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Dam it’s been 20 years since you jumped out that plane?Work anniversary today. 20 yrs!

That southern hospitality charm.Told this girl wearing a flannel that I would let her Deebo my necklace and bike
And she liked that ****![]()
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Congrats!Work anniversary today. 20 yrs!
I'm half way from where you're at. I just hit my 10 years a couple weeks ago..Instead of asking us if we mind the 3%, ask your family if they mind you spending less time with them.Need help TAN.
Any way I try to simplify the question leaves out a lot of context, but I'm not trying to get too deep into the details.
Im probably (probably) overpaid for my current role...its a breeze. And I'm off super early in the day allowing me to be present for my family (and for me).
Offer for the new role isnt the number i wanted...and they're not budging. But its not that far off from the number that would have gotten me to say yes. More direct reports. More stressful situations. Working later in the day so won't be as present for my family. Its a hybrid position so I most likely won't be going into an office on Monday's and Fridays.
With all thar said, would yall turn down a role due to a 3 percent disagreement in salary?
I feel like I'd be petty as hell to turn down the opportunity over 3 percent. But I feel like they're being petty as hell for not budging off their offer.
Need help TAN.
Any way I try to simplify the question leaves out a lot of context, but I'm not trying to get too deep into the details.
Im probably (probably) overpaid for my current role...its a breeze. And I'm off super early in the day allowing me to be present for my family (and for me).
Offer for the new role isnt the number i wanted...and they're not budging. But its not that far off from the number that would have gotten me to say yes. More direct reports. More stressful situations. Working later in the day so won't be as present for my family. Its a hybrid position so I most likely won't be going into an office on Monday's and Fridays.
With all thar said, would yall turn down a role due to a 3 percent disagreement in salary?
I feel like I'd be petty as hell to turn down the opportunity over 3 percent. But I feel like they're being petty as hell for not budging off their offer.
What's the company policy on jeans?Which position would let you rock the Olympic 7s on a non-casual Friday?
Dam it’s been 20 years since you jumped out that plane?
Congratulations though pa, I could barely make it to 3 years at one place so big ups on staying at the same place all those years!![]()

For sure. We've had those conversations. Again, not trying to get too deep into details, but we're not talking missing a ton of time going forward. But all time is precious, especially at my kids current ages.Instead of asking us if we mind the 3%, ask your family if they mind you spending less time with them.
Congrats!I'm half way from where you're at. I just hit my 10 years a couple weeks ago..
Way more cons with the new position, but comes with a much needed pay raise.Other than the salary, are the rest of the benefits what you’re looking for?
Weigh the pros and cons of both jobs.
I play single dad. And still would for the most part. Would just have to be available for the potential of more work calls post 3 p.m...that 3 - 5 time range, get kids home, get situated, etc...that will be the adjustment. And only a huge adjustment for 2 - 3 days a week when ill be in the office.What do you currently do after work and are you ready to give that up?
Already there...more reports though, which is part of the reason why I'm stuck on the value of me in that role.Do you want the responsibility of having people under you?
Boff'um.Which position would let you rock the Olympic 7s on a non-casual Friday?
Work anniversary today. 20 yrs!
Congrats!I'm half way from where you're at. I just hit my 10 years a couple weeks ago..
Need help TAN.
Any way I try to simplify the question leaves out a lot of context, but I'm not trying to get too deep into the details.
Im probably (probably) overpaid for my current role...its a breeze. And I'm off super early in the day allowing me to be present for my family (and for me).
Offer for the new role isnt the number i wanted...and they're not budging. But its not that far off from the number that would have gotten me to say yes. More direct reports. More stressful situations. Working later in the day so won't be as present for my family. Its a hybrid position so I most likely won't be going into an office on Monday's and Fridays.
With all thar said, would yall turn down a role due to a 3 percent disagreement in salary?
I feel like I'd be petty as hell to turn down the opportunity over 3 percent. But I feel like they're being petty as hell for not budging off their offer.
Appreciate the response. You smacking that nail with the hammer.what y’all doing w/this type job security?
since you seem to think you’re overpaid, surely the folk paying are already aware this is the case &/or may eventually come to that realization such that this would be the move to make regardless, but if your current job/title security isn’t on the wood it seems the only considerations are is the bump in pay worth the increased responsibility, stress & time away from/with fam? if not, it probably does make sense to put a premium on the number to make it overly worth trade offs because it seems like you are kinda pursuing this begrudgingly![]()
Appreciate the response. You smacking that nail with the hammer.
So, if it were you and the decision was put a premium on the role, and they came up 3 percent short on that premium, you saying nah, yall can keep it? Even if that pay increase was sorely needed?