- Oct 5, 2008
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Originally Posted by Dynasty Raider
Honestly, this might seem lame, but if Asian girls are instantly turning you down in person...look to the internet, seriously. You'll have better chances because you can show them what you're about without coming off that you're just trying to pull them off the street. Asian women almost NEVER respond well to men approaching them matter how respectful you come off, they usually mind their business and keep to themselves. Even if a girl thinks you're attractive, the odds of you getting her number are very slim, they just weren't raised like that.
One thing I noticed about Asian females over the years is that they tend to date guys in their circle or a mutual friend. You would've had a lot better of a chance if you were to walk up to them with one of their male friends that they've known for years. They just feel comfort in that. Sometimes they will automatically not give you a chance simply because they have no idea who you are. They can be really cautious. It's kinda unfair but it's life. But there are some gems out there, you just have to look harder than usual for the Asian ones. They're not gonna jump your bones like girls of other races might, sorry.
I'll give you an example of this..about a month ago I was parked downtown waiting for my (asian) girlfriend to get off of work. There was a nicely dressed middle eastern man walking down the street and he passed a fairly attractive asian woman and just spoke one word to her and she automatically put her hand up and waved him off, also while shuffling to the edge of the sidewalk. You would've thought he was trying to attack her but it looked like he was just trying to ask for her the time.
Another example, one of my Asian female friends had a little crush on this guy she would see at the library. One day he finally came up and talked to her and sat next to her at a table. Even after talking for 10 minutes, when he asked for her phone number she said no. When I asked her "WHY?!" she said, "I don't know him well enough." So yeah, it really doesn't matter. If you wanna pull a quality Asian woman it's gonna take time and effort.
I had an asian girl come over my crib within an hour JUST because her best friend told her to. Mutual friends goes a LONG way with Asian women.
and ask others what they would do.. im not looking for help or turning to the internet for help... i just thought it was a funny situation and thought i would share the funny story nothing more...
ayo Knicks, next time you approach one, just take off your hat. take em' for a swim
lol hahahfunny my dude, but it was a club no hat though.
I'm still taking notes. This problem is like a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma.
Then when i see a black dude with an Asian I'm like
same here bro.. i be likeat the same time.. like HOW?
dn't read the whole thread but you know some girls don't want to be looked at as "notch on a bed." the fact that that is your motivation might have been pretty obvious. maybe aim for more loose ones?
how is my motivation obvious? asking them how they doing is too obvious? asking their age is too obvious? it lets us know each others age, so no time will be wasted.. c'mon bro...
My dude. "So how old are you?" Your in a club, don't ask these middle school questions after the age of 21 cause it no longer matters.
can't front this made me laugh.. like i said in my prevoius post, it was a spur of the moment thing.. i was with my couzin and said yo ima holla..
i aint grab my quote lines from the pimp dictionary and was like lemme use this, line.. it was mad random... calm down
The problem is your approach. "How Yall ladies doing."
You are the same as all the other betas. Be more alpha.
Ex: Dance with girls in front of them Asian girls
dude no romo, when im in the club, i dance and i get it in (sounds mad funny) and everyone race be looking, black, white asian, all that.. i be flirting with them
they be peeping.. i always dance with em first then try to see whats up...