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You are a ******* moron, ninja. Just shut the **** up already.
You are a ******* moron, ninja. Just shut the **** up already.
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You are a ****ing moron, ninja. Just shut the **** up already.
Someone must be a Black Sheep if they can't get someone to watch their kids?
Occasionally, I am sure it can happen for those that have local family members.my quote was "if you're family members wouldn't wanna watch ur kids u either black sheep or not tapping resources"
im not saying drop em off carefree, but ya acting like ya ain't got aunts, uncles, lil nieces, nephews, siblings that wouldn't work in a pinch or something.
what you're saying is insulting and you don't even realize it.there's no blueprint to raise children, but seems some of ya ain't tapping into resources ya could use.
your family usually volunteers because they love you and your children...damn some of ya either black sheep, or ya don't live near em.
But CONSISTENTLY? 5 Days a week?
You don't see how that can be a lot to ask for?
Just take the L on this one ninja. Everyone's mileage varies. Being able to have the grandparents watch the child is a HUGE luxury.
And even if you got fam around, they all just sitting around waiting for you to drop kids on them all day? ...what he saying is a luxury and def more of an exception to the normninjahood You deserve a lifetime award for your commitment to the community. I honor and respect that.
But, I just want you to understand the things you are suggesting are in fact LUXURIES.
Sure, they happen (if your situation allows for it) but please stop painting this idealistic picture that somewhat vilifies anyone that DOESN'T have the same opportunities. Someone must be a Black Sheep if they can't get someone to watch their kids?
I think you are better than that.
Growing up with your mother and father IS a luxury though. Cuz the other side exists often enough that it's a real reality that you may only have 1 or possibly none.while i make considerations that some people don't live close to their families, sayings that family members taking care of your kids is a huge luxury is tantamount to saying growing up with your mother and father is a huge luxury.
father IS a luxury though.
"in a pinch", so you basically saying you gotta pay for day care most of the other times right? leading to what everybody initially telling u thats its expensive when they youngins...my quote was "if you're family members wouldn't wanna watch ur kids u either black sheep or not tapping resources"
im not saying drop em off carefree, but ya acting like ya ain't got aunts, uncles, lil nieces, nephews, siblings that wouldn't work in a pinch or something.
I kinda get it, but imo, you're only so far from the mud bro. Appreciate everything. Realize it's all blessings.nah, i draw da line there.
your family usually volunteers because they love you and your children...damn some of ya either black sheep, or ya don't live near em.