I need Female Advice lol.. HELP ME OUT

lmaoo.. dudes clownin.. all NT dudes act like tough guys... I got tired of f**kn hella girls... and always on the prowl... I had a nice lil rotation.. but I just liked chillin wit her more than the others.. she pressin the relationship thing... but I cant do that right now
 
lmaoo.. dudes clownin.. all NT dudes act like tough guys... I got tired of f**kn hella girls... and always on the prowl... I had a nice lil rotation.. but I just liked chillin wit her more than the others.. she pressin the relationship thing... but I cant do that right now
 
What you should do is fall back and get to know her better instead of all this detective work. (or drop her because you don't trust her)
 
if you can't do it right now why bother with her body count and who's 'eating it' ( i hate the term eat for oral sex
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if you can't do it right now why bother with her body count and who's 'eating it' ( i hate the term eat for oral sex
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What you should do is fall back and get to know her better instead of all this detective work. (or drop her because you don't trust her)
 
krider31 wrote:
Alright NT.. I rarely do this... I wasnt.. but I was like F it.. might as well.. I value my NT fam opinion

Here's the story:

Theres a girl im talking to. I feel like she's lying to me about people that she has messed with in the past. When asked about her sexual partners she said 5. Im not gonna front like I dont care about the girl, cause I do.. and Im not trippin off the body count.. Because 5 is definitely reasonable for a female that is 20 and in college. The question isnt about the body count (which I have questioned before) but its about the people on it. A little background info, we was cool before or whatever, but I didnt see her in that way until December 2010 when we started havin sex. My CLOSE homeboy told me he smashed in 2009 and come to find out he didnt, and admitted to me that he lied on his meat. But the thing is, is that he ate her out. There are 3 dudes in question that I know that I have asked her if she has had relations with, We are juniors in college, about to be seniors, Dude #1 - she said he ate her out only (Junior year), Dude #2 - she said they tried to have sex and didnt (Freshman year), Dude #3 - she says that she just had a crush on him and didnt do anything. All 3 of those dudes and  my homeboy that ate her out and lied on his meat are all cool, and kinda in the same circle, but my homeboy moved down to Florida, so he is no longer around. But I just cant look stupid and cuff somebody that messed wit those 3 cats. 

  • Is it wrong to pull each one to the side and ask them the truth and see what it is?
  • What would you do?
  • Should I just let it go b/c at the time of all the incidents I didnt even like her
  • OR should I care because I feel like she lying about the past.
What would yall do?


*reads bolded, leves thread*
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Why would you even ask about her past sexual partners?....


I never asked any of my GF's about their past because they're gonna lie about it....


She said 5?...add about 2-4 to that number.
 
krider31 wrote:
Alright NT.. I rarely do this... I wasnt.. but I was like F it.. might as well.. I value my NT fam opinion

Here's the story:

Theres a girl im talking to. I feel like she's lying to me about people that she has messed with in the past. When asked about her sexual partners she said 5. Im not gonna front like I dont care about the girl, cause I do.. and Im not trippin off the body count.. Because 5 is definitely reasonable for a female that is 20 and in college. The question isnt about the body count (which I have questioned before) but its about the people on it. A little background info, we was cool before or whatever, but I didnt see her in that way until December 2010 when we started havin sex. My CLOSE homeboy told me he smashed in 2009 and come to find out he didnt, and admitted to me that he lied on his meat. But the thing is, is that he ate her out. There are 3 dudes in question that I know that I have asked her if she has had relations with, We are juniors in college, about to be seniors, Dude #1 - she said he ate her out only (Junior year), Dude #2 - she said they tried to have sex and didnt (Freshman year), Dude #3 - she says that she just had a crush on him and didnt do anything. All 3 of those dudes and  my homeboy that ate her out and lied on his meat are all cool, and kinda in the same circle, but my homeboy moved down to Florida, so he is no longer around. But I just cant look stupid and cuff somebody that messed wit those 3 cats. 

  • Is it wrong to pull each one to the side and ask them the truth and see what it is?
  • What would you do?
  • Should I just let it go b/c at the time of all the incidents I didnt even like her
  • OR should I care because I feel like she lying about the past.
What would yall do?


*reads bolded, leves thread*
Click to expand...
 
Why would you even ask about her past sexual partners?....


I never asked any of my GF's about their past because they're gonna lie about it....


She said 5?...add about 2-4 to that number.
 
Originally Posted by sloanboy

Originally Posted by krider31


Alright NT.. I rarely do this... I wasnt.. but I was like F it.. might as well.. I value my NT fam opinion

Here's the story:

Theres a girl im talking to. I feel like she's lying to me about people that she has messed with in the past. When asked about her sexual partners she said 5. Im not gonna front like I dont care about the girl, cause I do.. and Im not trippin off the body count.. Because 5 is definitely reasonable for a female that is 20 and in college. The question isnt about the body count (which I have questioned before) but its about the people on it. A little background info, we was cool before or whatever, but I didnt see her in that way until December 2010 when we started havin sex. My CLOSE homeboy told me he smashed in 2009 and come to find out he didnt, and admitted to me that he lied on his meat. But the thing is, is that he ate her out. There are 3 dudes in question that I know that I have asked her if she has had relations with, We are juniors in college, about to be seniors, Dude #1 - she said he ate her out only (Junior year), Dude #2 - she said they tried to have sex and didnt (Freshman year), Dude #3 - she says that she just had a crush on him and didnt do anything. All 3 of those dudes and  my homeboy that ate her out and lied on his meat are all cool, and kinda in the same circle, but my homeboy moved down to Florida, so he is no longer around. But I just cant look stupid and cuff somebody that messed wit those 3 cats. 

  • Is it wrong to pull each one to the side and ask them the truth and see what it is?
  • What would you do?
  • Should I just let it go b/c at the time of all the incidents I didnt even like her
  • OR should I care because I feel like she lying about the past.
What would yall do?
Click to expand...
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and this is why you and your crew is lame......... on another note if gotta do all this then you need to drop her
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 pretty much
 
Originally Posted by sloanboy

Originally Posted by krider31


Alright NT.. I rarely do this... I wasnt.. but I was like F it.. might as well.. I value my NT fam opinion

Here's the story:

Theres a girl im talking to. I feel like she's lying to me about people that she has messed with in the past. When asked about her sexual partners she said 5. Im not gonna front like I dont care about the girl, cause I do.. and Im not trippin off the body count.. Because 5 is definitely reasonable for a female that is 20 and in college. The question isnt about the body count (which I have questioned before) but its about the people on it. A little background info, we was cool before or whatever, but I didnt see her in that way until December 2010 when we started havin sex. My CLOSE homeboy told me he smashed in 2009 and come to find out he didnt, and admitted to me that he lied on his meat. But the thing is, is that he ate her out. There are 3 dudes in question that I know that I have asked her if she has had relations with, We are juniors in college, about to be seniors, Dude #1 - she said he ate her out only (Junior year), Dude #2 - she said they tried to have sex and didnt (Freshman year), Dude #3 - she says that she just had a crush on him and didnt do anything. All 3 of those dudes and  my homeboy that ate her out and lied on his meat are all cool, and kinda in the same circle, but my homeboy moved down to Florida, so he is no longer around. But I just cant look stupid and cuff somebody that messed wit those 3 cats. 

  • Is it wrong to pull each one to the side and ask them the truth and see what it is?
  • What would you do?
  • Should I just let it go b/c at the time of all the incidents I didnt even like her
  • OR should I care because I feel like she lying about the past.
What would yall do?
Click to expand...
roll.gif
and this is why you and your crew is lame......... on another note if gotta do all this then you need to drop her
Click to expand...


  
pimp.gif
 pretty much
 
OP, you are in your 20's. You are in college. Unless you think you are gonna wife this chick don't even sweat it. The only reason you would even bring it up is because you wanna learn whether she is trustworthy in an easy way without spending the time to figure it out on your own and risk it. Sound tho like you don't trust her already and she has been used up a lil by your crew. If you think you can't get it straight what she's done with your homeboys imagine what she's done outside your circle and stories you'll be fed to cover that stuff up. If you are having issues like this already, trust me it is going to get much worse if you make her your main and stay together. But you gotta live and learn. So give it a shot. To me, she's a crew broad and should be treated as such. Smash chill but don't get twisted like a simp cuz the P got you locked down.
 
It really shouldnt matter. If you like her like that..then forget about it. None of them smashed anyway, and like everyone else said, ya friends r lames anyway if they aint smash. If you worried about that then you may as well abstain from sex, cuz everyones got skeletons. Her $$$! could be A LOT worse
 
It really shouldnt matter. If you like her like that..then forget about it. None of them smashed anyway, and like everyone else said, ya friends r lames anyway if they aint smash. If you worried about that then you may as well abstain from sex, cuz everyones got skeletons. Her $$$! could be A LOT worse
 
OP, you are in your 20's. You are in college. Unless you think you are gonna wife this chick don't even sweat it. The only reason you would even bring it up is because you wanna learn whether she is trustworthy in an easy way without spending the time to figure it out on your own and risk it. Sound tho like you don't trust her already and she has been used up a lil by your crew. If you think you can't get it straight what she's done with your homeboys imagine what she's done outside your circle and stories you'll be fed to cover that stuff up. If you are having issues like this already, trust me it is going to get much worse if you make her your main and stay together. But you gotta live and learn. So give it a shot. To me, she's a crew broad and should be treated as such. Smash chill but don't get twisted like a simp cuz the P got you locked down.
 
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