FWIW:
Went to Hampton University.
On the Yard talking in a group (half male / half female).
One of the young ladies sees a darker skinned brother walk past and makes a comment.
Her friend says: "I like my men light, bright, and close to white."
This is an HBCU.
An HBCU that at one time engaged in "paper bag tests"... and later less obvious but much more dubious methods of prejudice / discrimination that continue to this day.
Colorism is defined as:
"prejudice or discrimination against individuals with a dark skin tone, typically among people of the same ethnic or racial group."
While I agree that young lady had every right to like what she liked, I in turn have every right to dislike her based on what she said.
A letter from 1928:
As my parents would say: "I don't want anyone who doesn't want me."