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If someone wrongs you or makes a mistake...how much do you take into account their intentions?
Example:
A female friend of mine is engaged to this guy. She gets pregnant but she doesn't really want to have children yet. She has a discussion with her fiancee saying she isn't sure whether she wants to keep the baby or not. Even though she tells him that, in his excitement (its his first child), he tells his and her parents about her being pregnant. The guy made a mistake. Months have passed and she's still preggo but she's still furious at him to the point that she isn't sure she wants to marry him.
She says because of what he did (not any other actions throughout their relationship), he is a selfish person and doesn't think about her feelings.
I say that the action doesn't make the person. He made a mistake and I'm sure he wasn't thinking "Yo F what she think, I'm telling them about the baby". She says the intentions don't matter. What do ya'll think?
Example:
A female friend of mine is engaged to this guy. She gets pregnant but she doesn't really want to have children yet. She has a discussion with her fiancee saying she isn't sure whether she wants to keep the baby or not. Even though she tells him that, in his excitement (its his first child), he tells his and her parents about her being pregnant. The guy made a mistake. Months have passed and she's still preggo but she's still furious at him to the point that she isn't sure she wants to marry him.
She says because of what he did (not any other actions throughout their relationship), he is a selfish person and doesn't think about her feelings.
I say that the action doesn't make the person. He made a mistake and I'm sure he wasn't thinking "Yo F what she think, I'm telling them about the baby". She says the intentions don't matter. What do ya'll think?