Have you ever let a girl pay for the bill? Vol. I owe you

[theabove]

Been talking to this girl lately...

I paid for the first two outings: coffee and some fast food.

We both go for some pub food and drinks and she foots the $70 bill

It came to the point where she kept insisting "I owe you!" and grabbed the small book in front of the waitress.

I felt like I took the L... but I didn't want to simp either so I let her get this one.

My boy says, she knows you got the next one and really...
What girl doesn't seem interested/cools if she paid that much when you asked her to chill.


I just feel the dude should pay if you ask someone to meet up.

 

[doctorjay507]

once in a while my girl will treat me but we have been together for a minute...

 

[m1dnightmobster]

If the girl is worth it, I'll pay. But then again, I only take girls out that are worth it.


The rest dont even get that McDonalds value menu treatment. Being in college ftw.

 

[fivefivenine]

been with my girl for a year and 4 months, i got money, she knows that, but i've never once paid for a thing.

 

[jaypesoz]

my girl never really pays for food, but mostly everything else I buy

 

[Nouss]

Doesn't seem like a bad deal. A chick that pays occasionally is fine with me.

 

[orangatrang]

She's a cool girl for footing the bill even though you invited her out. She must really like you, haha.

Invite her somewhere nicer next time and pay.

 

[young br3ad]

My girl treats sometimes. Hasn't much lately tho since she is pregnant and not working...

 

[jayhood23]

It's not a big deal that she paid, it shows that she is interested and most importantly isnt after your money.

 

[bombiin201]

it kinda feels weird letting the girl pay but thats ma opinion

 

[charmcitykid]

only a lame thinks the dude is obligated to pay EVERYTIME. that's bs. i guess it's even ok to pay the majority of the time. but she's a keeper,maybe. at least she knows it's not cool to always take, take, take, and never return the favor. some chicks never learn that. and the give and take willalso translate to other areas of ur friendship/relationship.

which is good.

 

[jstate33]

^ co-sign

 

[kl9]

Originally Posted by enlightenedespot

Doesn't seem like a bad deal. A chick that pays occasionally is fine with me.

I actually like girls who are WILLING to pay (doesn't necessarily have to), it's a nice change.

 

[nbirn2103]

Who invited who out?

That makes a huge different in my book. If I were to invite you out, expect me to pay.

But if you invite me out. I have different expectations.

You aren't obligated to pay all the time! Relationships are always a two way road. Whether you just start out dating or it's something serious.

 

[cbass625]

i feel like if i throw the invite out than i should pay but a girl who knows that a dude shouldnt pay all the pay is a keeper.

 

[teflandon]

Originally Posted by JayHood23

It's not a big deal that she paid, it shows that she is interested and most importantly isnt after your money.

Originally Posted by Orangatrang

She's a cool girl for footing the bill even though you invited her out. She must really like you, haha.

Invite her somewhere nicer next time and pay.

This, and you didn't take the L either.

 

[club29]

the fact that she insisted to pay means you should keep her around for a while.

thats a good chick right there!

 

[kicksgetmehigh]

Originally Posted by bombiin201

it kinda feels weird letting the girl pay but thats ma opinion

Exactly... I'm not used to chicks wanting to pay for anything. Its rare for a chick to offer to pay but I guess I need to re-evaluate my choice in women.

I want the type of woman that Fab was talkin about "she won't even let you put your hand in your pocket"

 

[chicken n biscuits]

WOW! I never heard of a female insisting on paying for a night out to eat. i wish i can find a female like that

 

[thousandaire]

My girl doesn't pay for anything....ever. I hate her

 

[air kalo]

Originally Posted by enlightenedespot

Doesn't seem like a bad deal. A chick that pays occasionally is fine with me.

 

[uclamike]

HELL YES

 

[j0rdan23dunker]

i make more money than my girl, so i pay for most of the expenses. but once in a while she'll be sneaky and talk to the server before we get our food andpay for the bill already before we even get our food.

I love her.

 

[mister916]

I let my girl pay here and there. Nothing big, below $20.

 

[kahlow]

its a must