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Originally Posted by krazy88s
Originally Posted by Mangudai954
Ok, you're definitely a troll now.
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Originally Posted by krazy88s
Originally Posted by Mangudai954
Ok, you're definitely a troll now.
how you gonna...you know what, nevermind, you'll probably miss this tooOriginally Posted by inspektahdeck
person got mad u used all the good crayons?Originally Posted by SShanique
Y'all don't even know what the guilt trip was or who it was from. I just know I felt really bad after the person talked to me.
Originally Posted by da boy boyy
u stupid if ur seriously thinkin bout marryin this guy
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
I say marry him. Ain't lime you have anything else to do. You wanna get married right? Yet you know nothing about how men operate and for whatever reason this man still wants you so I say go for it. He'll take care of you and you don't have to post any more dumb $#* threads looking for advice on simplest %##+ that we consider common sense.
If you can cook and keep a house clean I say do it.
Originally Posted by YuraS718
Honestly why would you feel bad for something like that? I'm at a lost for words Lol.
Originally Posted by Kicktionair
Originally Posted by SShanique
Originally Posted by treewing
Can you explain the situation?Originally Posted by SShanique
Y'all don't even know what the guilt trip was or who it was from. I just know I felt really bad after the person talked to me.
I have two bosses, one male and female, and they are married. They don't get along well, though. Anyway, the female boss came to me one day in October and asked if I had a boyfriend. I said I didn't, and she responded with, "Well, do you want to marry a 45-year old Asian? He owns a restaurant. He doesn't have a lot of money, but he has a little bit of money." I couldn't believe she would ask me something so stupid. I didn't even know who the man was, but I figured it out later on that night. It was the guy who always comes into the restaurant (I'm a server part-time) and drinks.
Then the next time she saw me she told me who the guy was and told me he was going through a divorce. I still said I did not want to marry him! Then she upped the ante, saying, "He drinks so much. He drinks all day long." I thought she was empathizing with me, and then she said, "So he probably dead soon! So you get the car, the house, the restaurant!" She was so excited about it. I had to kind of wonder if he was even her friend for her to say something like that.
So, now I knew the guy liked me and tried to keep my distance. I thought of him as a joke. He couldn't ask me to marry him. He had to ask other people to ask me. Well, today I got to work, and he was probably already drunk. He came and really talked to me for the first time. He asked me if I didn't like him because he's Asian. He said that he had not gone out in a long time. He said that he's not happy. He has money, but that doesn't make him happy. He's just drunk. I'm guessing he meant that he drinks so much, because he's miserable. Anyway, he said that I could make him happy. He asked if I knew how. I said I didn't know. He said that I do know how to make him happy, because I'm beautiful and educated. He said that he didn't know how to express himself well enough but he wants to know if I will think about it. I was soooo uncomfortable. I just said maybe. My maybe meant no, but then he told me not to wait too long before I gave him my answer.
So, now I feel like crap. At first he was a joke who wanted to get married without even knowing me other than what he's seen and been told. Now that he's talked to me, he's a real person with real feelings whose happiness seems to depend on me at this point.
Girl real talk:..... It seems your the co-worker people make fun of and try to pull pranks on
I know your educated and all but..........
wow just wow
Well, I posted the first part at JJB when it happened months ago. Then lastnight the guy came up to me and told me all that stuff before he was leaving. Earlier in the week, he was asking for hugs from me. Then he gestured for me to sit on his lap, and I thought, "He's not even drunk yet."Originally Posted by RATxAxTAT
I feel like I've heard that story before. Maybe not the whole thing, but the first part.
Originally Posted by YuraS718
Honestly why would you feel bad for something like that? I'm at a lost for words Lol.
Originally Posted by C Money 88 05
how you gonna...you know what, nevermind, you'll probably miss this tooOriginally Posted by inspektahdeck
person got mad u used all the good crayons?Originally Posted by SShanique
Y'all don't even know what the guilt trip was or who it was from. I just know I felt really bad after the person talked to me.
anyway babygirl, don't do it.
I know this is NIKEtalk and their whole "Just Do It" campaign is huge, but there's always an exception to the rule...and this is it for you. I highly doubt you're considering doing this(seriously), but you don't have to feel guilty about not MARRYING him, who just jumps into a marriage? I wouldn't feel an ounce of guilt if I were you, what do you get out of this possibly? HE didn't even say anything about you getting the restaurant, money, etc. he just wants somebody. And then what if he doesn't die soon...you're stuck in this marriage because I already know you won't divorce him if you'd be willing to marry him under these circumstances.
You sicken me.Originally Posted by SShanique
Originally Posted by treewing
Can you explain the situation?Originally Posted by SShanique
Y'all don't even know what the guilt trip was or who it was from. I just know I felt really bad after the person talked to me.
I have two bosses, one male and female, and they are married. They don't get along well, though. Anyway, the female boss came to me one day in October and asked if I had a boyfriend. I said I didn't, and she responded with, "Well, do you want to marry a 45-year old Asian? He owns a restaurant. He doesn't have a lot of money, but he has a little bit of money." I couldn't believe she would ask me something so stupid. I didn't even know who the man was, but I figured it out later on that night. It was the guy who always comes into the restaurant (I'm a server part-time) and drinks.
Then the next time she saw me she told me who the guy was and told me he was going through a divorce. I still said I did not want to marry him! Then she upped the ante, saying, "He drinks so much. He drinks all day long." I thought she was empathizing with me, and then she said, "So he probably dead soon! So you get the car, the house, the restaurant!" She was so excited about it. I had to kind of wonder if he was even her friend for her to say something like that.
So, now I knew the guy liked me and tried to keep my distance. I thought of him as a joke. He couldn't ask me to marry him. He had to ask other people to ask me. Well, today I got to work, and he was probably already drunk. He came and really talked to me for the first time. He asked me if I didn't like him because he's Asian. He said that he had not gone out in a long time. He said that he's not happy. He has money, but that doesn't make him happy. He's just drunk. I'm guessing he meant that he drinks so much, because he's miserable. Anyway, he said that I could make him happy. He asked if I knew how. I said I didn't know. He said that I do know how to make him happy, because I'm beautiful and educated. He said that he didn't know how to express himself well enough but he wants to know if I will think about it. I was soooo uncomfortable. I just said maybe. My maybe meant no, but then he told me not to wait too long before I gave him my answer.
So, now I feel like crap. At first he was a joke who wanted to get married without even knowing me other than what he's seen and been told. Now that he's talked to me, he's a real person with real feelings whose happiness seems to depend on me at this point.
or what? he'll stop stalking you and go drink himself into oblivion elsewhere?Originally Posted by SShanique
Originally Posted by treewing
Can you explain the situation?Originally Posted by SShanique
Y'all don't even know what the guilt trip was or who it was from. I just know I felt really bad after the person talked to me.
I have two bosses, one male and female, and they are married. They don't get along well, though. Anyway, the female boss came to me one day in October and asked if I had a boyfriend. I said I didn't, and she responded with, "Well, do you want to marry a 45-year old Asian? He owns a restaurant. He doesn't have a lot of money, but he has a little bit of money." I couldn't believe she would ask me something so stupid. I didn't even know who the man was, but I figured it out later on that night. It was the guy who always comes into the restaurant (I'm a server part-time) and drinks.
Then the next time she saw me she told me who the guy was and told me he was going through a divorce. I still said I did not want to marry him! Then she upped the ante, saying, "He drinks so much. He drinks all day long." I thought she was empathizing with me, and then she said, "So he probably dead soon! So you get the car, the house, the restaurant!" She was so excited about it. I had to kind of wonder if he was even her friend for her to say something like that.
So, now I knew the guy liked me and tried to keep my distance. I thought of him as a joke. He couldn't ask me to marry him. He had to ask other people to ask me. Well, today I got to work, and he was probably already drunk. He came and really talked to me for the first time. He asked me if I didn't like him because he's Asian. He said that he had not gone out in a long time. He said that he's not happy. He has money, but that doesn't make him happy. He's just drunk. I'm guessing he meant that he drinks so much, because he's miserable. Anyway, he said that I could make him happy. He asked if I knew how. I said I didn't know. He said that I do know how to make him happy, because I'm beautiful and educated. He said that he didn't know how to express himself well enough but he wants to know if I will think about it. I was soooo uncomfortable. I just said maybe. My maybe meant no, but then he told me not to wait too long before I gave him my answer.
So, now I feel like crap. At first he was a joke who wanted to get married without even knowing me other than what he's seen and been told. Now that he's talked to me, he's a real person with real feelings whose happiness seems to depend on me at this point.