One of my good friends has an insecure friend

[tomdiginson]

Op you sound like the guy you despise.

 

[tsx24]

Alright good point. But still, I really did try to be his friend, but it's not fun when you have to change your persona around him. Trust me if you met the guy you would know what I'm talking about. I'll take back what I said than.

if anything you should feel bad for him. I know that type. Overcompensating for something they probably are missing out in their lives and boasting to people on facebook to seek validation. If you take anything from this extremely backfired thread is that you should practice empathy and patience. It'll build better character in yourself and trust me there will be many more just like him that you will be FORCED to cooperate with. Better yourself by accepting those types instead of ranting about it on a message board.


the backfire in this thread

 

[allreds]

I didn't expect the major backfire ROFL. Not even mad, just when people interpret what I say differently and twist my words. I'm writing it from my point of view so I guess I understand when people assume that I am just being an ex-gf. The main problem is that my good friend is one of my best friends. If he was just an acquaintance this would have never been a problem.

 

[tr1ll]

Just tell him straight up. Yes, it'll hurt his feelings, but it will either A) Help him out or B) he'll leave you alone. If they're really friends, they'll be aight.

Yall are only pissed because is insecure and he has no reason to be, just let him know that.

Insecurity comes from a lack of confidence, confidence doesn't come over night either.

 

[finnns2003]

FR-S owner here, what you trying to say man?

Honestly though, the fact that he affected you enough to make a thread, sheesh. Stop crying about it and act on it. I'd have a man to man personally.

 

[joepac12]

not thread worthy

 

[createdestroy]

OP, i think you accidentally logged into niketalk instead of tumblr... you gotta make sure you label your bookmarks correctly.

 

[manny1]

Just tell him straight up. Yes, it'll hurt his feelings, but it will either A) Help him out or B) he'll leave you alone. If they're really friends, they'll be aight.

Yall are only pissed because is insecure and he has no reason to be, just let him know that.

Insecurity comes from a lack of confidence, confidence doesn't come over night either.[/q]

 

[johnnyredstorm]

is he in new york? i need a discount on patio furniture.

 

[allreds]

Nah we in CA b,

 

[ruxxx]

You sound weak as hell right now. 

Seriously though man... if the kid bugs you THAT much and he comes with your boy like a biscuit does a two piece combo... to hell with BOTH of em'.

 

[sofa king awsm]

punk him and stuff till he grows a backbone

shud b fun.

 

[kspar]

tell your boy you dont want to hang out with the other dude.
1. hell tell you why he hangs out with dude
2. he might be mad at u and not talk to you
3. he will only hang out with you, not as much though

though these triangle things happend with females though. be safe op

 

[water]

This thread 

 

[dt43]

Thread quality on this site = down the drain

 

[pdino]

Tell your mutual friend you're not down to hang out with his buddy.

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

punk him and stuff till he grows a backbone

shud b fun.

THIS. Don't be too disrespectful tho.
If this doesn't work stopping hanging with your friend.

 

[meek meals]

threads like these always turn out the opposite of what the OP expects lmfaooo

 

[allreds]

tell your boy you dont want to hang out with the other dude.
1. hell tell you why he hangs out with dude
2. he might be mad at u and not talk to you
3. he will only hang out with you, not as much though

though these triangle things happend with females though. be safe op

I know right? Sad isn't it?

 

[allreds]

Thread quality on this site = down the drain

Tell that to all the Ye threads, not mine please. This is the general section. You didn't have to comment

 

[dirtybuhbuhnew]

One of my good buddies has this friend that always tags along whenever we hang out with groups. I've tolerated him for a good 5 years but it's getting to the point where I can't take it anymore. He is insecure to the point where I just want to tell him off. I can't joke around him because he gets easily offended, but he can easily enjoy and laugh at your misfortunes. I talked to my friend about this, but there is like nothing he can do because they grew up together and are like family. Keep in mind that this guy has no friends and I can see why. Every all of us hang out I am hoping he wont be there. Seriously I have more fun when he's not there. This guys maturity level is also the same as a 10 year old, and he's 22. I can't have a man to man talk with him because he'll just go back to his old ways. I don't know what to do anymore man. This dude also always boasts about his whip, Scion FRS. I mean I'm not mad at the fact that he has it. He constantly posts pictures of it on FB (unsubscribed to him by the way) and it got really annoying. He never went to college and he sells furniture for a living and he has the nerve to talk down on other people. What are your thoughts NT?

You appear to be just as immature

 

[allreds]

^Thank you for stating the obvious, also useless statement. Now go back to the Kanye and Kim K threads

 

[youngdoc]

If he annoys you on Facebook then stop following him.

If he annoys you in person just brush it off or if It's major then confront him

 

[blakep267]

as people havw said, your friend likes him more than you. So you cant make demands.

 

[Ox.]

Nah we in CA b,

canada or cali?