Talking More To Other Girls Than To Your Own Girlfriend

Yup. You gon click with one of the girls you talk to, she'll make you feel alive, you'll go on a romp with her for a few months. She makes you feel good about yourself, then you found out she's cheated, and actually you're the one she's cheating with, because she was bored with her main like you were. You're heartbroken. Bottom line though if you didn't really love the main, don't waste each other's time.
 
-Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about $!%+@%## in order to be comfortable?
- I don't know. That's a good question.
- That's when you know you've found somebody special.
When you can just shut the *@+% up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence.


it's not always necessary to talk about things. but if you can't speak to your girl about important issues in life, or your feelings, or what have you.. then yes you do have a problem.
 
Originally Posted by Homer

Yup. You gon click with one of the girls you talk to, she'll make you feel alive, you'll go on a romp with her for a few months. She makes you feel good about yourself, then you found out she's cheated, and actually you're the one she's cheating with, because she was bored with her main like you were. You're heartbroken. Bottom line though if you didn't really love the main, don't waste each other's time.
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Sounds like you're speaking from experience.
 
Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

-Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about $!%+@%## in order to be comfortable?
- I don't know. That's a good question.
- That's when you know you've found somebody special.
When you can just shut the *@+% up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence.


it's not always necessary to talk about things. but if you can't speak to your girl about important issues in life, or your feelings, or what have you.. then yes you do have a problem.


I don't see how this applys to the question asked...??
 
Originally Posted by Animal Thug1539

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

-Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about $!%+@%## in order to be comfortable?
- I don't know. That's a good question.
- That's when you know you've found somebody special.
When you can just shut the *@+% up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence.


it's not always necessary to talk about things. but if you can't speak to your girl about important issues in life, or your feelings, or what have you.. then yes you do have a problem.


I don't see how this applys to the question asked...??
well i dont know what he means by talkin to other girls more than his girl. im saying it's not always about talking about bs just to talk about it... if he can still have a real convo with his girl, then he may not have a problem, but if he can't and talks to other girls more , then he does have a problem.
 
Originally Posted by chrisasu28

It's only a sign if you make it one...
 Bottomline is, if i wasn't tied up then I would be smashing this side chick.
 
I see what you're saying. He can talk about irrelevant things to other girls like current things but when it comes down to something far more serious than a girlfriend is there for a reason.

I see.
 
Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

-Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about $!%+@%## in order to be comfortable?
- I don't know. That's a good question.
- That's when you know you've found somebody special.
When you can just shut the *@+% up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence.



it's not always necessary to talk about things. but if you can't speak to your girl about important issues in life, or your feelings, or what have you.. then yes you do have a problem.
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Originally Posted by Homer

Yup. You gon click with one of the girls you talk to, she'll make you feel alive, you'll go on a romp with her for a few months. She makes you feel good about yourself, then you found out she's cheated, and actually you're the one she's cheating with, because she was bored with her main like you were. You're heartbroken. Bottom line though if you didn't really love the main, don't waste each other's time.
minus the strange ending.......its true.....
 
Originally Posted by StonedFace

I dont think half of NT understands the question being asked
My bad yall.....

I have a girlfriend. I have been talking/texting/communicating/etc with a few other girls more than I do with my own girlfriend. As of right now these broads are just friends, which I'm fine with. I'm just wondering, from an outsiders standpoint, does it seem like something is off? Like why am I brushing my girl off
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Why are you brushing your girl off? We cant really answer that, we dont know whats going on with you and your girl.
 
Not necessarily a bad sign. I text/email/call other girls a good 10x more than I do my girl. But they all have a man and its 100% understood that nobody is cheating and that's that. I think its actually really healthy b/c it gives you a female outlet/coach/whatever that isn't your girl. So if you're having problems in your relationship you can go to another female and get advice from someone that knows everything about you/your girl/your relationship.
 
If you feel any attraction to the other girls you talk to and you find yourself talking to them more than your girl, i.e., you're on the phone with the friend and your girl calls and you ig the call, then yeah, it's probably a sign. I've been there in the past. Stuck through with the relationship anyway. It didn't work. I never cheated on that girl, but I've never wanted to cheat on a girl so bad with so many different women. I think the fact that I was always finding myself interested in all these other chicks was showing me how horribly wrong me and the ex were for eachother, but it took a while to accept it.
 
If your girls knows about your friends and is fine with it then cool. If you're hidingnit from her and that's a problem that you need to address before you get caught up.
 
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