The Fresh Prince
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I match with someone with 6 kids - she told me on the 2nd phone convo. Never called back.
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I match with someone with 6 kids - she told me on the 2nd phone convo. Never called back.
I think it's more so the fact that these pen pal seeking birds are on dating/hook-up sites. I may be out of the loop but there have to be platforms that exist solely for text buddies, online BFFS, etc...
It's become really problematic the past 2 years also.
Damn, how far back did ya'll start to realize this ain't it?
Not sure how we're splitting yet. She's mentioned she doesn't want anything from my 401k but she wants half of the house equity. Not sure if I should buy her half out of the house, or just split the $ and move somewhere else. Technically I don't think she deserves half since she's never paid half, and I helped pay for her Master's, and pretty much paid for everything our entire relationship (vacations, home improvements, etc)... But I also don't want to go split every single asset as that will be worse for me (401k, crypto, Roth, brokerage, sneakers, etc.).
Go wash your faceThis woman I matched with has called me handsome/attractive on at least 4 different instances within the last 3 hours.
Keeping my ego in check but man...
Factory Reset:
Real talk. If/when I do get married, I'm keeping our finances separate and not disclosing all my assets.Not sure how we're splitting yet. She's mentioned she doesn't want anything from my 401k but she wants half of the house equity. Not sure if I should buy her half out of the house, or just split the $ and move somewhere else. Technically I don't think she deserves half since she's never paid half, and I helped pay for her Master's, and pretty much paid for everything our entire relationship (vacations, home improvements, etc)... But I also don't want to go split every single asset as that will be worse for me (401k, crypto, Roth, brokerage, sneakers, etc.).
Factory Reset:
I’ll do coffee in the morning. Not food.
Lol that’s terribleCoffee in the morning is perfect.
It will heighten any anxiety you're feeling, make your breath stank and ensure you both need to take an ish in 30 mins.
Can we vote to have you removed from this thread now? That's some high school stuff homieThis woman I matched with has called me handsome/attractive on at least 4 different instances within the last 3 hours.
Keeping my ego in check but man...
If anything, I'm more weary on how often she was doing it.Can we vote to have you removed from this thread now? That's some high school stuff homie
Eh what most dudes don't realize is they're not attracted to them because they are bad boys.
I learned this from an OG. When it comes to women, you have to look at it as a timeline. You can have a short timeline or a long timeline.
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Men who understand the game know how to stretch the timeline with a woman. Cats who don't often have a short timeline and the woman essentially dictates the length of that timeline.
Women like uncertainty. A woman that doesn't know where she stands with you is most likely going to stay around longer. The moment you give her certainty is when she starts losing interest in you.
People like to chase. People want what they can't have/not within easy reach.
You have person A(pA) and person B(pB)
pA
Jailbird/Deadbeat
A "bad boy" often has options with other women. Therefore he doesn't give a particular woman his undevided attention. Said woman is now chasing for his sole attention and will do anything for it. Thus he's now in a position of power and dictates the length of this "timeline"
pB
Works a blue/white collar job
Works a 9-5. Often comes home tired/exhausted. Comes home just wants to eat, relax, watch Tv He has a girl. They do the typical relationship stuff. It becomes routine and predictable. Dinner dates and movies on the weekends. He's content with said girl. Doesn't entertain other girls. She becomes bored and is now looking for excitement. He just doesn't do it for her anymore because she now knows where she stands with him. She doesn't have competition. Now she dictates this "timeline". Now the guy senses this and is afraid of losing her so he takes her out to expensive dinners, vacations etc. Now she has the power because she knows he will do such and such to keep her
I say all that to say this. If you want to keep/hold on to a woman, don't give her certainty. Sometimes you gotta ignore her wants/demands.
Take it with a grain of salt, don't make any rash decisions. Take a step back come back together to discuss things when they aren't as raw. You guys might come to the table to discuss splitting things up but still angry or unhappy things didn't work out. While you are thinking about everything, put in your head what is your absolute lowest you are willing to go. Things you are not willing to fold on and see what she is not willing to fold on. Obviously she won't tell you the truth, but a good starting point. Good luck man, don't know you but seen you around.Not sure how we're splitting yet. She's mentioned she doesn't want anything from my 401k but she wants half of the house equity. Not sure if I should buy her half out of the house, or just split the $ and move somewhere else. Technically I don't think she deserves half since she's never paid half, and I helped pay for her Master's, and pretty much paid for everything our entire relationship (vacations, home improvements, etc)... But I also don't want to go split every single asset as that will be worse for me (401k, crypto, Roth, brokerage, sneakers, etc.).
Agree don't go with lawyers things will go left and cost a lot more that way. You guys can get a divorce without lawyers. What state are you in, surprised there isn't a waiting period before divorce or a separation time period.Just don't let the lawyers do y'all they will keep y'all negotiating (fighting) just to pad the bill. Your time and sanity are valuable also. IMO you keep your isht she keeps hers let the lawyers get the bare minimum the split house $ and move would be the play. Start fresh.
Could be wrong but I didn't think he wanted kids, might as well close up the shop if that is the case.Also keep in mind, these young girls out here fertile as fk these days. Don't get divorced and end up shooting the club up then be stuck for 21 years..it's not even 18 years anymore courts making some dudes pay for grown *** kids wrap it up my guy
Factory Reset:
So after nearly 2 decades of being cuffed... I'm about to be free. What do I need to know?
This woman I matched with has called me handsome/attractive on at least 4 different instances within the last 3 hours.
Keeping my ego in check but man...