the thread about nothing...

Let me elaborate, I am not saying that poor people shouldn't procreate at all. That is not the message I wanted to put out. But as parents who are poor, at least have some plans and ambitions. Otherwise, the kids are going to spend at least a quarter of their lives in poverty. That is assuming that all goes well for the kids, as in they manage to go to college and establish a career by their mid 20's.
 
Let me elaborate, I don't think poor people shouldn't procreate at all. That is not the message I wanted to put out. But as parents who are poor, at least have some plans and ambitions. Otherwise, the kids are going to spend at least a quarter of their lives in poverty. That is assuming that all goes well for the kids, as in they manage to go to college and establish a career by their mid 20's.
that's a completely different thing you're saying here though.

poor or rich, have some plans for your kids please.
 
One year we went to Hawaii as a group. She was non stop buyin stuff for her friends with his money. My buddy wanted this Hawaiian cookie with collectible tin case and she said no. My friend asked me to help him buy it and she tried to get mad at me for helping him buy it.

She’s a very simple minded dumb***.
I have nothing positive to add lmao. I just hope they bring each other happiness and are able to communicate.
 
gotcha...I would hope they don't feel like Either one of them is neglecting the family. so long as they have that understanding together.
My friend knows she’s not doing her part. She barely works part time, go home and sleep and not cook,clean or any chores. My friend makes a good 6 figures about $150k annually before bonuses and still do all that. When he ask her to pick up the kids cuz he can’t she gets mad and says he have it easy haha. She honestly thinks she’s the hard working one.
 
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My friend knows she’s not doing her part. She barely works part time, go home and sleep and not cook,clean or any chores. My friend makes a good 6 figures about $150k annually and still do all that. When he ask her to pick up the kids cuz he can’t she gets mad and says he have it easy haha. She honestly thinks she’s the hard working one.
sounds like buddy needs to sack up and move on. or maybe there is more there that we don't know?
 
I have nothing positive to add lmao. I just hope they bring each other happiness and are able to communicate.
Me too. I’ve known him since elementary. He’s prob the only person I trust and most honest. Sucks to see this happening.
 
sounds like buddy needs to sack up and move on. or maybe there is more there that we don't know?
No prenup. He have 3 kids and she will be taking a lot if theres a divorce. His family is doing well with a lot of rentals but he still worked hard and got a good degree and still make his own money instead of asking so she might end up taking some of those rental incomes too.
 
No prenup. He have 3 kids and she will be taking a lot if theres a divorce. His family is doing well with a lot of rentals but he still worked hard and got a good degree and still make his own money instead of asking so she might end up taking some of those rental incomes too.
charge it to the game, bruh...**** that eternal unhappiness ****...especially with someone not even trying.
 
charge it to the game, bruh...**** that eternal unhappiness ****...especially with someone not even trying.
Hes too nice. I’m not even making this up. She’s hella fake, she’s not kind hearted.

Anyways...went off subj from original. Sorry...but yea people that can’t afford to have kids with no plans to do better shouldn’t have kids.
 
that's a completely different thing you're saying here though.

poor or rich, have some plans for your kids please.

My original point still stands. I wanted to elaborate in case my message was misconstrued as in I don't think poor people should be able to procreate at all. But if they do happen to have kids, then try to provide for your kids rather than depend on others for help. Everyone should have plans whether rich or poor, but moreso the poor because there is less room for error. There are people who depend on food stamps and public housing but have no ambitions whatsoever while raising kids. Plenty of working people are barely getting by, what makes some people think they can have multiple kids and just rely on handouts?
 
Seriously though, if I have to pick between my kids becoming spoiled brats or being humble and dirt poor. I'd pick the former. Humility is overrated.
 
No prenup. He have 3 kids and she will be taking a lot if theres a divorce. His family is doing well with a lot of rentals but he still worked hard and got a good degree and still make his own money instead of asking so she might end up taking some of those rental incomes too.
He needs to have a direct conversation about roles and responsibilities with her. If he's the main source of income and she's not taking care of the home, that's an issue.
 
He needs to have a direct conversation about roles and responsibilities with her. If he's the main source of income and she's not taking care of the home, that's an issue.
He tried many times. She have a really bad temper and gets pissed off at him when he brings it up. It’s been an issue for a while now. He have cameras set up inside his home just to make sure the kids are home safe. But he sees her just laying on the couch watching tv. Sometimes he will text her to make some rice so he can prepare the rest for dinner and she gets mad. But if her friends asked for something she will be quick on her feet.

I don’t even acknowledge her anymore after the Hawaii incident. I saw what type of a person she is. Sometimes I would say to him that he have 4 kids, not 3.
 
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Hate seeing this Gif on Monday mornings lol
 
ashley so fine
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can't follow any more girls on IG.
my gf hits me.
 
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