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So I found out this past Sunday that my fiancé is pregnant with our first child. She originally didn’t want kids when we first got together. She was content being that cool aunt. But as time went on, she wouldn’t deny me the chance of being a father. So this is more than likely gonna be our only child, which I’m cool with. We talked about having a child in 2-3 years, not now
Anyways for those that are married/living with the mother, how did having a child affect y’all intimate/alone time together? Social life/date nights? We have the support of both of our parents so watching and caring for the child wouldn’t be an issue. I just don’t want me and my fiancé to loose ourselves during this transition. We had alot of fun together. We didn’t really get a chance to celebrate the engagement cause we found out she was pregnant 3 days after the engagement I’m probably overreacting.
Anyways for those that are married/living with the mother, how did having a child affect y’all intimate/alone time together? Social life/date nights? We have the support of both of our parents so watching and caring for the child wouldn’t be an issue. I just don’t want me and my fiancé to loose ourselves during this transition. We had alot of fun together. We didn’t really get a chance to celebrate the engagement cause we found out she was pregnant 3 days after the engagement I’m probably overreacting.