THREAD ABOUT SITUATIONS (T.A.S) VOL. CORONA EDITION

I haven't spoken to my ex since we broke up Feb 13 and she sent my mother a message to get an update about a situation I'm going through because she knows I'd just ignore her.
Mom updates her saying everything is postponed because of the Rona. Ex owed her like $40 that she claimed she would pay back so Mom says to forget about the money and that she prefers remembering the good times and feelings me and ex had for each other.

I get MAD at moms because she updates someone I cut off about something 3 people close to me know details about. Also I'm even more angry about the other sentence about the good times and feelings part of her response because she knows the circumstances of why I broke it off. I feel like she being extra sweet to someone I cut out of my life for a very good reason. I don't feel like she got my back. She doesn't see it that way. Claims that just because I'm not with someone anymore she has to hate them (missing the point) and that that's just her way of handling things like that. I get even angrier and things haven't been the same for a week.

Am I trippin?

At the end of the day it’s mom dukes. She’s gonna do what she feels what she wants to do with your feelings/beliefs second.

she’s a woman, Just like how you have to constantly drill things in these joints heads about what your feelings/expectations are you have to do the same with your moms with even gentler care.

I know how you feel because my moms used to do similar **** with my BM and I would try to explain to her how that would be counter productive for me.

For whatever reason it eventually drilled into her brain to now my moms is an asset when it comes to the relationship with my BM and no longer a liability
 
I haven't spoken to my ex since we broke up Feb 13 and she sent my mother a message to get an update about a situation I'm going through because she knows I'd just ignore her.
Mom updates her saying everything is postponed because of the Rona. Ex owed her like $40 that she claimed she would pay back so Mom says to forget about the money and that she prefers remembering the good times and feelings me and ex had for each other.

I get MAD at moms because she updates someone I cut off about something 3 people close to me know details about. Also I'm even more angry about the other sentence about the good times and feelings part of her response because she knows the circumstances of why I broke it off. I feel like she being extra sweet to someone I cut out of my life for a very good reason. I don't feel like she got my back. She doesn't see it that way. Claims that just because I'm not with someone anymore she has to hate them (missing the point) and that that's just her way of handling things like that. I get even angrier and things haven't been the same for a week.

Am I trippin?
Nothing to be angry about. I'd just lovingly remind her I'd prefer her not to share details of my life with her much less anyone not privy to those details.
 
I appreciate the responses.
I'm like I ain't asking you to fight her on sight but damn match my energy towards someone you met through me. I spent more time around her family than she did mine. Met a lot more people from her side and even if she told them the truth about what happened, ain't no way in hell they'd be as nice as my mother was to her. And I'm sure as hell she ain't tell the truth because she tried to spin it to my mother whom she knows I can easily talk to. Ain't no way if I did what she did, I'd hit her parents up asking for details about her current life and I'd get a let's focus on the good times y'all spent together. And I'm completely in the right. It's one thing if I did her wrong and I got with a new girl that she doesn't like and she prefers my ex. That happens plenty of time and that I can understand but this nope.
After thinking about it, part of what makes me mad is that the only way (and I know it's lame and she don't eem deserve this much energy) I can sorta get my ex back a little is by completely freezing her out.
I asked my stepfather about hypothetically similar situations involving his kids and he responded he wouldn't say **** to their exes because **** the exes. He realized why my line of questioning was the way it was too late :lol: . I ain't press him too much because his job is shutdown for now and being stuck at home with your wife when you think she's wrong ain't gon be fun. He agreed with me that the energy towards someone you met through me should be similar especially if I got tension towards that person. At least extremely neutral.
M Mark Antony I told her that if she's gonna tell the girl that info, why not go tell the neighbors too. She feels that she didn't say anything because there wasn't much to report. She's STUBBORN but I think the way I got angry caught her really off guard because she's never seen me like that. I'm usually not one to have big emotional outbursts. She'll eventually try to talk about it but I'm kinda still mad and she won't be meeting anyone for a long time.
Sorry for the wall, it's the most I've gotten angry in a long time, and the thread ain't really moving yet.
I expect as the quarantine advances things get shsking. :lol:
 
I appreciate the responses.
I'm like I ain't asking you to fight her on sight but damn match my energy towards someone you met through me. I spent more time around her family than she did mine. Met a lot more people from her side and even if she told them the truth about what happened, ain't no way in hell they'd be as nice as my mother was to her. And I'm sure as hell she ain't tell the truth because she tried to spin it to my mother whom she knows I can easily talk to. Ain't no way if I did what she did, I'd hit her parents up asking for details about her current life and I'd get a let's focus on the good times y'all spent together. And I'm completely in the right. It's one thing if I did her wrong and I got with a new girl that she doesn't like and she prefers my ex. That happens plenty of time and that I can understand but this nope.
After thinking about it, part of what makes me mad is that the only way (and I know it's lame and she don't eem deserve this much energy) I can sorta get my ex back a little is by completely freezing her out.
I asked my stepfather about hypothetically similar situations involving his kids and he responded he wouldn't say **** to their exes because **** the exes. He realized why my line of questioning was the way it was too late :lol: . I ain't press him too much because his job is shutdown for now and being stuck at home with your wife when you think she's wrong ain't gon be fun. He agreed with me that the energy towards someone you met through me should be similar especially if I got tension towards that person. At least extremely neutral.
M Mark Antony I told her that if she's gonna tell the girl that info, why not go tell the neighbors too. She feels that she didn't say anything because there wasn't much to report. She's STUBBORN but I think the way I got angry caught her really off guard because she's never seen me like that. I'm usually not one to have big emotional outbursts. She'll eventually try to talk about it but I'm kinda still mad and she won't be meeting anyone for a long time.
Sorry for the wall, it's the most I've gotten angry in a long time, and the thread ain't really moving yet.
I expect as the quarantine advances things get shsking. :lol:
Being stuck inside with that energy is the worst you can do.
 
Just popped two of them PED's, can't bust. Balls hurtin like a mug

BM basically begging to me to nut in her, I'm killing her ****, she begging me to be with her, talking about ha I'm in her stomach

Snoring like she tryna breath the ceiling in

Silly

She tapped out way before I could even fathom a nut.

God bless the chewable Cialis
 
Just popped two of them PED's, can't bust. Balls hurtin like a mug

BM basically begging to me to nut in her, I'm killing her ****, she begging me to be with her, talking about ha I'm in her stomach

Snoring like she tryna breath the ceiling in

Silly

She tapped out way before I could even fathom a nut.

God bless the chewable Cialis
Thought you was rapping at first :lol:
 
Don't know how I'm just peeping this thread for real. :lol:

The rona has had me hella low key. Got a new spot and a few of my out of state joints were supposed to fly in one weekend after another. March was going to be wild for me, but needless to say all that got cancelled. :smh: :lol:

Phased through most of my joints on the home turf. Only but so many times I could entertain shorties who won't accept that they're not getting any more out of me than the occasional good time. Waste of money and time, so I just gave them the hard curve. Still have a couple who understand, so they come through here and there. Working on this joint I caught off IG dm's, but my game's never been strong when it comes to bagging women online. Don't think I've caught an IG/tinder/etc body. I need that in person energy, so the quarantine's blocking me for the moment. All good though.

Been kicking it with my main joint heavily for the most part. Tempted to just go ahead and make it official, but we'll see. She's a good girl. Been down with me for a good lil minute now. The three out of towners rescheduled their flights for May/June, so I know I got stuff to finish up.

The quarantine been boring, but I'm saving hella bread and I can get company when necessary, so I'm not trippin.
 
Just popped two of them PED's, can't bust. Balls hurtin like a mug

BM basically begging to me to nut in her, I'm killing her ****, she begging me to be with her, talking about ha I'm in her stomach

Snoring like she tryna breath the ceiling in

Silly

She tapped out way before I could even fathom a nut.

God bless the chewable Cialis

link to cop

Lmaoo **** put u automatically on 2nd round pause
 
Just popped two of them PED's, can't bust. Balls hurtin like a mug

BM basically begging to me to nut in her, I'm killing her ****, she begging me to be with her, talking about ha I'm in her stomach

Snoring like she tryna breath the ceiling in

Silly

She tapped out way before I could even fathom a nut.

God bless the chewable Cialis

Blue chew going to have y’all *****s in relationships :lol:. Ultimate PED. MVP performance type ****

Keep some on tuck for a baddie, 3ball or special occasion with tour main.

📝
 
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