thinkin about ur girls past hook-ups..

[young br3ad]

Originally Posted by Juve9ile18

OP it's not jealousy..it's insecurity real talk. My current girl wasn't a virgin when I met her, but she doesn't have bodies on her either. When i met my current girl, I was actually talking to another girl whom I took her virginity. So i had a choice and I picked my current. Why? Cause she's more experienced and knows what she wants. Even though being with a virgin is cool, they are still learning about there sexuality and what they do/don't like. Now back to my first sentence of insecurity...think and ask yourself if you ever asked your girl any of the following questions..

1) Have you ever had an orgasm?
2) Was the previous guy better then me
3) Was he bigger then me...
4) Did he last longer then me... and so on..

Only reason you would ask those questions is because you want to be the "best she has ever had". The more guys she's been with...then odds are not in your favor with any of those questions most likely. You have to look past all that and work with that you have or can bring to the table...both sexually and emotionally. Being confident in yourself will only make the relationship better. On top of that...girls are not dumb. The more questions you ask..and the more you show that her responses does hurt you, will only show her how insecure you are. In the long run you are only hurting yourself. Leave the past in the past. From my experience, the girls that I have smashed who had bodies on them were due to previous boyfriends or sex partners who played with their heads. The females were thinking relationship while the dudes were thinking smashing...that's all. Think about how many chicks you smashed that wanted to be in a relationship with you. now where do you think they are today? With the next dude. You're just a number on her list. It's the guys who make the females what they are today.

QFT

 

[awwsome]

Originally Posted by imsojayded

Originally Posted by Pmighty

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

But, let me ask this...how many girls here have been around them "familiar tracks" thinking it was just a threesome?

nobody is goin to answer that

what i did after prom is my business...

 

[copped]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

How do you guys live happy lives always worried bout stupid %#%%?

hit a nerve?

feel bad for dudes who wife chicks who been piped by a number ofmen.......one night stands show lack of self-respect, no dignity, and no shame....

how is that something stupid to worry about? all i know is the girls i've piped...when they walking down the street with another dude...I (and im sureother men in similar situation) have that feel in their mind that 'yep i hit that...and i could probably hit again..you loss homie'...

who as a man (and its possible for some highly respectable women to feel the same about men) wants to be in that type of a relationship...

NOT ME...i dont want to worry about another man having that type of possessiveness over my wife...i'd feel dirty...

FAIL to the current generation of MEN....what happened to wifing virgins...

 

[mytmouse76]

Whatever yall give her a

now and the minute you think she steps outta pocket on here you're gonna throw it back in her face about she's this andthat.

 

[habib77fm]

Originally Posted by MenaceI2IS0ciety

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

This reminds of that Dave Chapelle skit where they asked dave and his chick what was the craziest thing they did sexually. After Dave's chick said she had a 3some he said... "the craziest thing I've done is have sex with ol' gangbang over here"

That was on of my favorite skits of the show

one of my favs too

 

[i dont pass]

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by imsojayded

Originally Posted by Pmighty

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

But, let me ask this...how many girls here have been around them "familiar tracks" thinking it was just a threesome?

nobody is goin to answer that

what i did after prom is my business...

so basically telling NT that you got trizzy'd after prom

 

[mister916]

Originally Posted by imsojayded

Originally Posted by Pmighty

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

But, let me ask this...how many girls here have been around them "familiar tracks" thinking it was just a threesome?

nobody is goin to answer that

what i did after prom is my business...

 

[imsojayded]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Whatever yall give her a

now and the minute you think she steps outta pocket on here you're gonna throw it back in her face about she's this and that.

this

 

[im not you]

Originally Posted by I DONT PASS

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by imsojayded

Originally Posted by Pmighty

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

But, let me ask this...how many girls here have been around them "familiar tracks" thinking it was just a threesome?

nobody is goin to answer that

what i did after prom is my business...

so basically telling NT that you got trizzy'd after prom

not necessarily...could have been another girl involved

 

[awwsome]

Originally Posted by imsojayded

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Whatever yall give her a

now and the minute you think she steps outta pocket on here you're gonna throw it back in her face about she's this and that.

this

I personally aint with the double standard %*#! myself, i got a past, and i double dipped myself so what can i say to her?
As long as she clean.............

 

[gello 201]

I avoid asking these questions cause girls will then in turn ask me about my past. Largely, you can tell about a girl. You aren't gonna gonna feel everydetail, but u can largely tell. Just LOOK at a #$%#^, if it looks all beat to @#%, then it prolly has been beat like a red headed step-child.

 

[imsojayded]

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by I DONT PASS

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by imsojayded

Originally Posted by Pmighty

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

But, let me ask this...how many girls here have been around them "familiar tracks" thinking it was just a threesome?

nobody is goin to answer that

what i did after prom is my business...

so basically telling NT that you got trizzy'd after prom

not necessarily...could have been another girl involved

 

[sheardiboy]

Originally Posted by Gello 201

I avoid asking these questions cause girls will then in turn ask me about my past. Largely, you can tell about a girl. You aren't gonna gonna feel every detail, but u can largely tell. Just LOOK at a #$%#^, if it looks all beat to @#%, then it prolly has been beat like a red headed step-child.

I feel it. But If you're open with them first, they'll be more prone to open up and be honest with you. But thinking bout this +@**isn't easy. I tend to not think about it, but from time to time, thoughts seem like they come out of nowhere and stick for a while. Have me either like

or

. But "You're a fool if your main !%$$# is easy to !$$%."

 

[im not you]

Originally Posted by Gello 201

Largely, you can tell about a girl.

This is true more often that not. You can gauge these sort of those things the longer you're around a girl. But there are some girls who youjust can't tell.

I know of one broad...who I'm sure, based on the type of guys she dates and the type of girl she is outside of sex, that you wouldn't guess has caughtover 50+ bodies and done some serious pornographic type #*$@. Group and individual. She keeps that #*$@ on the LOW. Crazy thing is...if you didn't know herand you asked her how many dudes she been with...she'll tell you something like "3" and you'd believe it. There are aloooot of girls outthere like that.

 

[hazeleyed honey]

Originally Posted by Gello 201

I avoid asking these questions cause girls will then in turn ask me about my past. Largely, you can tell about a girl. You aren't gonna gonna feel every detail, but u can largely tell. Just LOOK at a #$%#^, if it looks all beat to @#%, then it prolly has been beat like a red headed step-child.

This is what I do not get...How can you really tell? Every girl down there just looks different. Is there an actual correlation saying that if agirl has been around, then her private parts will look specifically a certain way down there? What if it is just that she has been with one man and justhappened to do it a lot with him because she was a nymphomaniac or she just simply because she loved to do it a lot?Again, it does not correlate to hersleeping around casually. You can never really tell. Every girl looks different down there and it does not mean that if it looks a certain way then you cantell she's been around the block a lot.

 

[retroisback2008]

Originally Posted by Retroisback2008

Originally Posted by Super T1ght

a chick having 2 one night stands is nothing IMO. all girls are prostitutes to be honest. i have had my fair share of one night stands so who am i to hold others to a higher standard. it is what it is and the past is the past

i dont even wanna know my girls past and i think shes scared to ask about mine

I feel you.. but when a girl has sex with 7 dudes (1 One Night Stand) (Others Friendships/Relationships), compared to your 2 girls. Do you think its messed up? Should a Guy really care about it?

 

[im not you]

This thread reminds me of that scene from Clerks

. I'd post if itdidn't have profanity in it.

 

[gello 201]

Originally Posted by sheardiboy

Originally Posted by Gello 201

I avoid asking these questions cause girls will then in turn ask me about my past. Largely, you can tell about a girl. You aren't gonna gonna feel every detail, but u can largely tell. Just LOOK at a #$%#^, if it looks all beat to @#%, then it prolly has been beat like a red headed step-child.

I feel it. But If you're open with them first, they'll be more prone to open up and be honest with you. But thinking bout this +@** isn't easy. I tend to not think about it, but from time to time, thoughts seem like they come out of nowhere and stick for a while. Have me either like

or

. But "You're a fool if your main !%$$# is easy to !$$%."

Oh its a def. stain on the girl. For me to wife a chick I gotta KNOW her. I gotta be dating or whatever for like a year before i call her my own. Don'twant to find those skeletons coming out during the honey moon. Here is a little story for those who wanna read it. I know this chick who is a guidancecounselor. Really great girl, but she dismisses this one night as "a crazy night in college." She has been with 4 dudes total in her life, whichisn't bad for college + 24 years of age. That 'one night' she was teamed royal rumble style by three dudes. She was tipsy, but she wasn'tdrugged or incoherent.

I'm all about letting bygones be bygones (sp?), but there is a limit.

 

[i dont pass]

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by Gello 201

Largely, you can tell about a girl.

This is true more often that not. You can gauge these sort of those things the longer you're around a girl. But there are some girls who you just can't tell.

I know of one broad...who I'm sure, based on the type of guys she dates and the type of girl she is outside of sex, that you wouldn't guess has caught over 50+ bodies and done some serious pornographic type #*$@. Group and individual. She keeps that #*$@ on the LOW. Crazy thing is...if you didn't know her and you asked her how many dudes she been with...she'll tell you something like "3" and you'd believe it. There are aloooot of girls out there like that.

exactly...
50 bodies? how old is she?

 

[gello 201]

Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by Gello 201

I avoid asking these questions cause girls will then in turn ask me about my past. Largely, you can tell about a girl. You aren't gonna gonna feel every detail, but u can largely tell. Just LOOK at a #$%#^, if it looks all beat to @#%, then it prolly has been beat like a red headed step-child.

This is what I do not get...How can you really tell? Every girl down there just looks different. Is there an actual correlation saying that if a girl has been around, then her private parts will look specifically a certain way down there? What if it is just that she has been with one man and just happened to do it a lot with him because she was a nymphomaniac or she just simply because she loved to do it a lot?Again, it does not correlate to her sleeping around casually. You can never really tell. Every girl looks different down there and it does not mean that if it looks a certain way then you can tell she's been around the block a lot.

You are 100% right dude, you cant always tell. But, the more you talk and chill with girls, the more you realize they are almost all the same; look for thedifferences. The {0} are ALL different, but use a rule of thumb...I can tell by the way im %@$% a chick how it grabs me. However, a more universal approachwould be any more than 3+ fingers...carfax that trick. Again, some girls are genetically different, but LARGELY*, you know whats up. Oh, yeah and you can NEVERtell everything about a chick from the first night, so don't try.

 

[mikeislike]

to be honest, my last ex was a BIGGG time %*##. maybe its just me but i didnt really care about her past. her sex made up for it lol

 

[im not you]

Originally Posted by I DONT PASS

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by Gello 201

Largely, you can tell about a girl.

This is true more often that not. You can gauge these sort of those things the longer you're around a girl. But there are some girls who you just can't tell.

I know of one broad...who I'm sure, based on the type of guys she dates and the type of girl she is outside of sex, that you wouldn't guess has caught over 50+ bodies and done some serious pornographic type #*$@. Group and individual. She keeps that #*$@ on the LOW. Crazy thing is...if you didn't know her and you asked her how many dudes she been with...she'll tell you something like "3" and you'd believe it. There are aloooot of girls out there like that.

exactly...
50 bodies? how old is she?

She just graduated from Georgetown. She's about 21 or 22. I remember my dudes telling me about her. I got a call from my boy one day, told meto come through the crib. She in there topping like 4 dudes off while a few more was just standing there. Then dude looked at me like "you can touchher...do whatever you want".

At the time...I had never actually SEEN some !#!$ like that so I had the

look on my face. Shorty was pre med...straight A student...came from a strict family...it was crazy. I can't lie...I respect her in the sense that sheKNOWS she is what she is. She'll tell you straight up..."I just like sex and I'm a freak". She even cut _'s off when some sucker wifesher up (usually white dudes...I guess they don't know. She's white BTW and mostly us black dudes are the ones gettin down wit her). She ain't likethem chicks that try to pass themselves off as Ms. Goodie 2 Shoes. She just physically "looks" like Ms. Goodie 2 Shoes so it throws you off once youfind out what she about.

 

[ydbounce]

Originally Posted by I DONT PASS

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by Gello 201

Largely, you can tell about a girl.

This is true more often that not. You can gauge these sort of those things the longer you're around a girl. But there are some girls who you just can't tell.

I know of one broad...who I'm sure, based on the type of guys she dates and the type of girl she is outside of sex, that you wouldn't guess has caught over 50+ bodies and done some serious pornographic type #*$@. Group and individual. She keeps that #*$@ on the LOW. Crazy thing is...if you didn't know her and you asked her how many dudes she been with...she'll tell you something like "3" and you'd believe it. There are aloooot of girls out there like that.

exactly...
50 bodies? how old is she?

*@@% like that make you not want to trust anybody
Imagine you meet a girl at school or something and ya'll hook up and ya'll pics is up on FB or something and dudes that knew her from back home is like"Damn ole boy got caught up with that !%+%?"
And at the same time no one tells you and one day you just find out somehow.
That *@@% would hurt.
Cuz I'll out money up that shorty will be wifed by some Darius McCrary type dude.

It's best not to know but I understand the curiosity that can come along sometimes.
But we already know what is said about curiosity....

 

[mytmouse76]

Hazel I think they mean the way she carries herself than how she actually looks.

 

[bwood056]

smh.. get heated oveer this on the reg. girl im with now , been with for two yrs.. dated her in high school for bout 3 months , broke up with her to date herbestfriend.. then others, but in between that 2 or 3 yr off period before getting back she smashed one of my bestfriends ( at the time he asked if he could,and i didnt care) and couple other people that i know pretty well.. always get heated over it, wierd cause i wont hang wit my boy n her in the same place, didit couple times, and just pictured him doggin her..

...but that time inbetween i got buisy lol no regrets