NT What do you consider "CHEATING"???

[johnnyredstorm]

if you're over 21 and in love (real love) then anything physical is cheating (kissing, copping dome, smashing, etc.). I don't really include a handy as cheating if it's like a happy ending or something a stripper throws in. If it's a regular girl giving you a handy, that kinda is cheating since things shouldn't have gotten that far.

getting random chicks to strip for you on Skype is cheating in the sense that you're giving your time to other women. yes, it's like a strip club, however a strip club is something you pay for and usually something you do sparingly. getting chicks to undress on skype is something you could literally do for a couple of hours a day.

 

[nicelikechrist]

We both just have to understand this:

If it bothers her, I shouldn't be doing it.

If it bothers me, she shouldn't be doing it.

Doesn't one person have more freedom of you go by this. I can only imagine all the things a female would get upset over vs what a man would be bothered by.

Take OP's case for example. His girl would be in the clear for a Skype session since OP doesn't really care about it but OP would not be able to do him because his girl would be bothered by it.

 

[h1n1proof]

IMO, anything that makes you feel guilty/uncomfortable or feel like you're being dishonest.

 

[niquefreak94]

Doesn't one person have more freedom of you go by this. I can only imagine all the things a female would get upset over vs what a man would be bothered by.
Take OP's case for example. His girl would be in the clear for a Skype session since OP doesn't really care about it but OP would not be able to do him because his girl would be bothered by it.

he's a LIAR
idc idc idc
if he catches his girl dirty Skyping Tyrone he will proceed to go ham

 

[champcruthik]

Everyone has different tolerance for defining cheating. I will say, sometimes emotionally cheating can be even more damaging than physically cheating.

 

[so nyuh shi dae]

it's different for everyone. it's important that you set these ground rules with your S.O. my S.O. and i both agree that anything intimate with someone else is cheating (i.e. kissing, touching, flirting, sex, cuddling, etc.).

 

[216301baller]

cheating is when you take someone else's girl out and blow her brains out and she gets on fb and says she loves her bf and can't wait to see him

 

[sherwin100s]

We both just have to understand this:

If it bothers her, I shouldn't be doing it.

If it bothers me, she shouldn't be doing it.

End of story....it's all about respect.

 

[meek meals]

Anything you don't want her to do, you shouldn't do.

That being said, I'm not going to be accused of cheating and not get my member wet. If I beat off to a girl on skype, and my girl tries to argue with me about it, argument is postponed until I go get the yambs live and in color, in real life, before i have to hear my broad's mouf.

 

[currensy]

Honestly I always call bs on cats that be on this "I unknowingly flirt with other females" and stuf like this. If it is so unknowingly how the hell do you know your doing it and why (moreso related to my drinking peeps offline I throw the challenge flag out on) dudes always doing something "they don't know what happened" that you can see them doing if sober. My one boy always sleeping raw with chicks and he always " I dont know what happened" well if thats the case why don't you go screw a dog raw or something else crazy then I'll believe it. lol Not to come at you I just think that is one of those wack excuses cats just come up with on some yeah that sounds good I'm running with it steez.

We flirt everyday man whether we know it or not, he prolly just didn't think about it at the time or until after it happened.

 

[jay6jay]

We both just have to understand this:

If it bothers her, I shouldn't be doing it.

If it bothers me, she shouldn't be doing it.

 

[kiiing]

We both just have to understand this:

If it bothers her, I shouldn't be doing it.

If it bothers me, she shouldn't be doing it.

I agree with this 100% but, females these days ..

Affiliating your self with anything sexual with another person is cheating. That whole Skype thing it's not cool either way .. if you think it's just fapping to another girl while on camera .. then you'd be cool if your girl did that with another dude?

 

[jayhood23]

If you wouldn't do it in front of your significant other then its cheating

If you have to question whether its cheating or not, its cheating.

 

[CHAOSE57]

We both just have to understand this:

If it bothers her, I shouldn't be doing it.

If it bothers me, she shouldn't be doing it.

amen

 

[txrook]

We both just have to understand this:

If it bothers her, I shouldn't be doing it.

If it bothers me, she shouldn't be doing it.

Wise words. All about respect.

 

[ricky409]

cheating = the biotch doing something she wouldn't be doing if i was there watching.
pretty straightforward

allllll of this...

Clear cut and dry...

 

[L7oser]

I NEVER said id be ok with my girl Skyping or that I do it. I was playing devils advocate so to speak when my girl brought the argument up. Id hurt something if I found out my girl was bussin it open for another dude on the webcam.
It was the argument in itself that made me think of the topic and how different people have diff views on what cheating actually is. So I thought id see what my NT bredren had to say on the subject since I know how some of you dude think on here.

 

[lyonbc1]

cheating = the biotch doing something she wouldn't be doing if i was there watching.
pretty straightforward

allllll of this...

Clear cut and dry...

Yup yup that's the best and really only answer

 

[niquefreak94]

I NEVER said id be ok with my girl Skyping or that I do it. I was playing devils advocate so to speak when my girl brought the argument up. Id hurt something if I found out my girl was bussin it open for another dude on the webcam.
It was the argument in itself that made me think of the topic and how different people have diff views on what cheating actually is. So I thought id see what my NT bredren had to say on the subject since I know how some of you dude think on here.

good to know bro, good to know

 

[ohmygosher]

Would hanging out with a female friend be considered cheating?

I've never cheated, but I was accused of it a couple years back. A female friend was riding in my car and my girls best friend called me to ask me a question. Before I hang up the chick in my car goes "Is that Ashley". Friend hears this and I get a bunch of texts calling me a cheater.

 

[ksteezy]

Ask yourself this question, would you be more ok with your girl having a girl being at a bacholerette party with a male stripper or with her finger popping herself on camera while some dude she knows is on the other side stroking his meat?...I mean is self explanatory fam, she's right.

 

[niquefreak94]

Ask yourself this question, would you be more ok with your girl having a girl being at a bacholerette party with a male stripper or with her finger popping herself on camera while some dude she knows is on the other side stroking his meat?...I mean is self explanatory fam, she's right.

THIS!

Would hanging out with a female friend be considered cheating?
I've never cheated, but I was accused of it a couple years back. A female friend was riding in my car and my girls best friend called me to ask me a question. Before I hang up the chick in my car goes "Is that Ashley". Friend hears this and I get a bunch of texts calling me a cheater.

Naw that's obviously (well it's obvious to me) that it's not cheating. If there's no sexual/intimate acts or implied intimacy then it's not cheating. y'all are just friends.

 

[lyonbc1]

Would hanging out with a female friend be considered cheating?

I've never cheated, but I was accused of it a couple years back. A female friend was riding in my car and my girls best friend called me to ask me a question. Before I hang up the chick in my car goes "Is that Ashley". Friend hears this and I get a bunch of texts calling me a cheater.

Yeah, thats not cheating imo (unless you're on your way to do something )....I know that feel though my girl gets like that too sometimes too annoying

 

[peteweezy]

Honestly I always call bs on cats that be on this "I unknowingly flirt with other females" and stuf like this. If it is so unknowingly how the hell do you know your doing it and why (moreso related to my drinking peeps offline I throw the challenge flag out on) dudes always doing something "they don't know what happened" that you can see them doing if sober. My one boy always sleeping raw with chicks and he always " I dont know what happened" well if thats the case why don't you go screw a dog raw or something else crazy then I'll believe it. lol Not to come at you I just think that is one of those wack excuses cats just come up with on some yeah that sounds good I'm running with it steez.

We flirt everyday man whether we know it or not, he prolly just didn't think about it at the time or until after it happened.

Well we can agree to disagree cause I know I don't flirt everyday. I sure as hell know when I'm doing it too and being nice isn't the same thing cause I'm that way to everybody. Now if being nice is flirting ok I'm guilty then lol.

 

[Peep Game]

Ask yourself this question, would you be more ok with your girl having a girl being at a bacholerette party with a male stripper or with her finger popping herself on camera while some dude she knows is on the other side stroking his meat?...I mean is self explanatory fam, she's right.

Hahaha damn, self explanatory indeed.

As for as OP's question, if you feel guilty doing something with somebody who's not your girl, then that would more than likely be cheating. People like to use gray areas to make themselves feel like they're not cheating, but you'd only be fooling yourself.