Platonic relationships with the opposite sex Vol. it is really possible?

[n1rb]

me and some of my boys were having this conversation the other day.. my view on this is its possible for a man and a women to "act" like they have a platonic relationship but in reality there is some underlying motive behind one if not both of them.. any guy that has a so called girl friend will make a move on her if given the chance and i personally think females are naive to think otherwise (and every time i have this conversation there is a female who says "its possible").. only way its possible for a man to have a true platonic relationship with a woman with absolutely ZERO chance of him ever trying her is if the girl is ugly or the guy is gay

 

[icyhotpatch]

Originally Posted by bittersweet

For the sake of your relationship, you should chill out w/ everything you said.

You should NOT be telling another woman you love her, if it was the other way around, you would be PISSED OFF.

True

 

[Mark Antony]

My dude you wouldn't do that cutesy wutesy overprective +%#* if it was a dude. You both wanna smash.

 

[raptors29]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

The thing I am saying is I am not "friends" with women I don't have/had goals with. That might be where the tie up is. LOL

I won't hang out or waste my time with a woman I am not attracted to that doesn't work with me or go to the same school as I do. That is all I am saying. It is a waste of time in my opinion. Time is limited as it is now. What do I look like spending my valuable time on a female that can't get me a new job, better grades, or sexual gratification. Won't be their friend just because she is fun to hang around and that is it. That is why I have male friends.

DC you're on point in this thread 

 

[swishasweets]

Originally Posted by raptors29

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

The thing I am saying is I am not "friends" with women I don't have/had goals with. That might be where the tie up is. LOL

I won't hang out or waste my time with a woman I am not attracted to that doesn't work with me or go to the same school as I do. That is all I am saying. It is a waste of time in my opinion. Time is limited as it is now. What do I look like spending my valuable time on a female that can't get me a new job, better grades, or sexual gratification. Won't be their friend just because she is fun to hang around and that is it. That is why I have male friends.

DC you're on point in this thread 

Word usually have a click away from ignore

Good in my book now

 

[eight2one]

i have a couple...not by my choice

 

[optimusprimeaphia]

Originally Posted by swishasweets

Originally Posted by raptors29

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

The thing I am saying is I am not "friends" with women I don't have/had goals with. That might be where the tie up is. LOL

I won't hang out or waste my time with a woman I am not attracted to that doesn't work with me or go to the same school as I do. That is all I am saying. It is a waste of time in my opinion. Time is limited as it is now. What do I look like spending my valuable time on a female that can't get me a new job, better grades, or sexual gratification. Won't be their friend just because she is fun to hang around and that is it. That is why I have male friends.

DC you're on point in this thread 

Word usually have a click away from ignore

Good in my book now

 

[dathbgboy]

Yall may be real tight and not wanna be in a relationship. But for the sake of curiosity, yall gon hook up. And it may a great experience but it will also be akward

 

[rayray84]

A lot of interesting points here.

 

[keepzdasneakz]

 

[crazy dav0]

if i look in my phone / address book ... most girls in there i've "talked to in some way shape or form" ...

my best friend is female ... and i prolly got like 5 that i am mad cool w/ ...

but RT ... i don't try to meet any women that i'm not trying to holla @ ...

can guys and girls just b friends ... yes ... in my case its usually if i'm not attracted to her ... or if i grew up w/ her or something like that

in a sig other i would want it to start out as friendship and grow into more ... but once again i'm not just trying to be friends in that case ...

 

[suckafree85]

Originally Posted by Jd0t86

Only Fat/Unattractive girls can be my platonic friends.

word to that