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Another sexual history thread. The trend of topics discussing a female's sex life before we encounter her had me wondering, when learning about the body count, and determining what's "acceptable" for wifey, or a girl we'd date comes up, do you disregard any physical encounters a chick may have had with another female? Does that not count to you? I don't see this get mentioned too often in sexual history discussions, so this prompted me to try and start this discussion.
Can't remember which thread it was, or which poster said it, but one NTer said that if he learns that a girl did sexual things with another girl previously, then she's automatically out of the running for a relationship. Said something to the effect of her being lost, or something like that. What's your take? I know the differences between female-male & female-female are clear, but do you still throw lesbian encounters into the "body count"? Would you be less bothered if your girl told you that she ate out 10 girls as opposed to sucking off 10 dudes?
And lastly, have any of your girlfriends, messed around on you with another female? I used to have this immature thought that getting cheated on by my girl, with another girl, was a cool scenario. That was in my premature, "lesbians are cool heh heh" stage. Spoke to a dude who got left by a girl for another girl, and he said that **** stung deeply. Hurt just as much, if not more, than a prototypical cheating scenario.
Just curious, y'all. And to answer my own questions, I haven't been cheated on with another girl, at least not to my knowledge. And for some reason, I shrug off physical encounters that a female had with other females. Not sure why, because the impact of emotional ties is there, and the mental aspect arises too, as far as her being mature or exploratory is concerned, but if I get to that "what have you done in the past" stage with a chick I'm feeling, if she mentions episodes with other girls, it doesn't move me.
Post if you want.
Cliffs:
-When investigating sexual history and figuring out a body count, do a female's sexual encounters with another female matter to you?
-Has your ex cheated on you with another girl?
Can't remember which thread it was, or which poster said it, but one NTer said that if he learns that a girl did sexual things with another girl previously, then she's automatically out of the running for a relationship. Said something to the effect of her being lost, or something like that. What's your take? I know the differences between female-male & female-female are clear, but do you still throw lesbian encounters into the "body count"? Would you be less bothered if your girl told you that she ate out 10 girls as opposed to sucking off 10 dudes?
And lastly, have any of your girlfriends, messed around on you with another female? I used to have this immature thought that getting cheated on by my girl, with another girl, was a cool scenario. That was in my premature, "lesbians are cool heh heh" stage. Spoke to a dude who got left by a girl for another girl, and he said that **** stung deeply. Hurt just as much, if not more, than a prototypical cheating scenario.
Just curious, y'all. And to answer my own questions, I haven't been cheated on with another girl, at least not to my knowledge. And for some reason, I shrug off physical encounters that a female had with other females. Not sure why, because the impact of emotional ties is there, and the mental aspect arises too, as far as her being mature or exploratory is concerned, but if I get to that "what have you done in the past" stage with a chick I'm feeling, if she mentions episodes with other girls, it doesn't move me.
Post if you want.
Cliffs:
-When investigating sexual history and figuring out a body count, do a female's sexual encounters with another female matter to you?
-Has your ex cheated on you with another girl?
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