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Honestly the grooms not gonna care. He's just tryna get through the day. But don't be surprised when you get a bad reference or a family that actually does care about small things like that speaks up about it.
Certain clients are finnicky and insecure like that. I've actually had coordinators mention this specifically to me about certain clients.
But ofcourse you feel it out before that special day anyways. Most of the weddings I've shot were straight up shotgun weddings anywaybut when you get those high drama brides and mother-in-laws and clients spoiled with whatever they ask for, and they don't want you looking better than their husband to be, it's something that should be respected regardless of whether you disagree.
I'll say it for the 3rd or 4th time, your fit was appropriate attire for an outdoor wedding.
but how do you guarantee you wont look better, do you ask the groom what hes wearing?....see how this doesnt make any sense?.....dude a fitted suit is not worn to upstage anyone at a formal affair, is worn to fit right in with the dress code....so i dont know what you getting at with the way i dress to shoot my weddings?.....tbh i shoot who i want to shoot, i dont live off this income, so im not desperate taking everyone who comes my way, i always meet my clients before hand, so the same way they are feeling me out, im feeling them out...if i get a sense that they are uptight or rude, believe me i bail even if they wanna book me for my most expensive package....rather save myself the headache and it has worked well for my business.
btw never had any complaints, quite the opposite about my personality and how above and beyond i go for my brides....so you passing judgement on my character based on what i post on here couldnt be more far from the truth...