NT What do you consider "CHEATING"???

[reeeem0]

you smang that ***** and tell someone. If nobody knows anything, then it didn't happen ;|

 

[ohmygosher]

Would hanging out with a female friend be considered cheating?

I've never cheated, but I was accused of it a couple years back. A female friend was riding in my car and my girls best friend called me to ask me a question. Before I hang up the chick in my car goes "Is that Ashley". Friend hears this and I get a bunch of texts calling me a cheater.

Yeah, thats not cheating imo (unless you're on your way to do something

)....I know that feel though my girl gets like that too sometimes

too annoying

Naw man, it was completely innocent although I'm pretty sure the girl in the car knew what she was doing. 

But, that incident is what caused the break up (a couple months later). 

 

[jjs]

the one you smang knows.

 

[lyonbc1]

Would hanging out with a female friend be considered cheating?


I've never cheated, but I was accused of it a couple years back. A female friend was riding in my car and my girls best friend called me to ask me a question. Before I hang up the chick in my car goes "Is that Ashley". Friend hears this and I get a bunch of texts calling me a cheater.

Yeah, thats not cheating imo (unless you're on your way to do something )....I know that feel though my girl gets like that too sometimes too annoying

Naw man, it was completely innocent although I'm pretty sure the girl in the car knew what she was doing. 

But, that incident is what caused the break up (a couple months later). 

Smh yeah, sorry man thats tough...especially trying to defend yourself when you did nothing wrong, she very well may have know she was stirring up trouble by saying that. Me and my boy were discusisng this the other day but women really don't seem to have any kind of code, like they'll straight up try and snag a dude or sleep with him from their best friend (happened to my boy) then try and tell you "Oh don't tell such and such about this....she'll be really mad"

I think all females would only end the jealousy, paranoid behavior if dudes cut out all female interaction except for them and that's never gonna happen

 

[coldcity]

Doesn't one person have more freedom of you go by this. I can only imagine all the things a female would get upset over vs what a man would be bothered by.
Take OP's case for example. His girl would be in the clear for a Skype session since OP doesn't really care about it but OP would not be able to do him because his girl would be bothered by it.

he's a LIAR
idc idc idc
if he catches his girl dirty Skyping Tyrone he will proceed to go ham

 

[djyoung08]

 

[got2havemykicks]

Im gonna have to say someone that is preoccupied with someone else rather than you. if she keeps dedicating her time to her ex or that special friend, shes preparing to jump out of the plain with a parchutte. but if she doesnt like most females her paracchute may not deploy or just replace the chute with a 45Lbs weight.

 

[night marcher01]

Would hanging out with a female friend be considered cheating?
I've never cheated, but I was accused of it a couple years back. A female friend was riding in my car and my girls best friend called me to ask me a question. Before I hang up the chick in my car goes "Is that Ashley". Friend hears this and I get a bunch of texts calling me a cheater.

Naw that's obviously (well it's obvious to me) that it's not cheating. If there's no sexual/intimate acts or implied intimacy then it's not cheating. y'all are just friends.

That's what most guys say... until the tables turn, then you find out your girl has a "friend" name Tyrone. Y'all dudes starting crying and creating threads.

 

[do work son]

We both just have to understand this:

If it bothers her, I shouldn't be doing it.

If it bothers me, she shouldn't be doing it.

basically this + if the tables were turned and she was doing what you were doing, would you be ok with it? probably not

 

[Sancheeeto]

So i have a buddy of mine who recently got married and was telling me that his wife told him that anything other than a friendly "Hi" is cheating in her books.

I disagree with that, but their married. So my question is, is it another ball game when rings come into play?

 

[jayhood23]

So i have a buddy of mine who recently got married and was telling me that his wife told him that anything other than a friendly "Hi" is cheating in her books.

I disagree with that, but their married. So my question is, is it another ball game when rings come into play?

Cheating is a case by case basis so to speak, and when I say that I mean everybody is different.

To further explain, your homeboy's wife may consider him saying more than hi to a woman cheating where as your wife if you were married wouldn't think twice about it.

Basically couples determine what is cheating in their relationship.

 

[champcruthik]

For those rationally determining that couples uniquely decide the concept of "cheating" together, what happens when one person involved in the relationship or other is irrational and unfair? Doesn't that create a huge lingering inequality?

 

[jayhood23]

For those rationally determining that couples uniquely decide the concept of "cheating" together, what happens when one person involved in the relationship or other is irrational and unfair? Doesn't that create a huge lingering inequality?

It does and subsequently if that happens these two people won't work out in the long run, because there will always be that issue of fairness around

 

[champcruthik]

It does and subsequently if that happens these two people won't work out in the long run, because there will always be that issue of fairness around

I always feel that women that have been cheated on once or multiple times will likely encounter unresolved issues internally, usually projected on their next and future partners.

 

[jayhood23]

It does and subsequently if that happens these two people won't work out in the long run, because there will always be that issue of fairness around

I always feel that women that have been cheated on once or multiple times will likely encounter unresolved issues internally, usually projected on their next and future partners.

Yea buddy, you couldn't be more right