuff times for both of us. Eventually we started growing apart and we stayed together just out of lust and sexual dependecy. Within two months of us breaking up she was dating and having sex with someone else after our breakup and she treated me like I was just a @*%!+ off the street once she started getting pounded out. She would still call me crying still send me text emails and everything wanting to start over. I knew it was over because I just couldn't go back to a relationship wherein I wasn't being cultivated and appreciated. I had a hard time seeing myself ever investing that type of energy in another woman so I went absolutely ape $@$% in chasing my dreams down and beating them into a bloody pulp when I got my hands on them. Now I'm in the company of Kings and I'm laying the foundation for my kingdom and my ex sees it and hears about it and is salty. I have no feelings for her anymore and when I think about her my chest doesn't feel heavy and there is no pain. She hasn't changed, she hasn't matured or worked on herself she just hopped on the next penis and rode the wave. Don't be that guy or girl that has to be in a relationship or under someone else to get over someone else. Be that guy or girl that puts the magnifying glass on themself and with all intent and purpose dissects the ugly parts and cuts them out. Improve grow and become a independent self sufficient monster that is constantly evolving and changing as it pursues its victim which is life. Traumatize and brutalize life dont let it traumatize and brutalize you. Your life, your rules. God bless

Yeah man...I concur.  Take that time, energy, emotion and invest it in you.  Make yourself a better person and never look back.  One day someone will get the best version of you and those in your past will regret having screwed that up. 

Trying my best to get here right now...just work and focus on me and get the $%## I need to get done, done. Definitely ain't easy though..invested so much time, money and energy into someone I truly thought would be there until the end.

 

[jesusshuttlesworth34]

If you take all that time, energy and such and invest it in something that is not going anywhere...like yourself, you will always win and never lose.  It sucks man, it definitely does when you put someone up on your level or even above you...but that is dangerous ground right there.  If you put someone on a pedestal, just prepared for the fall...a long and hard fall.  If that person is self-absorbed and selfish they probably didn't appreciate what you did for them and never will...until you are gone and not there for them.  Things will even out.   

 

[mecks]

man. this thread made me hella sad.

theres girls ive liked, girls ive loved, then the ones that i felt like i wanted to always be with, but things didnt work out...

 

[dj rashy]

all back in high school after just a bunch of drama and expecting more to come, i just realized one day that i was too attached to this broad and that i was young and haven't been going full force towards my own dreams and self improvement. 

gave back all her letters and things she gave me, deleted her number, took her off any social networks. only thing i wish i woulda handled differently was controlling myself to not go on a rage on her through text, got suspended for a day since she reported some gutted stuff i said to the principal.

after that, just didn't talk to her. i met new chicks, worked out, focused on studies, read books, got better at talents, kicked it with friends, and pretty much all this kept me busy and made me more wise as to how i will approach my next close relationship and what to look out for.

by end of high school we started talking a little again but she was with another dude, so i thought to just wish her the best and not really mind her, and maybe if a chance rolls by she's single again and flocks to a better version of me i'll definitely go angry sex that. til then just focusing on myself and taking on new opportunities got my mind really off her.

 

[Grine]

Time heals itself...

 

[misterp0315]

She had a child.

 

[iamjusayn]

D.R. Sosua Monger trip should do the trick...

 

[sircharles]

Find someone BETTER!

 

[iamjusayn]

Originally Posted by Angryostrich

 @ your avi n this pic!

 

[snaggykicks]

Originally Posted by eddiehouse5

I met someone better.

 

[rafool]

She left this Summer to go back home, on the other side of the world. 

A couple of NTers always bring her up and ether me, bastards.

 

[pmatic]

I'm still not quite over her. 

But hopefully time will help me with that.

 

[sonoftony]

we still talk

 

[celticspride34]

The last time I physically saw, touched, and kissed the girl I can't stop thinking about was one year ago today...